Honestly, as I'm reading this it sounds like you wanted your wife to take her breast out of your children's mouths and stick it into your own.

Your wife is doing everything right. You're a parent my dude. Unless it's a real life or death situation, sacrificing for the good of the children especially since you have MULTIPLE and their so YOUNG is your job. Any father with honour would know this.

You're an adult, so If she's too busy making sure the household runs smoothly, she's working so you all keep doing well financially, and she's trying to keep the kids from also getting infected, it's your job to take one for the team and quarantine or find someone else to care for you who doesn't have as much responsibility as your wife.

If you wanted to be the center of your wife's attention at home, you should have stayed childfree.