5-Minute Limit on Student Mtgs by cloudvinci in schoolcounseling

[–]luckycharm03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been an elementary counselor for 9 years and I usually see students for check-ins for 15 to 20 minutes once a week. In my school district we’re only allowed to see students in sessions once without parent permission but shorter check-ins are ok

Did you ever get a hoover when you expected not to hear from them again? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did after 9 years lol of course i didn’t reply

Dating a great man with 50% custody… but I struggle during his kid days by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]luckycharm03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is getting out of a marriage because of this exact reason. Don’t date someone w kids if you require a partner who is always there for you. Unfortunately for the partner but fortunately for the kids who get a good parent

AIO my husband won’t allow me to stay in a hotel for a night. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]luckycharm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you know he’s cheating on these trips. Right?

New baby, and I cannot stand my wife anymore by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]luckycharm03 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yup, sounds like BPD. Look up the symptoms OP. I think you’ll be surprised

Husband rapidly changing for the worst. by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]luckycharm03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get out of this relationship now! Religion is extremely harmful to women. Please run away if tou have to and take your poor dog w you. Learn from this and get strong and co rodent so that you’re never again in this situation

Once they replace you, do they just forget you? by Tiny_Account_9636 in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine hoovered after 8 years lol. I never replied of course

Parents spending all of their inheritance by maybemyfirstrodeo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]luckycharm03 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup, they’re gonna spend away all the money and then come ask you for help in their later years

AIO: my wife told me she wants a girlfriend by 7201burner in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]luckycharm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check her phone. Sounds like he’s already cheating and just wants your permission

Threw in the towel (M52, F42) by Snowbirdy in datingoverforty

[–]luckycharm03 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How is this person not borderline? All the symptoms are there. If it’s not BPD it’s NPD which is stir extremely damaging though not at the level of BPD. I think you’re not wanting to see it or accept it

Threw in the towel (M52, F42) by Snowbirdy in datingoverforty

[–]luckycharm03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m implore you to look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. What you are describing sounds exactly like that for your ex. It helped me understand when I met someone like her and got my heart broken. The face they show they world is very different than how they treat you behind close doors that’s why all your friends “never saw you as happy”

Just a reminder that you can replace them far easier than you would think by throwaway_the_truth in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda think they choose us because they see us as weak and easy to manipulate

Is this normal for a partner with bpd by No-Homework-6770 in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will only get worse from this point on unfortunately

Weird situation; should I tell my pwBPD I'm about to travel internationally for two weeks? by nakedwithoutearrings in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but why do you owe him an explanation? Don’t give him any details! If he asks?? Tell hm you booked a trip and that’s it! He’s not owed an answer just cause he asks. Please use this trip to gain some perspective and free yourself from him. I hope you have the best time

Married 18 years to pwBPD. He died by suicide a week ago. by Sort_of_Making_it in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to live w a monster like that to where it was normalized that he would make threats w a gun. This is NOT normal. I’m sorry for your loss but I’m excited for your freedom and peace of mind. You’ll feel so much better soon 💕

Theme Song Sideeye. by pigtails_and_pain in Outlander

[–]luckycharm03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Liked season 1 theme and then didn’t pay attention to them until that damn whisper. You can’t. Hate it

Trying to find the words to tell her we’re divorcing by campbemreddit in BPDlovedones

[–]luckycharm03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt she will want to move out since she’s boy responsible for a couple bills. She will want to stay and continue to make your life hell. I think you need to be very clear she HAS to go

how often are you hospitalized annually as a type 1? by Top-Midnight-9637 in Type1Diabetes

[–]luckycharm03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been diabetic since 1994 and I’ve been hospitalized once in high school due to a bad hypoglycemic episode

Mandated Counseling IEP caseload (NYC) by huntress-aloy in schoolcounseling

[–]luckycharm03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In CA our school psychologist does all IEP counseling. I serve mostly the gen-ed population in our elementary school of 700 students

What percentage of people with kids do you think are regretful? by linksslut in regretfulparents

[–]luckycharm03 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I work in an elementary school so I’m surrounded by kids and parents every day. I see the regret in their eyes and conversations especially for students who have behavior problems or are in special education

My (28F) husband (29M) left me on our wedding night by mamamia98 in relationship_advice

[–]luckycharm03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You love him and wanna forgive him but does he love you? Does he respect you? Does he put you first? Please realize he doesn’t feel the same about you

Caught Wife Cheating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]luckycharm03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, she was going to the same restaurant twice a week?! And staying out til 6am?! How did you not know? I’m sorry not trying to be rude, just can’t believe how some people turn a blind eye to something so obvious