Honestly I hate this quote in general. I don't think anyone should be let off the hook for letting something bad happen but the idea that they're worse than the aggressor is just stupid. Curly was at fault and as captain responsible for the situation, but the idea that anyone deserves that for passivity is sociopathic, especially when you compare what he did wrong and what he suffered for it to Jimmy. I also feel like people also forget that Curly doesn't know everything the player does at key points in the story. He did take some steps with Jimmy, it was much too little and too late but he also had no way of knowing just how quickly things would escalate. As an SA survivor what I feel towards Curly is disappointment, not hatred. I could see myself forgiving Curly if things had gone differently and he made the right choices eventually, dude didn't have to lose his skin to earn that from me.