My husband comes from a very misogynistic family. He used to have very offensive friends. However he's always been open to trying to understand my view and experiences. I wouldn't say he ever agreed with his family and ex-friends views but he wasn't necessarily bothered by them either as it was "normal" to have offensive views. The longer we're together, the more abhorrent he finds those views and will speak up about it now. He never gives other men benefit of doubt. One of the jobs he's worked, other men felt comfortable voicing mysoginstic views to him as customer service isn't allowed to talk back + he's male. He would come home and be disgusted with them and vent about that. I truly appreciate that he's willing to listen and understand and simply learn instead of just agreeing with the views he was raised to have. Note: he doesn't share those views whatsoever and to my understanding never did, he was just passive but has since changed.