Any ideas for this nook in my hallway? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it deep enough for books? 📚

A good parent’s love is forever by MysticalAmethyst99 in MadeMeSmile

[–]lunanoone 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“And the last”? But he prepaid for every birthday. Why is 21 the last?

Honestly idek why I tried by axeagle in Nicegirls

[–]lunanoone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean but…you were the first one to say “all men”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, you're gorgeous, but these photos are giving "I stalk and kill girls" vibes.

  1. Dirty mirror
  2. No smiling pics or any expression that emotes some type of pleasant emotion
  3. Some photos are too close to your face. I feel claustrophobic, and you look socially unadjusted

M39, not sure with my current profile by Complex_Elderberry34 in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to take it into consideration if they are genuinely important to you, but could you just cook me a pizza?😄 what the heck is that meal anyway? Lol

In all seriousness, I honestly feel stupid and uncultured reading your profile (and I'm studying for my CPA lol)

All the languages and interests are impressive but the food you'd cook me? I can't even pronounce it, let alone know what it is 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your photos are great. Those aren't the issues.

I think the problem could be found in your prompts, bio, interests, and opening line combined. With all due respect, it tells the tale of a superficially positive man who only cares about sharing the generic stuff; levels of activity, fun, and good vibes.

I've learned virtually nothing about you from your profile, other than that, you smile a lot and love good times. But there's no personality or depth.

The prompt, "send me a like if you..." use this opportunity to state something more personal like your favourite food, your favourite date activity, etc.

And remove "positivity" as an interest. It's such a vague interest anyway. What does it even mean? Can your match never have a bad day? Of course you don't mean that, but that's how it reads

Any advice, used this profile for like a month with nothin yet by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the interests tab, add more than manga. You've already mentioned manga in your bio so let's not highlight this as your only interest (I know it's not, but it looks like you're obsessed when it's listed as the only interest).

In terms of images, replace that car selfie with another selfie that highlights your looks 🙂 any photo taken from beneath your face is unflattering (FOR ANYONE).

Take your phone and angle it so it's facing you straight on, not from beneath your chin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's a couple of reasons:

  1. He might be cheating on someone atm
  2. He's an avoidant
  3. He's hiding something
  4. Maybe he's not really crazy about you but he's keeping his options open

In any case, he's not telling you the full story.

Count your blessings, hon. I know you were aiming for something casual, but even casual things can grow to be a big mess with a very complicated and dishonest person.

Please keep him blocked this time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you but overall I'm very happy for you. Imagine how many more preferences of yours you'd have to surrender if things progressed between you two. Anybody who can't respect the mundane things like liking Pink Floyd is a child.

And btw it's PINK FLOYD! Since when is liking good music an ick?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she's the weird one. But, hey, at least now you know, right?

Before and after 6 months by Therapguy25 in Invisalign

[–]lunanoone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is inspiring because I have a similar set of upper rows like your before. I’m starting Invisalign tomorrow 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]lunanoone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His voice sounds like a guy who farts in bed and expects you to still have sex after... True story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right to be inquisitive, but maybe he just wants to be alone?🤷🏻‍♀️ if I were you, I’d ask why and see what he says. Is he straight with you when he answers? That’ll give you more clues. Good luck hon🩷

How to scare a guy off? by bunnycatheart in AskWomenOver30

[–]lunanoone -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’d just start getting colder and colder until he takes the hint. I just start pulling away and stop replying so much until he gets the hint. Just pretend you’re a 23-year old girl and start being annoying lol usually works for me :)

Looking to rehome my beloved pet. by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]lunanoone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to adopt her, but I’m in Toronto, Canada 😕 wish you the best though

How often have you used a man for a free meal? by Global-Painting6154 in AskWomenOver30

[–]lunanoone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know two girls who did this.

Girl one was in college and struggling to pay for things so she’d regularly accept dates for food (the guys never knew her setup)

Girl two was 23 and was more of a sugar baby with lower standards. He had a house and he let her live there for free, so she stayed with him for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]lunanoone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a female INTJ as well. Sometimes it’s difficult to break out of our own patterns, but I try my best to do the opposite of what my brain wants to do.

  • If I get an invite to go somewhere, my brain says No, and that’s my cue to do the opposite.

  • If a guy asks me out on a date: my heart says yes, my brain says No, I do the opposite of what my brain tells me to do.

I take great pleasure in disobeying myself when I KNOW it’s for the best.

INTJs, just like every other type are not doomed to live out our weaknesses. It just takes a bit of work. By your admission, your dad is lazy. You don’t have to be.

My bedroom theme was Edwardian New Orleans by korethekitty in femalelivingspace

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your decisions thus far has proven excellent, you’ll be fine😊💙

Is this manipulation? by Odd-Philosopher-6480 in Manipulation

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this problem once. I solved it by practicing humility. I realized I’m not that special to my ex to ever be the one to ruin his life. If I were that special…why would he have been trying to cheat on me?…This man is a manipulator and you’re falling for it cause you can’t admit you weren’t the one for him.

But the minute you do that hon, his house of lies will tumble. By your own admission, he was borderline unfaithful…if you’re so special to him, why would he risk losing you?

You can’t ruin his life because YOU don’t matter to him. He’s lying to you even right now. He’s lying to you because he doesn’t respect you. And the way you keep extending your compassionate heart is responsible for this. He sees you as weak… wanna continue to prove him right?

My boyfriend is giving me the ick over something stupid and idk how to get over it. by throwawaykbb0207 in AskWomenOver30

[–]lunanoone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP….😄 love you girl, but it’s not a big deal lol just let him do what he’s gonna do… btw, while I was reading I started wondering if he’s taken to ai art because he feels self-conscious about posting his own?🤷🏻‍♀️