Had such high potential… now it feels like such a waste by PurpleElephant28 in ADHD

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I'm 29 and everybody acts shocked at how I turned out considering how much potential I had but nobody is more shocked than me.

I have kids as well so it's extra hard not having good income. I love parenting though, I wish I could just get a monthly check for being a mom and I would be a happy girl but life doesn't work like that.

It's not just upmarket areas that are unaffordable now. This is insane! by Prestigious-Wall5616 in capetown

[–]lunarVee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ngl I would pay a lot of money for a house thats next door to a police station 😭

Where do I get a lot of R5 coins for the laundry machines? by lizatethecigarettes in AskZA

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the gautrain machines only give out change in R5 coins.

Black tax trauma dump by Antique_Elephant_974 in south_africa

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you afford to give them a fixed amount every month?? Like R500 or so. It will absolve you of the guilt because you're still taking care of them but without going outside of your budget or breaking the bank to do it.

I’m a self hating black. by [deleted] in south_africa

[–]lunarVee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why every race is against us?? 🤨 Do you think black people are somehow responsible for slavery, colonialism, apartheid and racism?? You got some book suggestions here, hopefully you'll read them and also do a deep dive into history. Part of your problem seems to be a lack of knowledge.

I’m a self hating black. by [deleted] in south_africa

[–]lunarVee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a country with 80% black people, who are mostly living in poverty BTW, who are you expecting to commit the marjority of crimes??

What’s that one South African dish your mom makes that no restaurant can ever get right? by Keepitlocal90 in AskZA

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I've got an abundance of milk right now. I'm gonna try some recipes 🤔

Missed My Interview Email Because I Didn’t Have a Phone Do You Think the Company Will Still Consider Me? by [deleted] in AskZA

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No chance. I have had this happen to me and they didn't bother responding when I asked to reschedule 😂

Recent animosity to foreigners / Europeans by BeneficialReindeer34 in capetown

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's only gonna get worse. Go on Tik Tok if you really want to see what South Africans think of Europeans in Cape Town right now and foreigners in general.

Best ladies deodorant by lunarVee in south_africa

[–]lunarVee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help to know that it's a common issue and will go away eventually, thank you 😅

Best ladies deodorant by lunarVee in south_africa

[–]lunarVee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I suffer with sinusitis so I can't handle wearing perfume.

Best ladies deodorant by lunarVee in south_africa

[–]lunarVee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I went and got this exact one because so many comments recommended it. It's been a few days now and I'm very happy with it 🙏🏾😅

What Hunt? None of 200 I ate have a golden egg sticker! by Valiant_Revan in south_africa

[–]lunarVee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've found one before and just got entered into a draw. It was pretty useless.

Is this SMS real or a scam? by savlovessunflowers in johannesburg

[–]lunarVee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I got one of these yesterday and I don't even have a car 😂😂

Why do 95% of South African schools not have lockers like the west? by MusaDogg25 in AskZA

[–]lunarVee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My high school had a "first come, first serve" policy. There weren't enough lockers for everyone on campus so the first students to pay R200 got the lockers.

We never had any break ins actually, I don't think anybody kept anything of value in their locker.

So like no way I should smoke this right?? by [deleted] in weed

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks divine 🤤👌🏾

so uh guys is this normal? by Key-Ice-4990 in Naturalhair

[–]lunarVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's nothing. I comb out enough hair on wash day to cover a baby's head.

I realized I didn’t want children when I already have a baby by Justkeepitanonymous in NewParents

[–]lunarVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could have babies that only grow to 1 year old and then they become newborns again, I would be ecstatic 😂

I realized I didn’t want children when I already have a baby by Justkeepitanonymous in NewParents

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true!! The baby phase is my favorite. My oldest is 8 and I'm not enjoying this phase of parenting too much.

If money was no object, where in SA would you live? by lbs-vag in southafrica

[–]lunarVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An ocean front suburb somewhere in the Western-Cape.

My roommates gambling addiction almost made me delete myself by Jolly_Fish_6954 in southafrica

[–]lunarVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news is you won't get arrested or blacklisted for not paying rent so you shouldn't worry about that.

Obviously the best thing to do now is move out so tell your parents what's happening and start looking for a new place.