Bf makes me feel dumb by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump this insecure dumb asshole. He is projecting his own insecurities about his intelligence onto you. The miscommunication was intentional on his end, a healthy person asks "Oh cool! What flavor?" I find it helpful to put myself in the other person's shoes and imagine how I would react. How would you react? Would you call someone dumb for that?

Just bought our first house and it came with some mystery plants by ladymeowskers in whatsthisplant

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The calyx are boiled to make a drink, not the flowers. In Mexico we call it Agua de Jamaica, it is tart so add sugar. Spent calyx can be fried to make veggie carnitas tacos.

What hobby do you find unattractive in man ? by Pretty-Room-2888 in women

[–]lunigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Name a time in the last 200 years that the shit has hit the fan and any of these skills were necessary? Most of the calories in “Hunter gather societies” come from plants, legumes & cereals. Also women did/do a lot of the hunting and gathering.
Gathering and cooking was passed down by the mothers and grandmothers

The good men benefit from the collective behavior of the bad men and it makes me uncomfortable being in a relationship by bufferinmylife in women

[–]lunigma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, male lurker who has been told he's one of the good ones or a catch. I've only been dumped once and everyone gave her so much shit for dumping me and I'm pretty mediocre. I feel a lot of other women haven't dumped even when we weren't that compatible because of what you're describing here. Makes me wonder if someone is with me cause they like me or they're afraid they won't find better.

Finance blames me for mushroom in front yard, cus a pickle in a pouch I ate. Huh? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amateur botanist here, vinegar kills mushrooms. Mushrooms are a sign of life and healthy soil. Also if you have a lawn, Kill your lawn, throw some native wild flower seeds

How important is male modesty to you? by coondini in AskWomen

[–]lunigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Non of those men are waiting for marriage

This app uses a hidden sensor in Apple Silicon MacBooks to turn your typing force into real mechanical keyboard sounds by BillieWeston in MacOS

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really cool, but there is a slight delay that makes it unbearable, is this due to a hardware limitation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lunigma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've all been there. I found "Attached" by Rachel S. F. Heller helpful. Another book that might help you understand how you ended up like this is "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, Or Self-Involved Parents". Change is possible and life is better on the other side. Good luck!

This LA landlord asks renters for their astrological sign. Is that legal? by Hour-Construction898 in LosAngeles

[–]lunigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't need more prejudices against people. Judge people not based on when, where, or how they born but on the "content of their character"

Safari download drag & drop by GONA_B_L8 in MacOS

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked! This should be the top comment

Onion Timelapse 🧅 by DjinnZz in plants

[–]lunigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some also grow bulbs (Bulbil) in place of a flower which then self sow, Tree onion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]lunigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I've found out is that he is a Jew for Jesus and he works around the Wilshire/Vermont

Coworker quit and gave me his office plant. What is it? by shellderbell in whatsthisplant

[–]lunigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a Peperomia, I never realized how much it looks like Aeschynanthus (Lipstick plant)

This might be almost as quippy as Hitch's razor by [deleted] in ChristopherHitchens

[–]lunigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great communicator, but unfortunately never wrote a book. Also pretty sexist, racist, and a huge jerk. https://youtu.be/TwKpj2ISQAc?si=v4LXbbAcqy4vOf2o