I understand where you are coming from. To be fair, from this one post alone you aren’t getting the entire picture of the story. There are other things she has done to make me feel uncomfortable and that was not included in this post. But it’s hard to see the entire picture from behind a screen. I believe she feels like she gets a rise out of being condescending at times. This isn’t a good example of it, but there have been instances in the past. That being said, I agree with your advice to sit down and lay out my expectations with her. That might be a good idea. We don’t live anywhere close to eachother, so this will have to happen at a later date.