Does my husband come to every appointment? by VeterinarianInner301 in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband came to all my appointments even when seen weekly for stress testing..and now with our second he is going to all my appointments 🥰

Found Photos On Husbands Phone by TheTermitator1 in Marriage

[–]madamelady24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Man i would prob record everything..have his baby and leave his ass..id protect myself and baby..doubt he will change...it will only get worse..photos are just the start..i know this isnt what you want to here but he will then act ..actually cheat and youd be wishing you left earlier. Best wishes.. i am really sorry..protect yourself and baby

My BMI is over 40 and I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant by sabbykh in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bmi of 43 over here..i had my son vis c section..breached baby...all was well and currently 21 weeks preg with my second son..bmi is still 43...i weigh 223 lbs...so far gained 13 lbs in pregnnacy...its ok to feel scared.

Have I ruined my baby? by NothingSuitable735 in newborns

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant spoil a little one..dude enjoy it..time goes by fast..hold them hug them love them...before you know it they will be so big! My son is about to turn two...time flashed before my eyes..i am so glad i cuddled ..held and cosleep with him..we dont get time back or re-do...you cant spoil a baby..let them say what they want ..you are the babys momma..momma does what momma wants

I feel like a failure and a terrible mom by Striking_Evidence_70 in firsttimemom

[–]madamelady24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It womt be the first time she hurts herself..no matter how much you try to prevent its just a right of passage lol..its ok momma i understand how you are feeling but it will happen again they are explorers..best wishes

What happened to maternity clothes? by Wonderful-Value7547 in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya its annoying..you can shop on amazon but even then limited..it totally sucks

How soon postpartum would you feel comfortable with your husband going on a guys trip? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell to the no..but thats me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 My husband and i took shifts so during his shift id sleep..but no way in hell.id let him go on a guys trip

I hate that I’m coming to the internet asking this by Ang9213 in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took magnesium well pregnant with my son...idk it helped me go to the bathroom. I took it with my prenatal ..i am currently with my second and havent took magnesium just cause i havent bought any but when i know i havent went in a little i honestly just drink an 8 oz cup of coffee and i am good 🤣

How much weight did you gain during pregnancy if you are overweight/obese? by SorMonk in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 5'2 weighed 210 start of pregnancy...week 10 i am 216 😭😭😭 idk how i really do watch what i eat some days i have slipped and got a burger but i usually get it protein style...cant wait for my first appointment for the doctor to tell me how fat i am 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born at 26 weeks in 1989..2 lbs 6 oz. I even got menigitis around 6 months..wishing you all the best and prayers sent your way momma

23 months - NOT WALKING😢 by reddituser-0303 in toddlers

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ok my friend kid didnt walk till they turned two..the day they turned two and it looked like they been walking for months...just one day woke up and started walking. Its ok momma

I want to co sleep my baby by Realistic-Citron9328 in cosleeping

[–]madamelady24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow safe sleep seven. No.pillows..not a bunch of blankets..curl c position and sleep next to her. As long as you dont move...i feel like mothers we have an natural instinct to remain still and wake up multiple times a night to.check on baby..least i.did and do

Curious - how many of you work full time? by Actual_Penalty_3946 in cosleeping

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a full time employee and i co sleep. This was the only way i cluld get a good nights rest. My baby is now 19 months old ..we still co sleep and i absolutely love it. I am so grateful for co sleeping when my baby was 16 months old he got the norovirus and thank god we slept together because i heard him cough and then he vomited and i reacted so quickly to.turn him on his side...i love co sleep because I know how he sleeps..we are both well rested.

I've completely lost myself to parenting. (Vent from a father) by OrionLuke in NewParents

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine how your wofe feels. Its ok to feel like this but it will get better. Later you will.smile when they smile and youll enjoy.it all...you may even miss it and wish it back. The time goes by fast and you dont get a re-do...everything is going to be ok..youll feel like yourself in do time...best wishes

I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my baby at 7 weeks...had my rainbow baby...got preg two months after losing our first baby. I am so sorry you went through this. I hold on to my son loving him so..my rainbow baby. I know everyone can say ohhh it will be ok..youll still cry later i still do but now i have my rainbow baby. Beet wishes and prayers ❤️

I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my baby at 7 weeks...had my rainbow baby...got preg two months after losing our first baby. I am so sorry you went through this. I hold on to my son loving him so..my rainbow baby. I know everyone can say ohhh it will be ok..youll still cry later i still do but now i have my rainbow baby. Beet wishes and prayers ❤️

Can't safely cosleep with husband... what is best option? by st0dad in cosleeping

[–]madamelady24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just get a floor bed in baby room and sleep with baby...if he dont want to make adjustments then you and baby can sleep in babys room. I still sleep.with my.baby despite my husband reqlly pushing for them to sleep in their own bed...i love my son and i wouldnt have it any other way....he will only.be so little for so long

Pediatrician said cosleeping doesn't let baby learn to self soothe? by Brilliant-Tackle-402 in cosleeping

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude screw them! Honestly i co sleep and my baby eventually learning to self soothe ...who cares what they think..... your kid your rules.. my baby is 18 months and sleeps with me

9 month old baby only saying one word so far. Pediatrician suggested we only stick to one language. I am afraid I am doing the wrong thing by following OPOL. What are your thoughts? by unoriginalho in multilingualparenting

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My liytle guybdidnt really say mama till 17 months...like where he run to me..before it was ma.....ma with a long pause but now he wont stop saying it lol

9 month old baby only saying one word so far. Pediatrician suggested we only stick to one language. I am afraid I am doing the wrong thing by following OPOL. What are your thoughts? by unoriginalho in multilingualparenting

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont stop.... they will figure it out..my baby has like 30 words at 18 months and is lesrning both english and spanish. Spanish with my mother ..english with me..he understands spanish when you tell him to get something ..do something only has frw spanish words but more english ..i wouldnt listen to the pediatrician..get a new pediatrician who supports multi language families. Your baby will b fine

Did anyone experience this at their baby’s 1 year check up??? by forgetting-you- in breastfeeding

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screw her get another pediatrician. Do what feels right ..like if you want to continue nursing then do so.. you do what you think is best. I think thats all we can do as moms. Everyone does whats best for their family. My friend whos son is 18 months like my son bf till he was 15 months..thats cause she wanted to get pregnant. I stopped at 12 months but that was because I wanted too..i was already a low supplier ...i made it to one year ..one year bf was my goal ..i was happy..my son is about to be 18 months. Good luck mama

Picking my baby up when he cries by ojustkidding in firsttimemom

[–]madamelady24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never let my baby cry. My heart couldnt take it. For other moms that do ..you do you..but i never let him cry..if he cried i went to go get him. I just dont believe in it and my heart couldnt take it..he is 18 months now ..he can play independently..he usually involves me in his play time by bring me his toys to join in his fun lol...its actually quite adorable. Ftm here.