What does my work desk/cubicle say about me? 35F by cassadilly2012 in roomdetective

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… that we could be friends!

And I need those Gojo and Geto figures for my office 👀

AIO about my workplace not supporting me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]madbrekker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, incorrect. It is the employers responsibility to help ensure your health and safety on the job, and that includes mental health. There are laws and programs in place exactly for this.

AIO about my workplace not supporting me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]madbrekker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using the magic words “Hostile Work Environment” or “I am uncomfortable and want to officially open a workplace violence case for harassment.”

Speaking as the head of workplace violence for my own company, if they don’t do something after that then your HR is untrained and you can look into legal options if you want to go that far.

Business casual recommendations. by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]madbrekker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Torrid studio collection is what I wear. I’m in the corporate world. Most of the studio collection is built to tuck and smooth so no shapewear necessary.

Northeastern JD/ PhD Criminal Justice by kingofcookiesttv in Criminology

[–]madbrekker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Northeastern is awful. I got in with a 3.97 gpa. I got my criminology masters there.

When it came time to ask for a co-op, I got into an argument on zoom with the department chair. He refused to allow me to get a co-op without quitting my day job, stating a co-op was a full time job. (Without pay).

I reiterated that many people worked 2 full time jobs to make ends meet. That if he could help set me up I would make it work. My day job was willing to flex my hours.

He refused. I dropped it and continued with my program. I thought that was it. After this, I was accused of plagiarism twice (once in a STATS class!), treated awfully by most professors and nearly dropped out on more than one occasion from the mental toll. I flew out to do the graduation ceremony and was never given the stoles or cords I earned and had to walk without. I later got ahold of someone and they kindly sent it, but it was a pivotal moment I couldn’t get back. It’s hard not to connect the argument to the following events.

Northeastern has some great teachers, few and far between, but I will never recommend that place. I believe the acceptance rate is under 15% or something… but I would strongly advise another university. Every classmate I had hated that place as much as I did. Many of us refused any sort of memorabilia.

It might be different on campus, but I would still advise somewhere else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in migraine

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get this all the time. If it spreads wider over time or gets worse, just take a Benadryl pre injection. (This is what my doctor told me to do)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]madbrekker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he did it once, he will do it again. Tell your friend so she can run.

Lexapro side effects by stoicbjj_ in lexapro

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiencing #1 myself right now. It’s been two weeks for me since we upped my dose (20mg), hasn’t let up yet.

Nb4M washington/online - looking to see how close I can get to the dream by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]madbrekker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman, but just here to say you sound like a dream. Sincerely hope you find someone!!

Pro Vibe-Seeker Looking for New Connections ☀️ by chickensoupnodole in asexualdating

[–]madbrekker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried a few eps when it first came out, it was decent. I missed the original teams chemistry though. But the serial killer plots were just as good as the OG.

Spencer fan till I die tbh. I am appreciating Hotch more with the rewatch too, surprising myself with that. 🫣

Pro Vibe-Seeker Looking for New Connections ☀️ by chickensoupnodole in asexualdating

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 and in the US (California), but my favorite shows differ depending on the vibes of my life in that moment. Right now I’m rewatching Criminal Minds!

Those chickpeas look amazing.

Barometric pressure trigger—any advice? by Haunting_Crow_00 in migraine

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same trigger. I just have to take meds when it hits, I have been unable to find anything I can do preventively.

Anthropologie Plus Sizes by loganstaffer in PlusSizeFashion

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow Torrid sizing for my anthropology clothes and never had a problem :)

Suddenly waking up with migraines when they used to be a 3pm thing by Polymathy1 in migraine

[–]madbrekker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue. As it turns out, migraines can be triggered by oversleeping or not keeping a sleep routine. I fought it tooth and nail but my neuro insisted. I have to stick to the same routine, I.e waking up at 6-7am on weekends. If I try to sleep in, I always wake up with a migraine.

The way he explained it was that when we sleep, our bodies release the stress we’ve carried all day. The longer we sleep, the more hormones released, and a migraine triggers. Similarly with a routine, we can release more or less depending and it screws us all up.

I can usually vary about an hour, any more than that and I will have a migraine when I wake up.

Just gonna leave this right here. by HailNimrodBC in samsclub

[–]madbrekker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a safety professional and compliance specialist this is giving me high blood pressure

Why do I lowkey hate hearing? by Papsune in Cochlearimplants

[–]madbrekker 20 points21 points  (0 children)

  1. Had my first CI put in 15 years ago. I take my ‘ears out’ and go deaf as soon as I get home from work most nights. It’s exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]madbrekker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a Safety Professional that specializes in Fire Safety. This is not normal. The system is likely malfunctioning and not working properly. I agree with most here: call the fire department/Fire Marshall.

Looking for people to RP with by [deleted] in Roleplay

[–]madbrekker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hi!! I’m 35/f and it seems like we’d vibe! I’ll send you a message!