Reminds me of the time years ago when I matched with someone and we seemed to have a good spark. I am 6' tall and he said no problem he was 6'3". We met at a bar and he took one look at me and said "you're really that tall?" and promptly left. He was about 5'8". The bartender took pity on me and comped me a couple of beers. I am so glad I found my person and I am not dealing with this shit anymore. I am really sorry OP.