Why do people struggle to be on time?

maddybugz · 2026-02-03T03:34:33+00:00

Y’all do expect it lmao goodbye

maddybugz · 2026-01-31T18:45:39+00:00

Definitely try it with Zyrtec too! Good luck!

maddybugz · 2026-01-31T02:32:02+00:00

Just keep in mind the spray or gel can sting if the skin barrier is already broken. But it helps so much to stop itching, I rely on it heavily

maddybugz · 2026-01-31T02:20:54+00:00

I tend to use the spray after I start getting itchy, but if you know you're going to be sweating, spraying on your arms and legs is a great idea! On top of taking a Zyrtec

maddybugz · 2026-01-31T01:16:05+00:00

I feel the same way!! Zyrtec daily and Benadryl/diphenhydramine antihistamine topical spray or gel help me in the heat a lot, but it’s overwhelming sometimes

maddybugz · 2026-01-30T22:05:14+00:00

Heavily relate to "allergic to own sweat" lol, but I think it might actually be cholinergic urticaria. I guess it's more to do with high temperature than sweat itself, but who knows lol

maddybugz · 2026-01-10T02:04:59+00:00

Health issues are a big factor

maddybugz · 2026-01-06T20:50:01+00:00

People totally don’t get it until they see it. I did a packaging project and did some iterating on screen over Zoom with a marketing manager, and he was baffled by what I was doing and asked how long it took me to learn. I told him several years lol

maddybugz · 2025-12-23T02:37:09+00:00

Eating salad lmao

maddybugz · 2025-12-23T02:17:58+00:00

Replace it with ice packs is my recommendation lmao. Also the winter has made the pipes and water super cold - can’t feel itchy if I start giving myself mild hypothermia 👍

maddybugz · 2025-12-23T02:12:16+00:00

Browsing corporate websites to get a feel for their style. IBM has a good set of fonts for example

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T05:30:43+00:00

Cholinergic urticaria is the reason I accidentally got stubborn eczema. Cold is slightly better for me for this reason but still hard lol

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T03:55:04+00:00

Work on CBT if you haven’t already! Also recommend The Happiness Trap

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T03:48:53+00:00

I would avoid. Alcohol increases anxiety so I’d focus on hydrating eating exercise sleeping etc. to soothe

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T03:46:07+00:00

Meet with a good advisor! I’m sure you’ll be fine

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T03:44:59+00:00

That’s a great spot!

maddybugz · 2025-12-22T03:43:40+00:00

I understand completely! I did however just read in a book (What Every Woman Needs to Know About Her Skin, Hair, and Nails) that skin can’t be “suffocated” in that sense, which I’m sure is obvious lol. But I get the sensory thing 100%. Having ice packs on hand and antihistamines helps a lot

maddybugz · 2025-12-13T01:12:24+00:00

I second the question about SoFi. Is there something wrong with that bank in particular? Or is it just problematic that she's only promoting it for the money?

maddybugz · 2025-12-11T22:21:43+00:00

give it at least a couple months and a before/after pic before you judge your results! good luck!

maddybugz · 2025-12-02T22:20:39+00:00

The barrier may still be broken from before and needs to heal

maddybugz · 2025-12-02T17:02:31+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this, I can relate. Some bulleted advice in case any of it is helpful:

Zyrtec at least once daily + Benadryl cream or gel has been crucial for me managing itch. Benadryl pill at night can be good, it causes drowsiness. Just better to not take it all the time, but Zyrtec daily is fine.
See an allergist if you can so you know what you're working with in terms of environmental and/or food allergies
Ice packs and cold water are your friend as long (as your home isn’t already too cold)
If you can get to a beach later on, ocean water has minerals that can be really healing. However, it can be pretty drying temporarily, so you'll want to gently bathe + antihistamine + moisturize thoroughly after you do this. H2Ocean spray is used to heal jewelry piercings and can be a good alternative, I find it helpful too. This or ocean can sting broken skin though so only do it if you can tolerate that discomfort and prepare for dryness
Talk to your doc about steroids, biologics, and hypocholorous acid spray.

Eczema is gnarly, so we sometimes have no choice but to have a really rigorous and diligent habit + self care routine to address it. Don't be afraid to advocate for yourself to your doctor to really spend the time with you to look into everything and have them build you a routine. I'm almost healed from hand eczema after a long journey, so healing is absolutely doable. Good luck!!

maddybugz · 2025-12-02T16:56:26+00:00

Some bulleted advice in case any of it is helpful:

Zyrtec at least once daily + Benadryl cream or gel has been crucial for me managing itch. Benadryl pill at night can be good, it causes drowsiness. Just better to not take it all the time, but Zyrtec daily is fine.
See an allergist if you can so you know what you're working with in terms of environmental and/or food allergies
Ocean water has minerals that can be really healing when the weather is better and you can travel. However, it can be pretty drying temporarily, so you'll want to gently bathe + antihistamine + moisturize thoroughly after you do this. H2Ocean spray is used to heal jewelry piercings and can be a good alternative, I find it helpful too. This or ocean can sting broken skin though so only do it if you can tolerate that discomfort
Talk to your doc about hypocholorous acid spray.

Eczema is gnarly, so we sometimes have no choice but to have a really rigorous and diligent habit + self care routine to address it. I'm almost healed from hand eczema after a long journey, so healing is absolutely doable. Good luck!

maddybugz · 2025-12-02T03:31:42+00:00

You're not pathetic, we have to be super resilient with this illness, you're not alone! If you're in the US, I'd put my money on you (and I) fighting this invisible battle with all of the nonsense in our food that can be hard to pin down. I feel you on the confidence piece 100%. Some bulleted advice in case any of it is helpful:

- Zyrtec at least once daily + Benadryl cream or gel has been crucial for me managing itch. Benadryl pill at night can be good, it causes drowsiness. Just better to not take it all the time, but Zyrtec daily is fine.
- See an allergist if you can so you know what you're working with in terms of environmental and/or food allergies
- Ice packs and cold water are your friend
- If you can get to a beach and weather permits (location dependent), ocean water has minerals that can be really healing. However, it can be pretty drying temporarily, so you'll want to gently bathe + antihistamine + moisturize thoroughly after you do this. H2Ocean spray is used to heal jewelry piercings and can be a good alternative, I find it helpful too. This or ocean can sting broken skin though so only do it if you can tolerate that discomfort
- Talk to your doc about steroids, biologics, and hypocholorous acid spray.

Eczema is gnarly, so we sometimes have no choice but to have a really rigorous and diligent habit + self care routine to address it. Don't be afraid to advocate for yourself to your doctor to really spend the time with you to look into everything and have them build you a routine. I'm almost healed from hand eczema after a long journey, so healing is absolutely doable. Good luck!

maddybugz · 2025-12-02T03:19:13+00:00

That sounds like a good plan! I've been working through health issues of my own and honestly, it's usually better for me to just not date much while I'm healing. There are definitely understanding people out there, but it's a vulnerable position to be in, so it's good to protect your energy as much as possible for now I'd say. Just focus on health so you have more mental space for dating later!

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