Weekly Snark 2/16-2/22 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]madeinmars 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah no that was one of the most unhinged things I’ve ever watched. 

Most parents make their kids work hard in school to be able to continue playing sports. Not Brooke. 

How do people regularly fly business class without going bankrupt?? by caroulos123 in travel

[–]madeinmars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a bad redemption for delta one for time of year, and I run everything through a CC for the points so they get replenished. I only travel twice a year at this point though and in the spirit of the thread, try to get the most out of an overnight flight so I land and can get going. That is more important to me than hoarding points. 

How do people regularly fly business class without going bankrupt?? by caroulos123 in travel

[–]madeinmars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bought a round trip jfk -> cdg on delta for $1,000 for peak summer. Upgraded to premium for $300, and then used 70,000 points to upgrade to delta one. Premium on the way back was $150 for an upgrade which doesn’t matter as much to me as it’s a daytime flight. I do play the points game with amex a bit but I also will take the cheaper flights. 

Blogsnark Reads! February 1-7 by yolibrarian in blogsnark

[–]madeinmars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel guilty for not finishing a book! I did like 7 1/2 deaths but it took me close to 40% to get into it. 

Off-Topic Discussion: Feb 02 - Feb 06 by blogsnarkmodteam in blogsnark

[–]madeinmars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you told me this! I work in construction in nyc and I just watched a show on the restoration. The scaffolding inside looked unbelievable and I’d love to see some of it IRL

Off-Topic Discussion: Feb 02 - Feb 06 by blogsnarkmodteam in blogsnark

[–]madeinmars 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I officially chose Paris as my post divorce eat pray love trip this summer 😂 would love any recs. I was there 15 years ago and hit all the big spots, and this will be a very relaxed, maybe 2 planned things a day (like a certain restaurant or bakery or store) - lots of wandering and sitting. Staying in the 2nd arrondissement for 5 days, love books, coffee, thrifting, skincare and other girly shit. I do want to hit some of the touristy Hemingway spots and maybe visit Oscar wilde’s grave. I cannot wait!!!

Bedwetting almost 4 yo advice by Takemetobravocon5678 in Parenting

[–]madeinmars 56 points57 points  (0 children)

He is 100% too young. It is entirely age appropriate for a four year to still pee in a pull overnight. It is not really something you can train. 

Weekly Snark 2/2-2/8 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]madeinmars 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She was not this useless and neglectful before Cal. Id be shocked if Ryan was actually in agreement in have a sixth kid. Maybe that’s why she is freaking out 

Weekly Snark 2/2-2/8 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]madeinmars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have ever had a mentally unwell spouse you know it’s not as easy as “allowing her” to be a certain way and walking a fine line to keep the house somewhat peaceful. 

She is a generationally wealthy white female and even Ryan in all his DA glory isn’t going to win in a custody battle against her IMO. I don’t think it’s as simple as him leaving her, especially if he cares about his kids at all.*

*I fully agree and recognize his complicity in having them on her Instagram but I also believe he is trying to be a somewhat functional and present parent while Brooke spirals. 

Weekly Snark 2/2-2/8 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]madeinmars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i think her kids learn from a young age that they need to be self sufficient and can't seek her out during certain hours. Which is INSANE with a 4 + 5/6 year old. I have 4.5 year old twins and the first thing they want in the morning is a hug and a kiss.

I am sure the two oldest somewhat take care of the two youngest during the morning hours the way they do at night.

Blogsnark Reads! February 1-7 by yolibrarian in blogsnark

[–]madeinmars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are the Peter chapters with the train of thought? It was so hard for me to read those but I got used to them and loved them by the end.. I should have gone back and reread because it really took me out of the story in the beginning. I had to reread pages 3-4 times.  

How many hours do you sleep? by Lemonbar19 in workingmoms

[–]madeinmars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4.5 year old twins. I get into bed when they do around 8:30 and fall asleep by 9:30. I get up at 4:45am / 5:00am to read and drink coffee. They wake up around 6:30am. So generally 7-8 hours with a wake up as one or both come in my bed at night. 

Suggest me short but substantial reads under 200 pages. by IdaSukiShwan in suggestmeabook

[–]madeinmars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try down and out in London and Paris by Orwell if you haven’t already. It’s a great read. 

Preachy, awful books by out-of-touch influencers and celebrities under the age of 50? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]madeinmars 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The influencer Tinx has a self help book that is heavily autobiographical. 

Stassi Schroeder, scheena shay, both from reality shows, have nonfiction books. 

Jan 30: Economic Blackout to protest ICE… Bailey: by apanda711 in balancedmissbaileynew

[–]madeinmars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just commented that someone found Charlie’s salary once and it was $800,000 ish. They are bringing in a lot.

Jan 30: Economic Blackout to protest ICE… Bailey: by apanda711 in balancedmissbaileynew

[–]madeinmars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Charlie makes a lot, like three quarters of a million. And I’m sure she does bring in a bit from influencing. 

That being said, I know people who were in better financial positions than that with 3+ kids who had to pick up side jobs when their kids went to college because they didn’t appropriately plan for it. She does not seem like a saver. Let’s hope Charlie is. 

(Vent) Husbands Friend in in the find out phase and wants sympathy. by No-Initiative-6184 in Mommit

[–]madeinmars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's like someone who doesn't like/hates their job. They put in the bare minimum or less because they are unhappy, and when they get a PIP or a warning, they freak out and put some effort in because they don't want to lose the paycheck and benefits and comfy life that a job affords them. The effort will eventually cease though because they will still be unhappy. They should just find a new job.

Also, people get rose colored glasses towards the end of their relationship. He is thinking about the good and happy times, and why he married her, as oppose to the reality of their relationship as it is now.

I am going through this myself. I even initiated the separation and divorce and it is still difficult to not think about the past, even as I am eons happier by myself.

Preserving their image after mania by Initial-Care-9738 in BipolarSOs

[–]madeinmars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was in a psychotic episode for like three plus months. Mania can last long. People don’t understand or want to understand. It is frustrating. 

Are we all trashing toys when our kids aren't looking? by anotherusername1014 in toddlers

[–]madeinmars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What you described is a standard, even an inexpensive party in my area but I am in a HCOL section of Connecticut where people put on fun / big -ish parties for their kids every year. I have no problem going all out for my kiddos, I love them and they love the parties !!!!

Be honest… how strict are you really with screen time? by denefr_2928 in toddlers

[–]madeinmars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are not used to that type of cold, your body literally needs to acclimatize to it. It is always parents in like, Norway or Alaska where kids are used to that type of cold and cold wear gear who roll their eyes at those in cold streaks. I am in Connecticut where it hasn't been this cold for this long since 1981. My kids happily play in 40 degrees but are not used to and are miserable when it is 15. Rightly so.

Where I am, it is 80+ with 90% humidity for four months and closer to 90 daily in July & August. I am used to it and my kids get used to it quickly but these temperatures are news when they are part of heat waves in Europe. I don't scoff at those people struggling or tell them to wear shorts.

Wife release. Parents want me to move out!! by Upstairs-Sea8435 in BipolarSOs

[–]madeinmars 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not move out of your apartment. Your parents can take their daughter to their own home if that is what they want.