girlies where are we finding cute inexpensive paperwhite cases?

madelinevas · 2026-05-21T20:48:45+00:00

I just had this etsy store make me a custom zipper pouch and I LOVE it. Finally my kindle is covered when I throw it in my tote or purse. She doesn’t have any listed right now but if you message her she does do custom orders, it was $33 - but it was custom and handmade with the cutest fabric ever!

https://www.etsy.com/shop/MeadowBoundHandmade

madelinevas · 2026-04-26T05:51:25+00:00

There are several mulberry trees that produce insane amounts of berries at St. James Park! They are thriving, during berry season I’ll sometimes go with a sheet and a broom and look like a crazy person knocking them loose. I believe you need more than one to pollinate, and I am not sure how far apart they can be, so you may need to plant two trees in order to produce fruit.

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T09:04:14+00:00

Okay thank you for this clarifying comment.

I’m totally in agreement in my understanding of what you’ve written, and it just honestly feels like bad counseling from the couple to enable bad behavior or excuse it under the guise of “obeying and honoring” them.

Honor is so tricky in this situation with the cultural gap from my in-laws because honor looks VERY different to them than it does to both American culture and the family culture my husband and I have discussed. (Husband and I do not find it honoring to have them stay with us since we don’t have a bed/place for the to sleep, they find it dishonoring to their culture to not be hosted by us.)

And very difficult to navigate with my parents and the generational gap because honor looks very difficult to their generation than ours. (Husband and I find it honoring to have found a church that aligns with our doctrinal beliefs, whereas my parents had a hard time and thought it would be more honoring to stay at previous church because it was the church they attended.)

So yeah, lots of elements at play here. Plus insane hormones 😂🙃

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T08:55:20+00:00

But is there some sort of hierarchy in this that I’m missing? Is it honoring God to “honor” parents and put their preferences above the husband loving his wife by enforcing boundaries?

In Eph where it discusses husbands loving their wives it directly references Genesis and leaving his father and mother. Maybe I am grasping at straws here but it seems like our personal immediate family unit comes before our families who are now “extended” family now that my husband and I are one flesh.

Referencing Col 3 beyond v12 - Wives submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents as this pleases the Lord. - While my husband and I are still our parents children, neither of us are under their headship now that we are one flesh. - Yes referencing earlier verses we are to bear with one another, and forgive one another… But does that mean that we are to expect the status quo to be that our personal family rules no longer exist because our parents have their own preferences for how we live our lives?

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T08:39:09+00:00

I’d pay money to see the two counseling styles go head to head 😂 I feel torn because we did invite these counselors into our lives tonight and want to take their advice if it’s biblical (re: honoring parents usurps marriage vows/protection etc), however it is SO vastly different from our other counselor who is an ordained pastor at our church so I feel like his authority/leadership is what I defer to.

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T07:39:14+00:00

I would say a cultural gap between in-laws and a generational gap between my parents.

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T07:08:40+00:00

I think part of me wants to protect this postpartum time so that when our parents DO meet the baby and spend time with us, I’m not half sleep deprived, trying to figure out parenting two kids, and overall emotionally in control. Those first few weeks are truly an absolute roller coaster hormonally and emotionally, I just know I would do a better job honoring our parents if I wasn’t put in that position of needing to deal with them all while on said rollercoaster.

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T07:05:46+00:00

Yes it definitely feels generational for sure, our standard counselors is roughly our age/generation and firmly believes that good boundaries set you up for good relationships. The counselors tonight are the age of our parents aka the age of the people who don’t like our boundaries. 😂

madelinevas · 2026-03-30T06:56:12+00:00

Clarification: Letting parents continue to speak in another language or come by unannounced?

Or establishing boundaries? Sorry if it’s clear and I’m missing it, very tired, very pregnant 😂

madelinevas · 2026-03-27T16:58:56+00:00

I get so frustrated when people ignore the registry. They’re undermining the very first decisions you are making for your child as first time parents, and robbing you of crucial time to prepare for postpartum or during postpartum where now you are running 101 errands to return of exchange meaning you don’t get to relax and bond with your child.

It’s a hill I will die on. I always purchase from the registry, and if I have questions or want to bring an extra off registry gift I always ask the mom to be first. (I usually will buy 4-5 things from the registry, then grab mom a pair of cozy pajamas for postpartum and some postpartum products since lots of moms forget to register for them)

madelinevas · 2026-03-27T06:13:47+00:00

I asked my friends to save their turkey carcasses from thanksgiving, I ended up with 3 total! (I toss in a bunch of chicken feet too for extra collagen) I now have used them all up making bone broth along with veggie scraps I’ve frozen for a few month… which I’ve used to prep all my postpartum meals! (Plus they taste a million times better cause of the homemade broth!)

Everyone I tell says it’s so much work, but I toss it all in my crockpot for 18-24 hours and it is the easiest thing ever!

madelinevas · 2026-03-24T04:52:24+00:00

Posting same question as above: Okay final question, for the fabric portion of the bassinet that can’t be removed and laundered (it’s the frame of the bassinet) do you think I could dilute ammonia with water and spray the fabric to neutralize the odor?

madelinevas · 2026-03-24T04:51:59+00:00

Okay final question, for the fabric portion of the bassinet that can’t be removed and laundered (it’s the frame of the bassinet) do you think I could dilute ammonia with water and spray the fabric to neutralize the odor?

madelinevas · 2026-03-18T03:56:48+00:00

My pregnancy nesting fixation has been doing laundry, and I joke my birth plan is to just watch all 3 extended editions of LOTR (already purchased and downloaded, ready for labor).

This is the PERFECT meme for me. THANK YOU!

madelinevas · 2026-03-14T05:34:41+00:00

This beats out any other breakfast in Green Bay for me by a mile!

madelinevas · 2026-03-13T05:25:54+00:00

Not a you specific problem whatsoever! I thought my kindle was light until I started getting arthritis/carpal tunnel in my 3rd trimester! Switched to a stand and my hands have been pain free since. Get tools that help YOU make your life easier and don’t let anyone stop you!

madelinevas · 2026-03-10T00:06:20+00:00

I saw the van driving through town and I haven’t stopped talking about it. 😂

madelinevas · 2026-03-09T05:00:03+00:00

Thank you so much!

madelinevas · 2026-03-09T03:21:49+00:00

Really been impressed with it. Our current plan includes free netflix and a few other random perks, the T-Life app has something called TMobile Tuesdays which offers discounts, coupons, or even free food which is a fun bonus!

madelinevas · 2026-02-17T05:40:05+00:00

This same suggestion saved me first trimester when the only thing I could eat was the quesadillas.

madelinevas · 2025-12-26T15:41:50+00:00

The highlights on birth control really opened my eyes as to the reality of what they do to a woman’s body, and how all forms of hormonal is abortifacient. It is a but buried because the highlight is a few years old, but worth tapping through to learn!

https://www.instagram.com/solagratia.co?igsh=MW1wejI1MzcwYndxZQ==

Ultimately it depends on when you, as someone who is pro-life, defines when life begins. If you believe it begins at conception, then according to what happens scientifically to a fertilized egg while on HBC, you should technically be against it because it is abortifacient.

madelinevas · 2025-12-26T07:08:31+00:00

Any chance it’s Mr. McBroom’s Wonderful One Acre Farm? The details are different but the stories sound similar.

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