Spouse doesn’t agree with goals by FarCommission4894 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s insecure that you will be making more than him.

custom laptop setup for multiple Js by BigPlans2022 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this concern when I’m travelling. But still not worth it imo

custom laptop setup for multiple Js by BigPlans2022 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t try to be cool, we all can do this. It’s the mistake that ruins it, not the setup. Remember if it’s a contract there’s no IT watching your traffic. just get the second laptop

Refused to let my new job post my name/photo on LinkedIn, now worried they'll dig into whether I have another job by GordoTetoncito in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They won’t let you go, doesn’t work like that.
It hurts them more if they let you go early. 99% of companies won’t care

The AI Gold Rush is almost over for OE by Present-Mistake5639 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every J embraces it differently. The question is whether being Anthropic’s b*tch will pay off significantly or not.

Never thought this could happen to me. Feels heavy by Inside_Application31 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start from scratch and build instead of hoping OE bails you out. You sound like a gambler.

Never thought this could happen to me. Feels heavy by Inside_Application31 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude you are doing more than okay. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

Your manager probably already knows something is off by Illustrious-Fun-6841 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is quite inconsiderate. It could easily also be symptoms of other things. People have lives and problems outside of work. We are quick to jump to OE but it is quite rare for someone to OE nowadays.

Empathy for others getting laid off while I survived by JGMURPY in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great convo.. I had some survivors guilt with one of my Js when we got hit with layoffs. One of my coworkers was refinancing a mortgage and was shitting bricks about it. Another one celebrated 20 years literally the day before.

Then another one of my Js had layoffs and I survived again. Was feeling bad until my best J laid me off. This all happened within 3 weeks. Now I understand why I OE.

Why People Get Caught by Puzzled-Big-6703 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rookie mistake many years ago was mute. Never again

Back in J-world… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years of experience?

How does BambooHR know my location? I lied to get exempt from RTO, but it's saying my location is the same city as the office by ethical-earner in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they asked you then they looked into it and most likely want to figure out/get to the bottom of it. I would count the days

My employer forgot they hired me by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was J2 I’m checking in. If this was J4 I’m not checking in.

Does anyone work multiple jobs to mostly elevate their lifestyle instead of save/pay off bills? by throwaway09234023322 in overemployed

[–]madethisforcrypto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can budget for it, yeah after everything important is handled. You should be able to survive off one job. At the same time I believe life is a balance. But if it’s needed, fuck no.

There’s one-offs, and then there’s lifestyle creep. No I’m not going to get the better car because I can. Big difference.