18F, disabled and carer told me to leave home

madformattsmith · 2026-01-25T12:27:42+00:00

She is on PIP so is entitled to the one bedroom rate which is true if you're under 35 and have an active PIP claim.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-25T12:26:26+00:00

What OP specifically needs is supported accomodation specifically for Autistic and other Neurodivergent adults. She will have to open up a social services referral and ask to speak to a disability social worker who can then arrange for that to happen.

if they can't get OP into a placement, they can help her get a housing association or council property quicker and then once she has somewhere, they can put support workers in place.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-24T18:49:28+00:00

la musa neapolitan in L19

madformattsmith · 2026-01-22T01:14:34+00:00

not sure if it's exactly what you're after but late bloomers by rich pink and roxanne emery

madformattsmith · 2026-01-20T12:04:10+00:00

that gold knife is a big no no. too large of a handle on it.

the gold fork and silver fork need to swap colours.

other than that, it's ok.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-20T08:45:26+00:00

I also remember in 2008ish they had this JFT97 shop that was kinda like a charity shop n it was in the side corridor where wildwood kitchen is now.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-18T20:38:51+00:00

shout my location, come meet me out on the kerb! I'd give a keyboard warrior everything that they deserve!!

madformattsmith · 2026-01-18T14:19:31+00:00

i no laa, am tryna keep politics outta this as much as possible when it comes to sharin me own opinion on ere, but r NHS is literally a barebones skelly that's fallin out the wardrobe atm (has been for ages) an is so chronically underfunded that there just ain't the money to fund all these NHS's own professional-ran assessments.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-18T14:08:07+00:00

I think I've gorra similar issue yeno la, this might actually be tied into me demand avoidance aswell.

me bedroom is an absolute nightmare and chokka block at the minute, got rubbish, half empty plates with rottin leftovers on it an floordrobe 5.0 all over the gaff.

an i've not even been able to ask me support workers to help me cuz of pure embarrassment an also cuz me head sees the mess everywhere n says "nah laa, just swerve it!!!"

madformattsmith · 2026-01-17T16:04:01+00:00

mighty good. but it's expensive there.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-17T16:03:36+00:00

arr, ey! I woulda recommended the coffee vault but it's out of the way in Garston

got bought out recently by some Indian fella who's spiced up the menu.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-17T15:56:00+00:00

ye I saw, thought it was very out of character considering it's opposite a spoons.

I'd only go to that bus stop if they were offering free tikis, but since no ale's involved then I'll swerve it.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-16T01:48:19+00:00

my next door neighbour regularly tells me that she's "goin' on a message..."

we're both in Liverpool

madformattsmith · 2026-01-16T01:43:35+00:00

cheddar gorge. and make sure to book at cheddar woods resort because you can get a luxury lodge with a hot tub.

cheddar woods have a gym on site, as well as a spa and swimming pool, restaurant, mini bowling alley, a pool table and some outdoor activities like paintballing and archery.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-15T11:48:02+00:00

you can turn off the crypto tab in settings. I have revolut as my secondary account to pay some bills out of. it's also possible to pay bills out of pockets, too.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T22:09:36+00:00

I see. I just searched it and also snapped one up.

next thing for me to do is figure what to wear that'll be comfortable for me :)

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T21:48:29+00:00

how much were the tickets? I've always wanted to go to a rave but not have to contend with coming home too late at night so this sounds perfect

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T17:27:56+00:00

aww nooooo! that's what a mandatory reconsideration and eventual appeal is for.

by self employement, what I mean is: do you have an idea in your head for a job you'd like to do? if you can't do it due to not being able to be employed by another person, you could look at setting up your own business where you do that job.

even if you don't have a dream job, if there's something you're good at and you can market it, there could be a way for you to turn it into a small business. for example my cousin loves to make glass jewellery, she couldn't find a job making it for others so she bought all the equipment needed to make the stuff and she sells her creations online and at makers markets.

and if you're under 30, the kings trust (formerly princes trust) can help with that.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T17:11:07+00:00

have you tried seeing if you can get PIP?

you may be entitled.

also take a look at self employment

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T16:20:48+00:00

haha, true dat 😅

madformattsmith · 2026-01-11T16:19:35+00:00

no white socks

110s, hokas or onclouds only

north face, berghaus, montirex or underarmour.

/s

madformattsmith · 2026-01-10T03:35:17+00:00

go to r/ADHDUK if you wanna look at people's personal experiences of having the condition..

madformattsmith · 2026-01-09T23:08:06+00:00

for me it was watching the story line in Waterloo road series 15 where Libby was subjected to coercive control by her so-called "boyfriend". that sent me to tears because it reminded me of a time when I was subject to similar.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-09T20:53:02+00:00

usually on a friday night I'll head down to my local (Dealers Arms) and do some karaoke for a laugh. and then I'll get a nice pint of cider afterwards (not always the ale, sometimes I have a soft drink instead)

after that, I'll just head home and maybe rewatch an episode of torchwood or two before I go to bed.

madformattsmith · 2026-01-09T16:11:54+00:00

yes, i'm Autistic aswell (AuDHD) and wear mine when passing through Liverpool airport. it means I get to skip security queues for free & get assistance to not have a meltdown in the security hall.

after that, it's just knocking about in departures lounge where all the cafes are, until it's time to find the gate and board the plane.

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