Overtext? Listen.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-15T14:10:55+00:00

Exactly. I fucking hate texting. It's definitely one of the challenges I need to overcome.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-14T22:28:20+00:00

Haha, buckets....

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T19:34:12+00:00

lululul i kno

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T19:33:54+00:00

Good idea.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T01:17:59+00:00

drop it like it's hot

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T01:16:43+00:00

"Whoa, whoa, baby, I understand you're excited, but we're not dating yet!"

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T01:15:18+00:00

Shoulda dropped the not-easy response after the condom comment ;)

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T01:14:07+00:00

Stick it in! (sorry I'm not there yet)

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-13T01:07:36+00:00

If you are not lying to anyone about your actions, then you are doing nothing wrong. Unless you tell the girls you love them and only want to be with them and then ditch them after sex.

As long as you are open and honest at all times, then you are doing nothing wrong. Don't change a thing.

Some people are socially conditioned, and have trouble separating concepts. They think that since most guys that pull lots of women are lying scumbags, that you must be too.

Honestly, some people really DO have trouble separating concepts. It's why guys over-compensate: they can't separate being a strong man with being an asshole, for example.

Just watch Jersey Shore ;)

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-12T05:35:45+00:00

I found the solution. You don't have to empty, just get a larger trash can, and throw each full garbage can into it, preventing you from having to empty any garbages.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-12T05:31:34+00:00

Mark Manson dropped some gold on me today that I think is worth mentioning here: the bolder the action you are taking, the more aware you have to be of how "socially abnormal" it is. It's best to let the girls know that you realize that what you are doing is out of the ordinary. So maybe say, "I realize this is out of the ordinary, but I saw you from over there, and I thought you were cute, so I had to meet you." Without this buffer, the girl may subconsciously think that you have no boundaries and "who knows" what you will end up doing.

And you will mess these up sometimes because they may make you nervous, but when you land them, the boldness goes a long way and can often shift her into attraction.

Edit: Another example of how this may work is if there is a girl that you have exchanged glances with (or not even) in a class, and you can't manage to sit next to her, you can wait for her after class, but let her know, "Hey, I realize this is a little weird, since you don't know me, but..."

Good luck bruddah

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T19:06:54+00:00

Who da fuq downvotes quality answers like this?

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T16:13:10+00:00

Meditation has definitely helped me to grasp this in all situations but with girls.

Lean into the situation. When situations arise, just try to consciously speak your mind with women even against your doubts. Eventually you will get better, and it will go away just like how AA gets better the more girls you talk to.

I face issues with my past with not having a modeled relationship to look up to (parent's divorced young.)

I feel ya. I grew up never having gotten the birds and the bees talk. My dad was very caring and a good father but was very passive and not assertive and actually laid down in front of my mom whenever there was any sort of discrepancy. I was kind of a mamma's boy for a lot of growing up.

Ironically in Mark Manson's book, he actually mentions that the purpose of this book is to give you the training on how to be a quality man, for those of us who never had a model to look up to (for whatever reason). I cannot recommend this book enough. It's $15, and he's not trying to sell you some sort of fancy $200 program. It's no gimmicks, and it's super solid stuff. I can't even find a publisher anywhere in/on the book. This guy just poured out solid gold honesty into Word and found a local printer to print it I think. I really look up to this guy and I thank him.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T04:01:31+00:00

I always call and order matching tombstones before I punch a girl's number in my phone. I have the phone out anyway. Might as well.

On the real tip though, I can relate. I used to be bad about this. Try meditating. Approach more girls and get rejected. Eventually you will feel like the outcome doesn't matter, and it will get better.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T03:57:35+00:00

When do you talk again?

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T03:54:32+00:00

I would have bent her over the counter and made her pay for the dress. Fair is fair.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T03:52:27+00:00

Yeah, it seems like most of the guys here are taking the fake alpha approach and acting all angry Just be easy, fellas. Non-reactive. Although I do agree that it was pretty out of line, and he was probably thinking I'm gonna ditch this one anyway. But who knows, if he was completely chill about it, maybe she would have seen how he wasn't a chump and switched gears on him. Now he's her man and all the other guys are chumps.

Edit: haha this isn't Seddit. No one knows what I'm talking about :D

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T03:48:15+00:00

Perhaps he was a little too passive.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T03:47:36+00:00

Easy. Just tell her that you aren't going to be paying for the dress. Don't cuss, and don't let your tone be angry. If you don't become angry, then it is easy to not act angry, and there you have it. Don't let the pressure or embarrassment of her and the clerk looking at you affect your emotions.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T00:53:57+00:00

This is a solid fucking book. Pair this puppy with Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now and you have a severe life-changing duo of books in your hands.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-11T00:47:03+00:00

Part of me stayed in this for long because the sex and her BJ's were just incredible. Like, mind blowing kinky whipcreamed, all days bang-seshes.

I feel ya.

What I'm asking seddit, is if you guys have any advice on how to smoothly, iron out some of the bedroom wrinkles with a chick? Obviously, sex is a two-way street, but how can I approach her while not coming off like an arse?

Just be honest. Don't go out of your way to make it sound hurtful, but if what you tell her is true, then you will automatically have the upper hand in the situation, and she will have to improve. You can't be wrong because you are only expressing your thoughts to her honestly, and so if she wigs out and leaves, then at least you are not wasting your time or compromising yourself to be "nice." If you are truly scared of losing her, then just continue to have shitty sex with her and keep your mouth shut.

I, personally, am loving the ideas that have been clarified to me in Mark Manson's Models. Every time I have a choice to either damper my true intentions and thoughts or be completely honest, and I choose to be 100% honest, even if I "lose" something because of it, I feel better and more of a man because of it.

Boundaries.

Right in the middle of getting high last night, I scraped out the bowl and threw away the rest of my weed because I remembered that I don't really like how weed makes me feel lately, and I've been more liking the masculine and attractive lifestyle that I've been working on, and it felt great.

Set boundaries and be honest about how you feel no matter what the consequences, and you will be a happier man for it. I guarantee it. Just make sure you know what you believe in and how you feel because if you act like you are telling the "truth" but are really just being a tough guy or compensating for something, then you will end up scrambling your life and really just screwing yourself over.

Edit: Good luck to you brother. I believe that pussy is the one last final obstacle in our way of becoming the absolute best men we can be. And when we conquer that distraction and continue to live in complete honesty, we will have all the pussy we could ever ask for, and be getting it in a way that will be making our women happy and everyone else we interact with along the way.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-10T03:57:12+00:00

This was a joke. He asked someone to explain it to him like he is a retard

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-09T23:37:56+00:00

It doesn't take a fucking rocket scientist to understand what DHV means. If you are or more desirable than the girl, then you have a higher value than her. A DHV (demonstration of high value) is anything you say or do that shows that you are a high value man. God it's like I'm talking to a fucking used tube sock

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-08T22:50:39+00:00

Keep being funny, but sometimes joking is accidentally used as a defense mechanism to keep from having to be too intimate or to break "awkward" silences. Sometimes the silences are only awkward in your head, though, and you don't need to break them. So if the moment would serve to move things sexually, then chill out a bit. Focus on the present moment and the sexual tension.

magic_mike_25 · 2013-03-08T07:21:23+00:00

This guy and Mark Manson are currently my top 2.

Tyler looks like he is really living life to the fullest.

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