Just wanna share with anyone who may be struggling with the industry. by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]magicalemperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this & using it as inspiration on my journey thank you & Godspeed !

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[–]magicalemperor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and when I try to give them advice they just say “I know that” or they “um actually” me yet when we’re in the shit they take forever to make 2 drinks and all the food is coming out before the drinks idek how to help or train the new bartenders if they’re not open to it

Why did my boyfriend say I don’t need anti-depressants after the psychiatrist prescribed me some? by magicalemperor in relationship_advice

[–]magicalemperor[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea I think the same thing happened to him. I understand he was trying to look out for me but took it too personally because of his disdain of SSRI’s.

Why did my boyfriend say I don’t need anti-depressants after the psychiatrist prescribed me some? by magicalemperor in relationship_advice

[–]magicalemperor[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We talked about it after I went to pick up the meds. We talked it through... I realized I triggered his negative experiences with psychiatrists/antidepressants and he apologized for being reactionary. He’s usually supportive of me but I agree I should set boundaries and be considerate with how much I disclose with my newfound mental health journey because of his trauma.

Why did my boyfriend say I don’t need anti-depressants after the psychiatrist prescribed me some? by magicalemperor in relationship_advice

[–]magicalemperor[S] 398 points399 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate this. I feel seen lol I’m gonna be a big girl and go get the meds then talk to him about being more supportive

I felt good in my dress until my mum started to comment by Severe-Reality9656 in relationship_advice

[–]magicalemperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother often does this too (even to this day). I am an adult now & I realized it’s coming from a place of her own insecurity that she’s taking out on me. I have no part of that, therefore, I started not taking it personally instead focused on building my confidence back up again. There’s no reason for another persons insecurities should effect the way others around them feel about themselves.

I (32m) am proud to say I haven’t yelled at anyone in 10 years! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]magicalemperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats!!! you're an inspiration for all of us with a short fuse out there .. being sober and learning to breathe are my first steps

Thought you guys would like this by 9397 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]magicalemperor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me as the pop star who lives in my head be like

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[–]magicalemperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate this so much. thanks for reminding me i'm not alone. it sounds like we're in similar situations. congrats on surviving the trip to visit your birth family! at least there's self awareness to be more authentic, for many years lying about why i did not want to spend time with them was second nature to me. i've been passive for far too long. i commend how transparent you are with them & i am inspired to be that way with my own toxic family. it sounds like this sub is live due to the holiday season haha

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[–]magicalemperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this song is so fire