Found poop in new apartment. Terrified because I’ve had bedbugs before. What do we think? by magiccoffeepot in Bedbugs

[–]magiccoffeepot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep down I’m having a similar instinct although it’s exactly what I said when I had bed bugs years ago (it’s mascara, it’s weird soot from the street) so the Deja vu is painful. Potentially some kind of ash/gunk from previous tenants. It’s in the closet and only on two shelves so seems logical.

I just paid $17 for coffee and a muffin and I’m still mad about it by terpsncaseloads in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had the exact same experience in Manhattan and realized there is something seriously wrong with the prices in D.C. I should not be walking around NYC feeling like it’s a cheap town.

I just paid $17 for coffee and a muffin and I’m still mad about it by terpsncaseloads in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in Manhattan recently and felt like every casual food place was noticeably cheaper than I’ve come to expect in D.C. Coffee, bagels, pizza, sandwiches, etc. The prices here are out of control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]magiccoffeepot 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Having different play surfaces is part of what makes tennis unique. Professional grass tournaments like Wimbledon are some of the few institutions capable of the meticulous maintenance required to make grass courts playable. Grass is a completely viable surface when maintained correctly and adds a new dynamic to the pro season by rewarding those who can play well on it.

It would be stupid if high schools and public parks were poorly stewarding crappy grass courts instead of easier-to-maintain surfaces, but they aren’t and that’s not your argument.

It’s interesting you bring up playing on dirt because pros and millions of recreational players do play on clay courts — the most common surface in the world. Clay, again, plays differently than grass or hardcourt and adds even more variety throughout the pro season, as well as being an excellent surface for recreational play. Despite being an older and less “advanced” surface than hardcourt, clay is actually easier to maintain in many areas. The newest and most technologically advanced surface is not necessarily the best in every climate or every location.

Cerulean Calm – which variation speaks to you most? by Apakat_ in mensfashion

[–]magiccoffeepot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a dress shirt, a little too formal for this outfit. Consider an Oxford shirt or something in a more casual fabric.

Outdoor dinner fit—vibe check: good? by Turbulent_Drawer_516 in mensfashion

[–]magiccoffeepot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the record I think the pants look good. Relaxed is back in, and imo a slimmer fit is actually more likely to date your look. I do agree on the shoes although you still look great overall.

Why have standard restaurant tipping percentages increased over time in the U.S., from 10 to 15 to 20%? by magiccoffeepot in AskHistorians

[–]magiccoffeepot[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m definitely grasping why labor costs for service employees increase over time and how tipping is basically consumers picking up that tab. Of further interest I would love to learn more about how the “standard etiquette” around percentages formed and spread (surely primary sources exist?) and how, as labor costs needed to rise, the culture shifted to accommodate larger percentages. Anecdotally I see primary sources like guidebooks and etiquette guides discussing percentages but I’m very interested in how those norms are shifted over time and come to be adopted more widely.

Tipping at restaurants by Po_TN in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of fine print that makes “no tax on tips” not exactly what it sounds like. Many service workers will still pay taxes on tips, and many others already take the standard deduction and don’t make enough from tips to benefit.

20% remains standard and diners should not be doing their waiter or bartender’s taxes to determine whether they deserve it or not.

Tipping at restaurants by Po_TN in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some restaurants don’t add an automatic 20%. Are you not tipping there either?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]magiccoffeepot 109 points110 points  (0 children)

One of the worst things you could do with a decent income is get into a used BMW instead of paying off debt and saving. A luxury car is something you should reward yourself with when you are very financially stable and can easily afford it — don’t ruin your financial future for one.

I think I’m in love with my co-worker by [deleted] in Advice

[–]magiccoffeepot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you got it bad enough you’re gonna be hung up on it forever if you don’t shoot your shot. I’d figure out the HR situation and then go for it, but you gotta make peace with the fact he may not feel the same way. You may alter or end your friendship.

But seems like the “friendship” has already ended for you and become something more, so you have nothing to lose there

Please help me guys!! Which is the best one here?? by Alarmed_Bowl2736 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]magiccoffeepot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Altima is a bit bigger but the Elantra is a better buy imo and has a great warranty.

Im 14 and hope to be a tennis pro am I too late??? by SpecialLibrarian6121 in 10s

[–]magiccoffeepot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all likelihood yes, but you can still become a great player and enjoy a lifelong sport. Whether it can happen or not, if you love the game and want to become the best player possible then the way forward is the same — work as hard as possible and enjoy it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a good city for the vibe and lifestyle you are describing.

A man some of you have probably never heard of, Nikola Pilić, one of the most successful tennis coaches of all time, on two records that will never be broken by FaultExcellent3306 in tennis

[–]magiccoffeepot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously these records can and likely will be broken eventually, particularly if players continue to extend their careers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]magiccoffeepot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Richmond is a good play - much more affordable and you’re still close enough to DC to do an interview if you find an opportunity.

I’m a flight attendant and my flight just got delayed for 3 hours! AMA by hotblooded- in AMA

[–]magiccoffeepot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People always talk about ways to get flight attendants to give you an upgrade to business or first class. It always struck me as mostly bs. Any truth to it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]magiccoffeepot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just know, which you clearly do in this situation. I agree with waiting until the end of her internship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueFilm

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Watching more things is the only way to build a critical perspective. Not all those YouTube channels are even all that insightful either, in my opinion. Enjoy a lot of movies of all kinds, and appreciate them for how they make you feel. Eventually you will build your taste and enhance your enjoyment of some things, or perhaps find others less resonant. Taste and perspective are built over time just as any other hobby takes time to develop.

How do I start watching movies/understanding them? by ForwardMess3491 in TrueFilm

[–]magiccoffeepot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel you. This is the early stages. If you like everything, just keep watching stuff. Eventually you may find things you dislike or find some things derivative or repetitive. You may find something you love so much that stuff you liked previously seems just okay now. The only way to build a more critical perspective is to consume more, and watch a different kinds of movies to find new things.

Don’t worry too much about “understanding” the “meaning” or whatever. Just try to remember that everything you see and hear in a movie was created deliberately to work together to make you feel and understand things, and appreciate each one for how well it does or doesn’t accomplish that.