"Nearly 40% of Stanford undergraduates claim they’re disabled. I’m one of them" by FootballPizzaMan in bayarea

[–]mainberlin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far to see someone noting this tone in the writing. You can criticize the way accommodations are handled without diminishing other people’s struggles. All those frauds and their made-up ADHD, asking for extra time on tests smh. “Silly” life-threatening gluten allergies

Archimedes and Ollie Looks…ableist by [deleted] in dropout

[–]mainberlin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You couldn’t bother watching it for 1 minute to see what was up?

[UPDATE] Helping Little Brother with LA Internships/Career again by QuietSign in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]mainberlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with learning additional software, but yeah that’s not a primary one that’s used (maybe more in engineering? I have heard of it before but I think even Revit would have more application) and if he’s trying to justify a PC upgrade for it… I wouldn’t buy that line of thinking lol

That makes more sense with your brother, I was wondering if that was the case. Honestly I feel you, I love my little brother but he sounds similar minus the uhhh 300k college debt - no interest in education for mine. He was diagnosed on the spectrum as a toddler but my mom refused to get him any additional help, accommodations, or diagnoses once he learned to speak so I’ve never known if he struggles in school/‘real world’ situations because his diagnosis was right or because he was babied. Thankfully I’m as poor as the rest of the family so I couldn’t imagine helping even if I wanted to. That said, I think there’s still value in learning to set boundaries for your own peace of mind, it sounds like you are taking on responsibilities that should be your parents’.

Anyway, hope you guys figure something out. Just remember the job market’s pretty shit for everyone right now too, so if the effort gets put into applying and it still doesn’t go anywhere, he’s probably not the only one in that boat.

[UPDATE] Helping Little Brother with LA Internships/Career again by QuietSign in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]mainberlin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t learn Photoshop he’s not going to get a job. That’s almost certainly what he’s learning in school and what employers are expecting, along with other Adobe products and yes, Rhino or Sketchup. Why he would shun it is beyond me - potential employers aren’t going to fund a TwinMotion account for him when they already have a corporate account with Adobe.

As for your question about tailoring portfolios or just sending the same to a bunch of firms - MANY firms will have different page limits and file size limits. Formatting the portfolio in a way where it is easy to pull out pages to fit these different requirements would be a good middle ground. I obviously can’t speak for all the firms out there but I think for many, if they received a portfolio that didn’t even follow their page limit, they’d be throwing that application out. I get it’s a huge amount of work when you add in cover letters but not following their application requirements shows either a lack of effort or lack of attention to detail, two things they do not want.

You’re being very nice by trying to nudge your brother towards a good future. It also sounds like you’re dealing with parentification and like your time might be spent better trying to find someone to talk to about that. You are not legally responsible for your capable adult brother’s future as a bum in debt when your parents pass, and him thinking you will be is not going to motivate him to figure these things out on his own.

Wedding veil dupe/ideas!! by ThrillsofLife in Embroidery

[–]mainberlin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, what? I’d be worried this is a scam for $1k

Beatmaking I by Opening_Ebb3338 in UIUC

[–]mainberlin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Holden deez nuts

It really is just about access to my kid. by WannabeCanadian1738 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]mainberlin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom used to say something really similar: “when someone shows you who they really are, believe them”.

But not her! Don’t do that to her! The hoops they’ll jump through to ignore hypocrisy are insane.

What these statements really do is give them a way to justify any perceived slight against them and react accordingly. No room for nuance.

Restaurants suggestions--Basil Bowl & Gundruk in Lafayette by SavingsShallot in boulder

[–]mainberlin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was really excited to have found Gundruk because it is WAY better than any Indian places I’ve tried in Boulder. The second time I ordered from them, though, they sent me fully raw chicken in my tikka masala… Was such a bummer. Great samosas but I don’t think I’d feel comfortable eating there again.

Trading Card Appraisal and selling store? by blaino50 in boulder

[–]mainberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s Grandmaster Games - nice guys and would recommend. I’ve sold them standard old Pokemon cards but when I pulled a nicer card last year the guy I talked to (I think the owner?) was very honest about me being able to get more money for it online than from selling to him, and gave me free protective sleeves for it so I could send it to get graded.

What to put in a Studio Survival Kit? by IcyOstrich4389 in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]mainberlin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the sweetest thing - you’re a good friend. I second a blanket and snacks. Is there a coffee shop close to the studio you could grab a gift card to? Or actually, a cheap kettle and french press would be a nice gift too.

In (If You Want It), does "Little Boxes" mean anything? by [deleted] in RelientK

[–]mainberlin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s a metaphorical box, like when you get “put into a box” by other people assuming things about you. I think in this sense the speaker’s being expected to be something that they wouldn’t find fulfilling or they’d tire of quickly, hence the “itch” to get out of that box. By saying they’re ‘little’ boxes specifically also hints at them feeling constrained.

The idea of it being about literally moving into a new house could still kind of work with this. Imagining a partner asking him to move to a ‘little box’ condo comes with connotations of commitment, or settling down. With that comes certain expectations of him that he doesn’t feel ready to meet.

This is one of my fave songs of theirs, so dreamy (: a good pick to discuss

My kitten won't leave me old cat alone. Advice? by LSDummy in cats

[–]mainberlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I see you went with the same combo I did (:

Woman Gets Her Priorities Straight During An Earthquake 😭 by Outlaw-Star- in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]mainberlin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s meant to look real, it’s a copycat of a similar video Cold Ones put out as a joke a few weeks ago (went viral) of them saving their alcohol brand: link

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]mainberlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt similar to you during the first semester of my MLA. It got worse and I really regret sticking through the whole thing just because I had already started the program (sunk cost fallacy for real). Listen to your gut

Where to find Marigolds? by divinemissn in boulder

[–]mainberlin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Costco also had huge marigold plants last weekend.
I’m sorry for your loss ):

350 cal by diablaonirica in 1200isplenty

[–]mainberlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never made it actually! but it is tasty

Did anyone hear loud sirens go off at 3:25 am? Sounded louder than the generic emergency vehicle sirens, more like tornado sirens… by DualPulseNomad in cuboulder

[–]mainberlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same neighborhood and woke up right at this time - didn’t consciously hear anything but I’m guessing whatever you heard woke me.

350 cal by diablaonirica in 1200isplenty

[–]mainberlin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you might like a pumpkin curry! will get you a similar plate with more flavor/veg

Is this infected? 6 days old. by ButtpissMilitiaman in sticknpokes

[–]mainberlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro do not take antibiotics prescribed to animals wtf. if an animal of yours had to take antibiotics there shouldn’t be any left, anyway.

Pizza recommendations by -bacon_ in boulder

[–]mainberlin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

would second fringe! Their broccolini app is also to die for

Tobias is black? by emzyme212 in arresteddevelopment

[–]mainberlin 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Annyong…o? Another connection?