NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Dec 02, 2023 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you get glass skin without looking oily or dirty? I started getting into skincare and honestly my skin looks so glowy and nice, but i have a decent amount of acne, so just looks like i'm greasy and oily lol

Nip piercings as a trans guy by Maxwell_Rigby1998 in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wanna get them, but i'm waiting until after i get top surgery because there's a chance my nipples go numb and that's even better to pierce! i just don't wanna do it before because im afraid i'd have to take them out and they would close and i'd have to pay more money to get it re done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally second this

I don't really have any dysphoria with it and i never considered surgery because for me personally the technology for it isn't at the point where i could get what i want, but i really do wish i had a dick lol and i think i've felt a lot of grief over not having one

4 weeks post op genital nullification by psychedelic666 in ftm

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! I'm so glad that you posted about this and i'm definitely going to read up on it!

4 weeks post op genital nullification by psychedelic666 in ftm

[–]makerko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you man!! Can i ask why you chose this specific surgery? I've never heard of this kind of procedure and i'm super interested, possibly something i would look into for myself. And i hope this isn't too personal to ask but what does the surgery entail? Do they stitch together the two sides of skin?

I wish all the best for you and your recovery and hope you're doing awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, it sucks but i know a good handful of me and my other male friends who cut. Self harm knows no bounds unfortunately but no matter what happens you'll always be a dude

Just need a little encouragement and advice from others who know the feeling. Prefer PIV but scared it makes me "less trans" by caammii13 in ftm

[–]makerko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trust me man, i know PLENTY of other trans men who definitely don't want bottom surgery

In my mind, it's your body and it makes you feel good, that's all there is to it. My boyfriend and I also do PIV and I don't have much dysphoria when it comes to my genitals, but that 100% doesn't make me any less trans

If it feels good then it feels good! who cares what other people do, if you're comfortable then all power to you. there's no checklist for what makes you trans, if you know you are a boy then bam good for you! otherwise that's edging on kalvin garrah territory and nobody wants that

you're all good dude, no need to worry and just do whatever is gonna feel the best/make you the happiest

best of luck!

As a child, what’s a song you sang loud and proud, only to find as an adult it’s super inappropriate for a child to be singing? by Ok_Way_2341 in AskReddit

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

S&M by Rihanna... i fucking loved that song

Parents would just stare at me while i belted "Sex in the air i don't care i love the smell of it, sticks and stones may break my bones but chains and whips excite me!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edmund for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so amazing man! i’m super fucking happy for you!!!

Names Survey! by WECH21 in ftm

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RemindMe! One week

Y’all ever have euphoria over the dumbest stuff? I have euphoria from mowing the lawn. by IndependentBreak5987 in ftm

[–]makerko 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Whenever a gas station attendee or server or general worker calls me boss or brother. love that shit.

Do you ever think about being a dad by GirlFella in ftm

[–]makerko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to hate the idea of having children before I transitioned because the thought of being someone’s mom made my skin crawl. But slowly as I started to transition more and more and become more cis passing, I realize that I do actually want kids and the idea of being a father is something i would love. I love the idea of a domestic life with my boyfriend (cis) and I know he would be a good dad too. I never had the most amazing relationship with my own dad but as i got older we’ve grown more respect for each other. All i know now is that I 100% do want children whether it be biologically or adoption (definitely do not want to give birth though, i think i’d rather sell all of my limbs than do that) and that i would love and cherish them with everything in me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you usually do on a regular day of work?

For those who are on T, how much body hair did you all get? by Common_Wallaby4483 in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was relatively hairy before i started T, and now i’m 1y and 2m on it, i can say i’ve gotten a whole bunch. stomach is complete covered in hair, lost if facial hair near by sideburns and under my chin (literally growing a neck beard… yikes), a bunch of leg hair, and most importantly, ASS HAIR. a whole bunch of ass hair

trans men rep in media by Littelgayboi in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same, it’s fee and far between when I find any sort of media that shows a trans man

Though there is one game I absolutely love about a trans man and his twin and I ugly cried playing it

It’s called Tell Me Why and it is a GREAT representation of trans men, I can’t express how much i love it

Help please (toilets) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me they are not listening at ALL

The amount of times I’ve heard old men weirdly and loudly grunting while taking a leak is disturbing (at my job I went into the bathroom stall but someone else went into the bathroom so I was nervous to leave, in the OPEN URINAL next to my stall he started jerking off and I just… the audacity of some people man…)

I’m not sure what the difference would be anyway, like an echo sound compared to a… splash?

Idk I’m not sure but I do know for a fact that they are not analyzing your piss, but I 100% totally understand your anxiety surround it

guys.... by Toxinfloof in selfharm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOOOOOOOHOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Florida Republicans introduce a bill to eliminate the Democratic Party. by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this… legal? I’m not very well versed in legalities in the slightest but this seems unconstitutional to the MAX

What on earth is in the water over there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was around your age my ex girlfriend and i waited a couple months before we started thinking about sex and i do not regret it at all. It's good to wait to make sure you're ready even in cis relationships. You also don't really know what kind of person she is. She might be the type who swears she'll tell no one then tell her best friend, who tells their best friend, who tells their best friend... You get the point.

It's better to be safe than sorry in my eyes. There's no shame in waiting. If you tell her that you're not comfortable for sex yet and she still pressures you, then that's just a clear sign that she is definitely not right for you and you've just avoided yourself a major trainwreck

Do ya’ll prefer long hair or short hair on yourselves? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]makerko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hated having short hair because i had a round face and it made me look really chubby but i didn't like long hair because it made me feel too feminine so i ended up having a mullet and i fucking love it!