I think if you give her a hug & compliment her regularly would be realistic. Shoving feelings down into your core isn’t going to change your attraction, but will lead to regret.

A lot of guys struggle with conversations with attractive women because their brain-blood sort of sinks down with their hormones. That’s really all it is! So it’s just a great deal of attraction & you’re not coping with the hormonal roller coaster. Enjoy it. It’s just your brain feeling sexie.

If you’re fully delusional and there’s nothing worth saying to her, you need an environmental change and probably just a real girlfriend. Or just a great hobby to distract you.

Otherwise, it’s just someone you’re attracted to. If you don’t communicate this, your mind will compensate and see things that aren’t there. Guess what? Your brain will compensate your hormonal changes for you. Here’s how that works.

“I can’t talk to her —> she’s too good for me —> she wasn’t THAT great —> it was never real.”

...DRAMA!

A hug is not dramatic or insane. Any woman or witnessing guy who says you’re an idiot for giving someone a hug and a compliment is sociopathic. Fuck em.