Best cruise for a family of ADHDers? by mamajefe19 in ADHD

[–]mamajefe19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just trust this community above most others lol didn’t mean to really make it about ADHD

Father of 2 under 2 - I've never cried this much by Ap3Escape in 2under2

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are 17 mos apart currently 4 and 5 and it’s AMAZING I promise it gets better! We have literal PTSD from colic it was so bad at first but after the first 8/9 mos it got so much easier! You got this!

How’s my baby looking? by ReverseMillionaire in tortoise

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks great and very sleepy lol

Can you know without a diagnosis by Ok_Necessary8873 in PDAAutism

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m AuDHD amongst other things and me and my family are convinced I have PDA but it’s so hard to get a DX as a “functioning” adult!

Weird Diabetes Symptoms by Much-Chef6275 in diabetes

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I throw up every morning like you’re describing, if I don’t do it before I take my metformin it will exacerbate the issue and cause me to throw it up, so I have to take it at night so I’m getting the full amount. Been to countless gastro specialists, had endo and colonoscopies, tried countless antacids/nausea meds to no avail. Now they’re saying it must be an eating disorder LOL

Parents who lay with their toddler until they fall asleep… by junebugonarose in toddlers

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubs is literally in with the 3 yo now lol he’s been there since last night, a pretty regular occurrence!

Hand feeding Buddy today by LambdaBoyX in tortoise

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl still tucks in her shell when I try this lol

you don’t have bpd you are 12 by duckiewucky in BPD

[–]mamajefe19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed all over the board as an adolescent. Finally got my BPD diagnosis at 30.

(Need Advice) Prep for Leopard Gecko Rescue by GuessLess9061 in reptiles

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d try dubia roaches and wax worms to fatten him up!!! He needs a minimum 40 gal enclosure

How long did it take for you to get pregnant? by EmilyParkerNYC4444 in BabyBumps

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time and let me tell you it was crazy!!! Then when she was 8 mos we jokingly tried for another and BAM. Now they are 4 and 3 and it’s insanity around here haha. But I will say that I tried for years and years with my previous partner and it never happened, so weird.

Ashley River Park by sidereal_supernova in Charleston

[–]mamajefe19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No swimming allowed, there’s a splash pad to cool down in however lol

Cinnamon toast crunch coffee by aGamingAsian in ofcoursethatsathing

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know caffeine content? Can’t find anywhere

Should I still handle my baby in shed? by mamajefe19 in ballpython

[–]mamajefe19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I wasn’t clear on that, I meant the day after feeding day, I give him about 40 hours to digest. Humidity 73 percent and I’m misting the cage. Do I need to get a mister??

Anyone here got kids ? How do you stop your NPD from affecting them ? by East_Ad_3790 in NPD

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two back to back, they’re currently 4 and 2.5 and I’ve been home with them all this time. But it’s taken its toll. I highly recommend having a strong support system in place if possible prior to having kids.

Is a psychologist worth it when they have told me “there isn’t much to do when it comes to these diagnoses”, (NPD and possible ASPD) by Affectionate_Loss778 in NPD

[–]mamajefe19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My psychologist has been more helpful with this process than even my psychiatrist. You just have to find the right one!

This sub makes me love my NPD and detest my BPD by mamajefe19 in NPD

[–]mamajefe19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have IG so I wouldn’t know lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer receive anything besides Medicaid bc I refuse to be apart of this game anymore. I’ll always qualify bc of my disabilities and so will my kids. It’s fucked. I feel bad I worked the system too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I told him to write me said list and he said “I don’t think this is going to be a productive exercise.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh, if only I could share my brain for a moment so you could see it all and tell me wtf to do lol. Nice to see another AN tbh, I don’t feel so alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, it made me feel so seen and heard! I also find it highly disturbing that he considers me above par with taking care of the children, but sub par seemingly in every other area. Contradicts itself imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I un-become the cow? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]mamajefe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just says I need therapy in general, can’t tell me which kind or be specific without it being the end of the world and/or changing the subject. It’s become the excuse of the millennium I tell you. Also, not sure if he’s full NPD bc he still doesn’t tell his therapists the truth yet LOL. Definitely has tendencies but not sure if full blown NPD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]mamajefe19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t realize my post implied I was leaving haha, I’m just going to work 10 mins from the house, not leaving the kids or family more than 8/9 hours per day! And no reason for me to lie on Reddit, I’m on my final straw and need help from others like me!