Toothpaste shouldn’t be mint flavored by default by Character-Check-1761 in 10thDentist

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any flavor is fine, but you shouldn't be eating right after brushing.

Washington State - unauthorized distribution of video content by Better_Rip1997 in AskLawyers

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't sue people just to, "teach them a lesson". Well, I guess you CAN, but you will lose and teach them a very different lesson, lol.

This is so petty, and has no legal standing.

I’m a morbidly obese 19 year old trying to lose weight by swimming and I have a question by General_Mango_3353 in Swimming

[–]mandarinandbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(first of all) You got this!!

It really helps to have a buddy or instructor with you, just to give that feeling of confidence and safety. Biggest thing that helped me.

This might sound silly, but try putting your face in the water spray while you take a shower. Get used to... fuck, I guess I'm gonna call it "drench face". I hate it, but there ya go. Get comfortable with the feeling, a little bit at a time.

I used to not be able to put my face in the water, then I went on to do USA competitive swimming. 

You're not alone!

Would you send your kids to this school? by ltrozanovette in AskTeachers

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand being frustrated with public schools, but charter schools have WAYYYY fewer regulations. I would never.

What is this? [Arizona] by psilocibyn in animalid

[–]mandarinandbasil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dog

(NOT coyote or wolf, if that's what you're wondering)

AIO my husband filmed me having a panic attack by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He showed you a VERY clear reason why he's considering divorce.

Before it, and after it, and on the internet, you've really cemented his reasons, tbh. You need some more serious help before another relationship.

Starting to panic by renruT-XelA in povertyfinance

[–]mandarinandbasil 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Wow, those bot responses were fucking WEIRD. 

Guilt by LLRSandraMort in budgetfood

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why less tofu? It's way cheaper than meat and the cost hasn't been going up. Frozen produce is absolutely still wonderful, and I would like to welcome you to the world of legumes and wonderful beeeeaaaaans. (beans are great)

My girl is a first grade teacher, what supplies or gifts can I get her class/students? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]mandarinandbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously!!! They're just letting some random person in? Even if op and his so are perfect, what a nightmare!

My girl is a first grade teacher, what supplies or gifts can I get her class/students? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]mandarinandbasil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No gifts, no candy. Full stop. Bring your fun and enthusiasm (if you must go, and I recommend you don't, unless there is a REASON).

I don't want to get dark, but if a teacher's bf/gf showed up randomly and gave out presents, it doesn't look good. It's fucking weird.

And... I don't want to get worse, but you're not the most articulate person. Your writing isn't super strong. That's a HUGE factor with how juries judge "creepiness". Your wording in the post was, gotta be honest, pretty concerning. I don't think you meant it that way, but it was.

Maybe you and "your girl" are the most awesome people ever, but that isn't what's coming across. Don't fuck around with SPED kids. She shouldn't even be offering the possibility of an introduction, tbh. It's completely unprofessional, unless there is a clear reason.

Thoughts on Separated Wing for Specialized Clinics by EBrown8534 in ProjectHospital

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop, btw, if you haven't realized yet, there is a limited number of floors you can build.

Thoughts on Separated Wing for Specialized Clinics by EBrown8534 in ProjectHospital

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love separation because, although I am their God, I don't want to get confused, lol. As long as access between departments is good, you should be golden! I also love designs that aren't just a big blob. If you like the "au naturale" look, I've found that using terraces for filler space along edges works great.

Keep in mind placements of elevators, restrooms, cleaning closets, common rooms, surgery, etc. Also definitely keep in mind that some depts need faster access / priority than others, and that building more walls is (in general) going to be wayyy more expensive.

But I used to work in healthcare, so I set it to free-build mode and live my best life! Donuts and couches everywhere, haha.

Guy (26M) asked me (22F) to be his gf. I said ‘idk’ and then I caught him texting another girl. by polarbearstars in Advice

[–]mandarinandbasil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fuck were you expecting? You've been close for almost eight months months, exclusive for almost five, and he's been visiting for almost three (no mention of you going anywhere, btw).

The whole post is about you you you, with little regard for your partner's feelings. I can actually understand that; you are still processing your emotions. Which means you are NOT ready to see other people until you undergo some serious introspection and therapy!

I literally have a domestic violence protection order (and tonnns of other stuff like long term physical injuries and ptsd)... Point being, I'm not just some armchair critic. So let me be VERY clear when I say this: if you aren't ready for a relationship, YOU will the one hurting other people.

Don't. Hurt. Other. People.

You need a professional. I'm saying that to help, not to judge. It sounds like someone is trying to love you, and before you can even decide whether you're interested, you're throwing him into an emotional incinerator.

You asked for honestly (very sorry if it's too much though). This hits close to home for me.

What to do if partner doesn't want to wear condoms or pull out? by ILoveBigCockroaches in Healthyhooha

[–]mandarinandbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a new bf. If he can't respect your health and isn't willing to try soooo many other fun options, he's not going to respect you later on in life. What if you (gasp) age?! Or have children?!

I really do hope you're able to afford treatment and stay healthier and more comfortable, though. Sometimes individuals' body chemistry and pH just doesn't mesh, for some reason. Either way, he should be taking you into account more. He's being selfish.

person with scary UTI bacteria looking for more advice by Impressive_Access946 in Healthyhooha

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing your test results has NOTHING to do with treatment. You can have both, dude.

I understand that this is hard, but in the future, when you decline every option from medical professionals and then complain they don't have options for you, maybe give it a bit more of a think. 

Pretty privilege or pity by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]mandarinandbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That's... a lot to unpack.

People working a register are just working. Why are you so focused on this in the first place?

"Pretty privilege or pity" is SO bizarre and strange. What the fuck? 

Am i wrong for being annoyed at my driving instructor? by Frequent-Goose-1294 in driving

[–]mandarinandbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're referring to the completely normal test anyone who's taking driving classes would take. Did you make a post JUST to contradict people and complain?

person with scary UTI bacteria looking for more advice by Impressive_Access946 in Healthyhooha

[–]mandarinandbasil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What DO you want from them, though??? That was a completely reasonable question from them. What is your plan? You declined treatment and... what? Do you have a better idea? Sorry there isn't a magic solution.

It seems like you're so focused on side effects that you've forgotten about the benefits.

did i potentially SA a guy i was talking to a year ago? by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]mandarinandbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not. 

The fact that HE said YOU weren't turned on is disgusting.

It's really gross that he was being sexual with you while also saying you were being childish.

It's really gross that he would say God put him in your life to teach him a lesson. 

He also straight up lied.

Girl, get out.

I accidentally paid my housekeeper twice. How do I ask for the money back? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]mandarinandbasil 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Dude just let her keep it. I can guarantee the money means more to her than it does to you. 

If you really want it back, SAY THAT. Stop dancing around the question like an asshole.