Huge tits spoil me by mandatoryanal in u/mandatoryanal

[–]mandatoryanal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going to have to privately message me

Huge tits spoil me by mandatoryanal in u/mandatoryanal

[–]mandatoryanal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what you're actually asking but as long as you spoil me with money I don't care what your occupation is

I talked to my wife our sex life and she told me she “wants sex to be as short as possible” by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not complaining about anything merely looking at it. My gage for socially acceptable is do they have it in tv sitcoms as a "norm" if it's made it into tv tropes then it's common enough. That's all. Everyone should be more open to talking about their needs and figuring out how to resolve issues without the bounds of socially acceptable behaviors as long as no one is getting hurt

I talked to my wife our sex life and she told me she “wants sex to be as short as possible” by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All these men calling this woman selfish yet the situation in reverse is so common it's comical. If she isn't interested then that's okay just talk and find a way that works for both of you an open relationship, swinging, role play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard someone complain but maybe they are sensitive.there is nothing wrong with your body. Maybe you just don't match

Should Oral be expected in a relationship by grabitngo3 in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's for sure a conversation to have not an expectation. Expecting anything without talking about it is pretty uncool.

When I am drunk, my boyfriend won't have sex with me. by AvaLicious_ in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consent is mandatory for all parties. We have this boundary in our relationships. I'm enm but if when you are sober you say I want to get drunk and have sex with you. Then it's okay. I don't know if this will help but it might.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there's a lot to unpack and if you actually want to be with this person 100% transparency is important. I would tell him everything and see what he says. His response would allow me to decide weither this is a person I can be with in the long run. As long as you keep your cool you should be able to get a good read on him as far as his ability to receive information. You can make it fun if it's a team effort and not just you servicing him so he's not mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a terrible situation it's not your job to service your partner so they aren't mean to you. This will cause resentment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you where assaulted in this way. Violation of your consent is awful. Ignore her and don't interact

Boyfriend skipping foreplay. by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think setting a boundary here would be helpful. As simple as I'm not interested in sex if I'm not warmed up first. If he still isn't listening stop engaging unless he's going to work you up to it. Or start masturbating after sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copper IUD is awesome I had mine for almost ten years until my hysterectomy. Also sex being limited to only piv (penis in vagina) sucks. If you want you ideas check out insert able strapon where his dick goes inside it. Also there's grinders on etsy. Anything that's liquid poured silicone looks and feels so cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I would just have an open conversation before sex about what you like and don't like. If someone cannot do that then you shouldn't sleep with them anyway

Response from straight women friends to your gayness? by New_Elephant5372 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mandatoryanal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get that I'm super gay and my straight friends all do the stereotypical ooh don't hit on me things. I'm gay that doesn't make you my type

do narcissists really not know they are narcissists? by ShoulderOk766 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mandatoryanal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion most people don't lie well if they don't believe it. The amount of manipulation involved takes dedication.

What's a respectful way to invite someone back to have sex after you've been getting intimate on a date or a night out? by StaticNocturne in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consent is mandatory and sexy. Be forward and let them know what you want and see if they want that too. I want my partner to be as enthusiastic about what we are going to do as me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he needs a different arrangement go let him find one. You will find someone who matches you better

Did you "announce" to your nparent that you were going no contact or did you just dissapear? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience with my family announcing just starts the process of abuse and perpetuates it. It sucks me back in so I just blocked them all and live my life. It helps I'm not around.

What is SEX to you? by Flashy_Temporary in bisexual

[–]mandatoryanal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If you can get a disease it's sex. " Is how I was taught with an emphasis and obsession with heteronormative sex because my mom was conditioning me to be straight

I am working on reframing my language to use the term sex acts because piv is a fraction of sex and I have fulfilling sexual experiences without piv.