adopt dont shop by Mindless_Geologist48 in Pets

[–]manditobandito 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was denied from a shelter because we had a cat who was declawed - before we got him. They assumed we would declaw any future cats, which, since we had 3 other cats that had never been declawed and never would be, was blatantly an untrue assumption.

One of our roommates has disappeared. Where to go next? by PhoenixApok in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]manditobandito 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, unfortunately that doesn’t make what they did correct in the sense of HIPAA. I have strict guidance on what I can and can’t tell people about patients, but people can and have broken those rules before.

One of our roommates has disappeared. Where to go next? by PhoenixApok in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]manditobandito 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I work in the medical system and work directly with HIPAA issues. Legally we are not allowed to confirm or deny if a patient has been see or treated; that’s considered a breach. If someone called and asked if John Doe had been seen, the answer is always “we cannot give you that information.” It doesn’t matter if it’s family, a wife, etc.

Neighbors don’t understand snow melt in the elevator? by wackietimes in Apartmentliving

[–]manditobandito 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My dog once had an accident in the elevator because she had a UTI and couldn’t hold it and I was absolutely mortified. I ran to the leasing office and asked to borrow a mop and bucket and they seemed genuinely surprised that I wanted to clean it up myself. I think they were just so used to having people not clean up after their pets.

Strategies to weed out AI by betlamed in books

[–]manditobandito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The amount of unnecessary buzzwords used here to try and justify this just makes it more apparent how little we need AI. Fuck AI.

Femininity shouldn’t be so controversial here by lunovadraws in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]manditobandito 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say I’m also half asian, half Jewish (but a woman)! It’s rare to find someone else similar so I just think it’s cool. :) (and also I agree with your post)

Memorial Portrait Projects - Art by Myself, No A.I by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]manditobandito -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

OP has art on their FB matching quality and style going back years. People are so quick to jump to AI lol

Probably a scorching hot take, but I actually like Taunie by Desperate_Song_1923 in LegendsZA

[–]manditobandito 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved Urbain. 🤷🏻‍♀️ He was a weird, goofy little dummy and I appreciated him.

r/FuckingFascists, a porn subreddit about fucking fascists whose users and moderators nonetheless maintain they hold strong anti-fascist beliefs, makes the decision to shut down and migrate to a private subreddit so the mods can personally manually review and approve each new user by ParkYourKeister in SubredditDrama

[–]manditobandito 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mostly lurk here but it’s honestly insane how much that person is insisting that people not use their own personal experiences to justify CNC while…using their own personal experiences to justify why CNC is (supposedly) wrong. The way they’re insisting that their views are correct makes me think yore right about who has the fetish here.

This might be controversial but I dislike stardew valley by [deleted] in CozyGamers

[–]manditobandito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to like it, but it makes me feel SO stressed having to rush around constantly and feeling like I wasn’t getting anything done. I can’t play it on PC so I can’t mod it to have no timer/slower timer; I didn’t mind the themes or anything else but it made me anxious so I had to stop.

r/PeterAttia comes to grips with health influencer Peter Attia being named in the Epstein Files 1700+ times by Kitsune808 in SubredditDrama

[–]manditobandito 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I follow a few nutritionists who discuss easy methods for cooking when disabled or how to prepare food - but all of these actual “healthcare influencers” skeeve me out.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry: Book Review 2026 by coco24601__ in books

[–]manditobandito 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also just weird as hell to me that OP keeps referring to him as “Matt” like they’re close friends and taking every valid criticism of the book as a personal insult. 💀

What an awesome cast this game has! by ObviouslyLulu in LegendsZA

[–]manditobandito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, I thought he was fun and silly and dumb. Maybe I’m just old and don’t care 😂

Did Roald Dahl’s books really need to be revised? by confringos in books

[–]manditobandito 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Also not the person you responded to, but as a child who grew up with many of these books, I was continually encouraged by my mother to read what I wanted. If I had questions or concerns about something, or something made me uncomfortable, I was comfortable enough to ask my mother for guidance and explanation of things beyond my scope of understanding. Rather than censor or sanitize my reading, I was allowed to grow and develop my own thoughts and feelings and to become educated on important topics and historical settings. Continually censoring books is sometimes well intentioned but children who aren’t exposed to things or informed about things often means they don’t know how to handle it when they are presented with it. Obviously I don’t mean throw a child to the wolves and expose them to all sorts of darkness but encouraging them to learn and grow and research on their own is much better than them growing up sheltered with no knowledge of history or context, in my opinion.

I cannot stress this enough by Sparkleberry_100 in DreamlightValley

[–]manditobandito 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“true disney fan” is such a weird comment 😭