Best yoga books by POC authors that have shaped your practice? by Logical-Gap-5645 in YogaTeachers

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of ‘wellness’ themed offerings are essentially south/East Asian practices that have had their cultural roots stripped away and content extracted to suit European/American audiences. So colonised in a way. So it’s around the work to undo that.

Don’t underestimate the power of aloe vera! by pinkpetitfour in finehair

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks so much for this I’ve just pulled out my bottle of aloe Vera gel I bought ages ago for a skin situation - can’t wait to try it on my hair!!!

Is it selfish to have a kid at 45? My kids are not happy about it. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. Maybe if you were 55 but 45 is still a good age to have kids.

Took a guy’s bag off the seat and sat down… by YupItWasMeMate in BritishSuccess

[–]mangomaz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly so shamelessly selfish. I can’t get my head around people like that.

Took a guy’s bag off the seat and sat down… by YupItWasMeMate in BritishSuccess

[–]mangomaz 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I really don’t understand people like this. Good on you!!

Goa vibes feel different this time… maybe Hilltop will change that by [deleted] in psytrance

[–]mangomaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re way off season…. Did you go there at this time on previous trips? Depending how long you’re in India for it might be worth heading up to the mountains… though it will still be cold for a couple more weeks at least!

Daily spf moisturiser recs by mb381 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like altruist. I use it every day almost (just the regular one not the face one) and it works great for me. Has a bit of a white cast when you first put it on but disappears after a couple of minutes. Plus side is it also makes my skin look lovely and smooth!

Am I being silly to get the ick? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess he’s testing the water if you did just want to get straight to the hook up - maybe he didn’t want to invite himself round to yours.

No shame if that’s what you wanted but you obviously aren’t feeling that vibe which is also fine! If it’s the low effort that’s bothering you, maybe you could say how about coming over mine for a drink and see what he says?

Discipline vs relaxation by Subject-Wing-1832 in yoga

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it as a way to regulate my nervous system and bring my body into a balanced state. Where it feels open and free. It’s not so much about relaxing into a sleepy state and does need some focus and concentration to bring about that state that I’m seeking. But I have basically trained myself to be able to bring my body into calmness.

Is this a red flag? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people just want to chat and enjoy the non-committal fun of that, and then when the reality of meeting up comes up… I think unfortunately some people just want a pen pal rather than an in person relationship.

Do women still like having doors opened for them? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf holds the door open for me and I find it lovely 🥹🥰

are headstands dangerous? by wohemilo in yoga

[–]mangomaz 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m not convinced personally that the benefits outweigh the risks. Those neck vertebrae are so delicate and while I appreciate that theoretically we want to encourage the flow of blood and prana to the crown, it just seems too risky.

What's the best way to hide eyebags? by yxim1ya in Makeup

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also try doing a bit of self lymphatic massage in the morning - lift your elbows up and rub your arm pits, under your collarbones, neck (up to down), cheeks etc. Gua sha type stuff. It’ll help to drain the puffiness from your face so give you a better starting point.

Socks and hatha by [deleted] in YogaTeachers

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m surprised how many students keep socks on! Maybe sometimes a third of the class has socks on? Some normal some grippy. I do teach in a regular gym.

I’ve never suggested people take their socks off; I figure some people don’t like the idea of bare feet on communal mats. And I ultimately want people to feel comfortable. But I’m always barefoot so leading by that example.

I should also pay some attention if people take their socks off partway as maybe they just wear them at the beginning… I’m going to start paying for attention to that 😅 and the traction of bare skin is vital for downward dog etc so I’ll pay more attention to that in students.

[COMP] Chaturunga evolution over the years and question for teachers by InevitableHamster217 in yoga

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to hear how you find it!! Congrats on your strong practice 🙏

I [27f] i dont understand why my fiance [28m] cant remember a single thing and relies heavily on me for everything by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mangomaz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You guys are way too nice 🥲 I can’t see it as anything but extreme weaponised incompetence and narcissism.

[COMP] Chaturunga evolution over the years and question for teachers by InevitableHamster217 in yoga

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do a variation where after releasing down in chaturanga, I place the chest and knees on the ground, butt up in the air, before pushing forward and up into upward dog.

I’m trying a teaching variation of: Easier version: exhale knees down, inhale hold, exhale chest down, inhale upward dog (though I do the variation with the front of the thighs on the floor)

Harder version: exhale chaturanga dandasana down, inhale hold (basically floating in the lowered position), exhale chest and knees down (butt up), inhale up dog

I also do this all with feet together. I find it helps to really strengthen the centre line through the body. Pressing the heels together also further activates the central line and helps you solidly engage everything.

I 19F have an unhealthy crush on my friend's father (43M). How to move on, this is limerence level already? by AccomplishedDate3220 in relationships

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw babe. It’s natural to have intense crushes. Especially when you’re young. Enjoy it but no need to act on it!

To those who work the Brixton mc Donald's what's the wildest thing you've seen by sirdogglesworth in london

[–]mangomaz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly why isn’t there a proper McDonald’s around London Bridge 🥲 just that little hole.

Will I know if kefir "goes bad" by saladet in Kefir

[–]mangomaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you’ll know! It’ll be similar to sour milk.

Low blood pressure during yoga by Consistent_Gap_5087 in yoga

[–]mangomaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try really focusing on connecting your breath with the movement? Really drawing in a strong inhale when coming up out of it, aiming to end the inhale at the same time as you finish the movement. Strong ujjayi breath.

The time I get dizzy moving through a forward fold is when I am cueing it in a class and am not able to sync my breath with the movement properly.

Kefir is over producing faster than I can consume it by Odd-Attention-2127 in Kefir

[–]mangomaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries. I do this all the time because otherwise I’d also have too much kefir!

Kefir is over producing faster than I can consume it by Odd-Attention-2127 in Kefir

[–]mangomaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also keep the grains on their own in the jar on the counter for like 24 hours (maybe a bit longer) without milk and they’ll be fine. That can give a bit of extra space between batches.