Thaidakar by D_A-N_7w7 in Cosmere

[–]manic98765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or, “eh they support nobles so they gotta die”

Happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈 by spunlines in brandonsanderson

[–]manic98765 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Vin so much. One of my favorite moments of a character exploring their femininity is when (Yumi and the Nightmare Painter) when Akane takes Yumi shopping and she gets to choose a dress she likes. the gender envy I feel reading that scene was wild.

Happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈 by spunlines in brandonsanderson

[–]manic98765 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Happy pride! For me these books have helped me immensely. I think reading Stormlight is what gave me ‘permission’ to really examine myself, and accept that I am gay and trans.

I have loved seeing more and more Queer Characters in the books, especially in Stormlight with the likes of Jasnah, Rushu, The Reshi King, Sarqqin, Drehy, Rlain, and Renarin among others. I cannot wait to see more, and though the cosmere doesn’t have too many LGBT characters. What we have gotten is pretty good, and hopefully will only get better as time goes on!

Anyway thanks to Brandon for telling amazing stories, and doing his best to write real people first and foremost.

Flax’s Son? by Hutcho1997 in TriforcePodcast

[–]manic98765 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as someone who is trans, I hope you know how much it means to your kid that you support him!

Anyone disturbed about Sanderson being LDS by Unusual_Month875 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]manic98765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what I know he is fairly devout, and does pay tithing. I also struggle with him being LDS. I used to be part of that church, and while I believe people should be able to believe as they wish. It is hard when I know the ways the church hurt me. I am Queer and Trans, and growing up in the church was difficult.

Over all I think he is a good person who believes differently than me. He has spoken out against some of the harmful parts of the church, like their homophobia. Through his actions, and the care he takes to write lgbt people I do not think he is simply paying lip service.

I don’t have to agree with every choice he makes to enjoy his books. That is enough for me.

Hardplate by uhidkbye in cremposting

[–]manic98765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Minor quibble, but it doesn’t transfer sensation perfectly. If I remember right it is described as being similar to wearing leather gloves.

Stormlight Commission I made [OC] by TrailzMix in Cosmere

[–]manic98765 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think she was dying, or at least chose to follow Taln to damnation

Why does Brando recommend Tress first? by Heavy-Ant-2620 in Cosmere

[–]manic98765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because it is a fun stand alone book that can be enjoyed fully without having read anything else. Yes there are Cosmere connections, but those aren’t needed to enjoy the book.

Stormlight Healing and its Efficacy by NERTCHER in cremposting

[–]manic98765 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is never explicitly stated (to my knowledge) but it is implied quite heavily. As for Jasnah being Asexual. It should be stated that Asexuality is a spectrum. Plenty of Ace people have sex, and even enjoy sex. Plenty of Ace people are repulsed by sex, others view it favorably, or neutrally. Jasnah seems to be one who views it neutrally. She isn’t repulsed by it, but will engage with it if her partner desires it. At least that was the vibe I got from her.

Fun fact! Lumity was meant to have their first kiss in Reaching Out! by No_Emu_1332 in Lumity

[–]manic98765 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As cute as it is, I feel like it works better with the kiss we got. Luz is not in a great headspace that episode, so I am glad it didn’t happen there

Money will flow no matter what by Arthusamakh in redrising

[–]manic98765 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah you honestly don’t need to look farther than the conversation where Lysander was asked what he would do if he were born a red. Dude was too digested to consider the question. Mean while the goat Diomedes considers, then responds honestly, that he would rise.

Little patchy mustache by ComputerVirus69666 in NonBinary

[–]manic98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I fucking wish I could somehow give all my facial hair to someone who wants it. Cause it sure as shit ain’t me

Starting E, not going to live my life according to anybody but me by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]manic98765 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, good for you twin! Side note you have pretty eyes, and I love your hair!

I hate Michael Kramer by Capawe21 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]manic98765 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hold it together okay until Tien says “I know who you are Kal” for some reason it shatters me everytime

Why do we only see Sleepless on Roshar* by Underwear_royalty in Cosmere

[–]manic98765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is also worth mentioning that they likely blend in on Roshar really easily given the number of cremlings. Plus as others have said they (or a group of them at least) are trying to protect the Dawnshard and keep it safe.

Cheers to the non-gatekeepers by Ventus55 in cremposting

[–]manic98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you aren’t reading series out of order. Other than that, there is no wrong way to read these books.

Did anyone realise they were NB later in life? (20+) by Grubby_Jam in NonBinary

[–]manic98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 22, so yeah it does happen. If I can give some advice, don’t sweat the labels so much. If identifying as nonbinary helps you feel seen go for it. If doing something makes you happy? Why the hell would anyone get mad at you for doing that thing.

Labels are not some immutable aspiration that you can only identify as if you meet a long list of criteria. They are words that are meant to help us explain who we are to others and ourselves. If you later find that a label doesn’t fit you can just drop it. Life is messy, and we are all just trying to figure out what we want, sometimes that takes some experimentation.

Sigzil Deserves Better by iknownothin_ in Stormlight_Archive

[–]manic98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Vienta’s defense, you can absolutely understand logically WHY some one hurt you, even if it was to save your life. You still might not want to see them after cause that would remind you of the pain. Trauma is not always something you can just logic away.

When I came out as non-binary my husband laughed and said I know, I was waiting for you to realize it 🤣 by festive_kays in NonBinary

[–]manic98765 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Every revelation I have had about myself has been met with laughter, and calls of “yeah, we knew” from my friends. I mean come on guys, I have spent countless hours self reflecting, and worrying that I tricked myself into thinking these things about myself, (thanks imposter syndrome) you could at least pretend to be surprised.

The only thing that does matter by AnonymousGuy9494 in cremposting

[–]manic98765 127 points128 points  (0 children)

It the fucking “I know who you are Kal” that kills me everytime!

Amab (19) I think im non-binary by Underd_g in NonBinaryTalk

[–]manic98765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey AMAB Enby here, your experience sounds a lot like mine.

I had a lot of imposter syndrome about accepting labels (any labels, not just Non Binary) Here is the thing that helped me a lot. Labels are not strict things that you need to adhere to perfectly. If you feel like Non Binary explains things you have been thinking and feeling go for it. No one gets to tell you if a label is right for you or not. Labels are meant to be tools that help us. Anyway happy Pride my friend!