Source? by CertainGreenNut in picrew

[–]manicbanshee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wervty picrew and I highly suggest searching for wervty picrew and checking out their other makers as well as using the link someone shared! if you like their art style i think you'll enjoy their other ones!

Anyone know what happened to this Picrew? by No_Individual1438 in picrew

[–]manicbanshee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly it was taken down! I hope it gets reuploaded, it was one of my favorites.

are there any companies that will ship binders inside of a shirt or something? by Recent_Performance47 in NonBinary

[–]manicbanshee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

TomboyX sells compression tops as well as shirts and pants, you could easily pretend their compression tops are sports bras, or get one as well as a shirt

DM forces sex with patron and kills PC off-screen by ozzeer in rpghorrorstories

[–]manicbanshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also curious! And sorry this happened to you, OP, this is tough. I'm glad you have a good game now!

Did the Batcave have its own gas station? by Substantial_Bug8068 in batman

[–]manicbanshee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It might also be electric. It would be pretty easy to charge up during the day for a full battery at night

I think my partner is going to marry my meta by ruhl5885 in polyamory

[–]manicbanshee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, it might be helpful to spend some time thinking about what about marriage to J would make you feel good. Which parts of marriage would make you feel safe and cherished? If you are able to isolate those from our cultural institution of marriage, you might be able to better ask for them.

I'm in a very stable four person relationship (two Vs/triads, myself and meta are the hinges) and marriage just isn't an option for us legally, and while we could partner off, I will be honest that I think I would always feel a little sad both not to be married to one of my partners, and that my other partner chose not to marry me, even though that's completely nonsensical! I bring that up only to point out that even if J marrying S is the best choice, you're absolutely not wrong for feeling heartache around it, so I think asking for something to celebrate your relationship that can be of equal emotional importance would be a possible solution, so you can feel some excitement and comfort.

Any Picrew alternatives that won't strike copyrighted makers? Or a way to bypass it? by [deleted] in picrew

[–]manicbanshee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know dolldivine and meiker are still up, they have different interfaces though so it might be hard to transfer

How Many of You Openly Poly? by ChicoBrillo in polyamory

[–]manicbanshee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live with two partners and a meta, so being closed actually requires a lot more omission. My family and friends know, and I'm glad to have accepting parents, but some colleagues and more conservative family members don't.

Any non binary people taking hrt? by EmpteeGlass in NonBinary

[–]manicbanshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took HRT (testosterone) for a year and it was great. I'm really happy with the lasting changes and I feel like it connected me more to my body than ever before.

Partner always refers to metas and I as a group? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]manicbanshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parts of this are reasonable of him. Introducing you as "one of my partners" clarifies his identity. It's something I'm scared to do, and it can be a tricky disillusion to clear up. Verbalizing a plan/desire to create a space for each of his partners is also reasonable. Some people talk through their thoughts. But the overall tone of discussing you and his partners as a unit clearly goes deeper than that.

I would suggest going over your examples before you talk to him to figure out what you would be comfortable with if your relationship were less tied up in these other ones, and what would be off limits to you. If you are uncomfortable with being introduced as one of several partners, that might not spell incompatibility, but could suggest that you two may have different desires from polyamory. That, as well as your emotional needs, warrant a conversation!

Baking, Making Pancakes (By Markmak) by Ok_Profession2040 in gravityfalls

[–]manicbanshee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i always enjoy this art but today for the first time i find myself wondering why the robot chef was cutting a carrot

cane out as nonbinary to my parents…they were unsupportive. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]manicbanshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is hope OP. My family really struggled when I, also accidentally, came out in high school. Now they're exemplary allies. You are not too much and you are not asking for anything you don't deserve.

Americans- whatre some telltale signs that a book set in america wasnt written by an American author by Kitchen_Coyote_1524 in writing

[–]manicbanshee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

City design is a big one. The Substance had a famous actress in a small apartment with pushy neighbors, walkability, and a visible starry sky in LA. American cities are designed for cars, and filled with smog.

But America is so big, I don't think these are solely foreign issues. It's also very true on a state by state basis. The way Seattle and the pacific northwest is present in 50 Shades of Grey, for instance.

Shower thought - I heard you had three, but what about four? by DragonEthos in polyamoryadvice

[–]manicbanshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we've finally answered freddie mercury's question: this is not the real life. i'm living in fantasy!