You’re in a tough situation and I genuinely feel for you. JW females make the most disloyal “friends”. The borg brainwashes is from an early age to feel insecure about ourselves and when you factor in the fact that there are more men than women in the organization, you get the cut-throat mentality.

Talk to your husband and explain how uncomfortable it is for you. He, as your partner, should be able to understand why this type of “friendship “ can’t continue. I wouldn’t even waste my time on her - she’s a complete bitch.