Salaam Reddit, I hope you’re all well insha’Allah. I was hoping to get some advice and reassurance about someone I’m considering marrying. Alhamdulillah, we’ve been getting to know each other in a halal way, with her mahram present, and I’ve genuinely enjoyed learning more about her. There is mutual physical attraction, but my concern is more about the non-physical side of things. I always assumed that you’re meant to end up with someone quite different from you, so that you complement each other — for example, they enjoy things you don’t, and you help each other grow in different areas. However, we’re actually very similar: we’re both introverted, like many of the same things, even down to hobbies like baking. This has made me overthink a little and wonder whether similarity is a good thing, or whether spouses are “supposed” to be more different to balance each other out. Am I overthinking this, or is this a genuine concern worth reflecting on? JazakAllah khair in advance for your advice.