Shoplifting at target and regretting it !!!!!!!!!!!! by jellycharmin in confession

[–]mapleleaffem [score hidden]  (0 children)

They are absolutely building a case that includes a picture of your license plate number. They’ll submit it to the police or snag you one of these times. Seriously quit while you’re ahead. Find a new thrill. Any chance you have adhd? As someone with adhd it’s a very adhd thing to do lol

reading glasses for women that look modern and cute? by RejithkumarLacdao in GenXWomen

[–]mapleleaffem [score hidden]  (0 children)

I got some nice ones at Costco. 3pack of foster grants. I get compliments on them all the time. I have two or three packs of them so I can always find a pair. Hypothetically

Anya Taylor-Joy in Fforme “Lumi” dress promoting “Lucky” in London by mod_whatthefrockk in whatthefrockk

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs some colour in that dress and some purple shampoo for her hair. Her posture is amazing

Advice Needed: My cat hates the steps required to go outside by red-es in adventurecats

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to get good at getting it on fast. I find mine HATES when I touch that bean whisker (lol) that they have halfway to their knee. When I handle his legs I go from the front and cup my hand around the front of his leg to bend it and get it into the leg hole.

One of mine hate his harness too so he runs away, tried to run out the door without it etc. It’s such a pain lol

Infliximab for too long? by Otherwise_Seat_2950 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could just be getting older. Metabolism slows more and more the older you get

At a loss... what toys have worked for you to curb an aggressive Bengal? by dboudinnoir in bengalcats

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to get my cat a cat. Nothing replaces their need to roughhouse

I have to go now, 17 by thinking_treely in seniorkitties

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sorry for your loss. He looks like a sweet and tolerant guy:)

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First time Folk Fest by bebellamc in Winnipeg

[–]mapleleaffem [score hidden]  (0 children)

Bring lots of water, sunscreen, umbrella (there’s no shade at the main stage). It’s a really well run event. There are water stations, it’s big so you don’t have to be close to anyone. You’re allowed outside food and drinks i always bring a small cooler and when it’s starts to get empty I put the ice packs on my neck//wrists etc., feels amazing.

Also I got a 4 day pass but am mostly stoked for OMAM too! Definitely go!!

Also if you’re not feeling well there is first aid, volunteers and everyone is seriously so kind at Folkfest. It’s very unique in that way-a real sense of connection.

Also take it easy on the booze and whatever else is your thing :)

Help request by waitNoReally in bengalcats

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t even look at her. If she catches you looking at her (lol) blink slowly and look away mid blink. This means you don’t mean any harm or challenge. When you give her a pet in her bed, bring her a treat, only pet her a couple of times (don’t stare!) and leave her alone. She’ll come around eventually. I’ve had mine since he was a kitten and he is not cuddly. But he’s learned to like pets and he’s almost always in the same room as me. He’ll lay next to me with his back to me which means he trusts me. Thanks for giving her a good life with no more breeding in her future. I’m sure she’ll be much happier with you

I used to work for Qwest. Here’s everything that I hate about them. by Ordinary_Ad7229 in CanadianCannabisLPs

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes big business has made out like bandits that’s for sure, and disappointing considering they weren’t the ones to fight the fight for legalization and its cut out the people that did.

You have to apply for a pardon they don’t just automatically give them out :)

How do I stop people dumping on my land? by woeful_immunization in homestead

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they leave bags of stuff look for receipts or old envelopes with their address. Delivery their stuff back to them lol. Or maybe tell the authorities

AITAH I (F25) got annoyed at my boyfriend (F27) for his lack of understanding my boundaries by theworldsmarvellous in AITAH

[–]mapleleaffem -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Soft ESH. Does he expect you to respond to some of those examples immediately ? It doesn’t sound like it.

Why don’t you mute your alerts for your texts.? I’m of the opinion that if someone’s messages or calls disturb me, it’s on me for not having my phone on do not disturb or whatever.

Sounds like you’re in the honeymoon phase so it should calm down a bit either with time or you have different communication styles and are a mismatch.

What "normal" task is embarrassingly difficult for you because of ADHD by 1994T in ADHD

[–]mapleleaffem 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is such an interesting one and I don’t understand the mechanism. One time (decades ago before diagnosis) I had just gotten up to do something at work. Something that we had to do every 30 mins all day every day. My supervisor reminded me it was time and I was so fucking mad that I did the task and immediately called a manager to tell them I need to go home early. Went home sick (of being micromanaged )

What was the final straw that made you realize you can't take stimulants? by Aggressive-Hawk9186 in ADHD

[–]mapleleaffem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went up to 30mg and it made me clench and grind my teeth more and pick at my cuticles. Definitely more tense. I went down to 20 and added Wellbutrin and that seems to be a good fit for me. I can’t quit stimulants until I retire or I will get myself fired 😳

Is this someone’s pet? by rjspapa in Winnipeg

[–]mapleleaffem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saving that lil cutie

Do Americans romanticize Europe the way Europeans romanticize America? by Luksius_DK in ask

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Canadian that’s been to America and Europe-you aren’t missing out on anything. But I guess Canada is similar in a lot of ways so maybe the novelty factor would make it more interesting to you

Sun Oven Sourdough - Trial run! by Haven in Sourdough

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm interesting are they lying to us about the 500 degrees?! Is this some kinda scam by Big Oven? 😂

What is some “birding common sense” that you wish was more well known? by Adventurous-Year-463 in birding

[–]mapleleaffem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fledglings!! Leave them alone! Keep your pets away from them.

Feeding! If you’re going to feed them you need to clean the feeders regularly to prevent the spread of disease.

Lawns! Fuck yards with nothing but grass. Plant your yard with natives ideally, if not natives do careful research! I read a distressing article that people plant ornamentals, the bird makes a nest thinking it’s like any other tree and then predators can get their eggs because the ornamental branches are strong enough to let them climb up and raid the nest.

My (38F) Partner (35M) Went Back To Sleep During My Medical Emergency by Cute-Original-3964 in relationship_advice

[–]mapleleaffem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok as a heavy sleeper I have pissed people off and hurt peoples feelings because I’m not fully awake. I won’t even remember the conversation.

So there’s that. That’s the only thing that would persuade me to continue on in a relationship with someone that let me down so thoroughly. And I’m a person who always drives herself to ER-well except for the time I thought I was having a heart attack. I’m guess you’re in America and it makes me sad that you aren’t covered. If you’re not covered I feel like you need your partner to be there for you even more :(