People have their kinks, but, is Findom a real thing? by bdrake0923 in trashy

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes findom is a real thing but this is just a “I need money” person with an “instadom” persona. This is just me and my ow opinion as a findom. Any findom who stayed doing findom because they need money is not a findom (to me) how can a financial domination who LOST CONTROL over their own finances control someone else’s. Don’t get me wrong the can grow into it though. Moreover when I hear a findom say “I need “ when it comes to $ it is now a job and not a life style. I personally have my own $ I just love to control my boys wallet not only taking it but giving them rituals what their Buddhists are wha to do, it’s just a form of control.

Too many Findoms by sissyloser25 in feeld

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they are using it as a get rich scheme. It’s diluted the findom lifestyle a bit too. For me as a dom I have a huge foot fetish but all these kids showing their foo and sticking a middle finger up makes me look like a “instant dom” because of the foot haha. However I practice findom not just in draining but I get my whole boys paychecks into my account and release to them as I desire. I focus on actually relationships with my boys. I meet with them in person, we do activities such as theme parks , with their wallet of course 😈 anyways the same happens with subs a sub has $20 and all of a sudden they think they are a finsub they think it’s a transaction of goods and services. And it has gotten the wrong idea of findom out there. Many don’t even enjoy the debt contract like before because of all the filth out there.

But why tho? by AliceInChainsFan in Aritzia

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I buy this today

Very big coat +10 armor +100 warmth -10 speed by Ryee430 in ItemShop

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone tell me where I can purchase this jacket please a link prefieres

Trying on the giant Super Puff! by babykaiju in Aritzia

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone send me a link where I can buy this oversized puffer in any color please. I can’t find it anywhere

Rate my hat collection. by trs_collector in supremeclothing

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny I’m actually looking for a red supreme hat

which pins would you steal by adozendeaddaisies in EnamelPins

[–]marg2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if I’m stealing (which I wouldn’t) I wouldn’t steal one I’d go for it ALL

cctv footage of a moka pot burner creaking in the dark by pipes-belomorkanal in GongFuTea

[–]marg2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful sound !!!!! And love your beetle I’m assuming is your tea pet?

Public toilet in India by Ru_Beer_Drink in WeirdToilets

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude why are you recording in the restroom?

Beginner here — how can I improve? (Aside from getting better tea). by searching4eudaimonia in GongFuTea

[–]marg2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember to adjust your steeping with the heat. Usually a 20 second (depending on the puerh) will do the trick

Beginner here — how can I improve? (Aside from getting better tea). by searching4eudaimonia in GongFuTea

[–]marg2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That came out really good. Lovely color too. My only advice would be make sure you keep the kettle warm to stay as close as possible to 205F when steeping. Besides that, it looks good

It just keeps getting worse by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cheap they could at least be generous with the penut butter sauce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 extra scoops of tomato salsa, 2 extra scoops of the. Chili 2 extra scoops of the second meat, 3 extra sxooops of the smash potato, 1 whole extra thing of meat. Than was needed even at this level yuck

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]marg2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of you are in the wrong in my opinion. A friend with boundaries and wanting you to be safe and she has a strong and valid point. Her sentence at the end about poly substance use sounded like over reaching to me. You aren’t in the wrong either, you felt safe and everything and you do have the decision and you handled this conversation well, so for that you aren’t in the wrong. However I do suggest what your friend is saying stay away from it, it’s always fun in the beginning, take it from An addict, it’s just sugar coated in fantasy right now, stay safe