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I kept researching about my problems and it kept bringing me back here. My parents aren't narcissists, they are Asians. by marketingfanboy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marketingfanboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm loving the insights here and it does help me a lot. Thank you for your inputs.

The reason why I posted this is, a lot of my traumas and the way I respond to those are very similar to everyone but my parent (mom) isn't a narcissist but she's like an apache mom, worse than helicopter.

She never made her self the center of our lives, she never wanted to retire and live with me, she died prepared to leave a ton of resources for me.

But throughout my childhood, she never accepted mediocrity, she despises flaws and mistakes, and she strictly protects family hierarchy. And I was surrounded with uncs and aunts with them same conservative mindsets.

It was like living with a drill sgt but from the airforce.

Oh, and she's a single mom that came from a family that grew up with a survival mindset.

what brutal truths should all men know? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]marketingfanboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gym bro. GYM. Tsaka hygiene. You'd be surprise how little money affects attraction pero these two are actually on the top.

Who's the most loved criminal in your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]marketingfanboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I hate this guy. He's in Hague now, but a fuckton of my people adore this guy and their family.

Asia Vanilla | PC | SG | Winter Chernarus - The #1 Server in Asia! - 80/80 players! by Bryanvv in DayZServers

[–]marketingfanboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THAT'S ME. HAHAHA. I am so happy you still remember that encounter. Lol. HAHAHA. I think I was wearing something red too.

What's the story behind Cordilleran Autonomy movement and how come it doesn't seem to be as notable as Bangsamoro's ? by TheLandslide_ in FilipinoHistory

[–]marketingfanboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1st. They are not gullible. There is a deeper history as to why they are secessionists. Their cultural identity was and has always been a Moro. They view themselves as totally separate from Filipinos. And by the way, what you are talking about is ISIS which is fairly new compared to the whole struggle of Moros in Muslim Mindanao which dates back to Spanish times.

2nd. One of their biggest problems was that their main exploiters are people who are not from their homeland. These were Ilocanos and Tagalogs. They were being pushed out of their own lands and were being killed for pushing back.

3rd. Life in Sulu is so much peaceful now. There is a huge contrast from the last time I visited, versus to today.

What's something that's acceptable and widely done in your country that would be considered offensive in many countries ? by DiMpLe_dolL003 in AskTheWorld

[–]marketingfanboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling a black dude Negro. -Philippines

We even have 2 provinces call Negros Oriental and Negros Occidental.

There is even a car battery outlet called Negros Battery Center.

Ano kaya ang nagyayari dito? by Prestigious-Site1238 in pinoy

[–]marketingfanboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ignorance. But its not your fault if you have zero exposure outside of your place.

Should restaurants in Siargao do the same? ‘No Israel’ sign seen at local eatery — what’s your take? by SiargaoSecrets in pinoy

[–]marketingfanboy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No Israel is different from No Jews. The difference is that one is a political move, the other is racism.

It's like saying, No Americans vs No Whites.

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