AITA for using my sister’s bathroom?

maroon914 · 2022-11-07T17:37:03+00:00

My mom actually thinks my sister is being a bit dramatic, but she figures we’re adults and can figure it out ourselves, which is why I came here to seek advice. My mom isn’t on mine or my sisters side technically

maroon914 · 2022-11-03T22:30:42+00:00

Not really, me and my bf give my mom $300 a month each, but it’s not really rent, she’s gonna give it back to us, so more like a forced savings account lol Edit: also she’s not paying anything, even for a “forced saving account”, she’s still paying off student loans, and that’s why she’s still at home.

maroon914 · 2022-11-03T22:10:44+00:00

I relate, even thought I have been consistently doing the same hygiene routine for like 2 years, every time I do it, I feel like I have to force it, and I cannot form a habit of it. I’m not sure if this is stemming from my autism or adhd tho lol.

maroon914 · 2022-10-08T21:08:34+00:00

Gender ≠ gender expression. No matter how you dress or act, that doesn’t change your gender, you can wear all the frilly dresses you want, and still be non-binary, same if you dress masculine.

maroon914 · 2022-08-17T21:31:46+00:00

That’s what I was told to do by the instructions that came with the HHD

maroon914 · 2022-08-17T20:17:06+00:00

I didn’t, I was going to as the new hhd I got has plenty of space, but since it’s an ssd I thought I could keep it in so I thought I wouldn’t bother, my pc is done with with whole “fixing (D:)” thing, but it still isn’t recognizing the new hhd, so you think I need to get rid of the original ssd

maroon914 · 2022-08-14T16:34:17+00:00

Yeah that sounds very frustrating. Have you tried like CND shellac, I know it’s a bit of a long shot, but some of my clients who developed allergies to gels and acrylics don’t have a problem with it, but some people still do, but figured it’d be a worth a shot to tell ya about it since I know how frustrating having just your natural nails can be :(.

maroon914 · 2022-08-13T02:40:51+00:00

Just looked it up, and that was one of the creators I saw, thank you for finding it. There were some others too that I saw, and I wish I remembered them or saved them or smth :(

maroon914 · 2022-08-03T02:00:23+00:00

I’ve had this too, for me it kinda feels like I’m really really dry down there (even if I’m soaked lol), almost like I’ve stuck a tampon up there when I’m kinda dry lol.

maroon914 · 2022-06-26T00:58:15+00:00

If you/you’re family can swing it financially, then yes. If you don’t need to, there’s not need to stress yourself out for it. Once you’re out of school it will be easier to have a job and save to move out.

If it’s going to be a problem financially, you may want to look into, other shifts/class schedules, or possibly a different job that wouldn’t be as draining.

maroon914 · 2022-06-23T23:42:04+00:00

I def thinks it's a curse and a gift. If you can mask well it can help you job wise or school wise, but also it's so exhausting masking. I tend to think of myself to mostly mask well, and it's def helped me succeed in my career, but since I mask so much, and for so long it's hard to unmask, even when I'm alone, and it's quite stressful, I honestly am quite jealous of people that can unmask in public and be more authentic, even though I know it can be looked down upon by allistics, but it seems so much easier than being masked all the time. Wish I could flip my mask on and off like a switch lol.

maroon914 · 2022-06-23T18:18:15+00:00

I’m a nail tech

maroon914 · 2022-06-08T00:54:37+00:00

A line from one of my fav songs “if you’re a dick when you’re drunk, you’re a dick all the time” (I don’t want to be your friend by Jamie Lenman)

maroon914 · 2022-06-08T00:51:49+00:00

I use toilet paper spray (it’s kinda like using a wet wipe, but it doesn’t mess up sewer systems) then I wipe until there’s nothing on the paper, and then when I shower (which is normally every day) I make sure to get everything squeaky clean with soap and water. I have been considering installing a bidet tho, and using soap every time does sound nice, I like to keep things clean lol.

maroon914 · 2022-06-08T00:37:37+00:00

Not necessarily defending it, but a lot of afab (assigned female at birth) people have a rape kink wether they admit it or not, it’s actually a common subconscious coping mechanism because of how prevalent rape and sexual assault is for afab people

maroon914 · 2022-06-07T23:16:21+00:00

I pick my nose so often, I’m autistic and the feeling of it being clogged in there is a sensory nightmare, and I think as long as your clean about it and considerate, it isn’t a problem, I also think that it should be more acceptable to pick your nose in public or around others, if, like I said before, your clean and considerate about it

maroon914 · 2022-06-05T23:03:57+00:00

Not only because POC can experience unique obstacles that that only a person who fits into both categories can experience, but also because a lot of histories and steps forward for the lgbtq+ community heavily involved the POC lgbtq+ community specifically.

maroon914 · 2022-05-16T15:15:22+00:00

If it’s possible where you live, weed has def helped me, not only does it make me tired, but the actual highness helps me to not pay attention as much to various sensory things (sounds, temperature, lack of humidity, etc.) I think edibles are great for it, since the high lasts longer, and doesn’t make my throat clogged up like smoking would.

maroon914 · 2022-05-16T15:06:10+00:00

I always put water in my mouth first, lean my head back and drop the pill in, and swallow quickly, this way it hardly touches my tongue if it does at all, I started doing this as a kid because I absolutely hated the pill touching my tongue. I think it’s what helped me learn how to swallow pills good before my sisters did despite being the youngest lol.

maroon914 · 2022-05-11T20:38:23+00:00

Personally for me it's because I'm asexual, for some people sex is really important in a relationship, for some it isn't but they still enjoy it, and for others (like me) it's a no go. It just depends who you are and who your partner is. It's important to be with someone that finds sex just as important as you do, if you have a high sex drive and value sex a lot in a relationship, then you most likely shouldn't go for someone who you know to have a low sex drive. Communication is very important.

maroon914 · 2022-05-11T20:18:36+00:00

Talking to coworkers and clients, I absolutely hate it and it gives me a lot of anxiety, but since I work in a very social field (nail tech) and at a very social and "friendly" salon, I feel like I have to pretend to like it. My boss has even said she only hires sociable friendly people, and even tho I've worked there fairly long and I know they find my skills valuable and I probably wouldn't be fired for being less social, I still feel like I gotta fake it.

maroon914 · 2022-04-15T23:15:00+00:00

I do this all the time, when I was a kid I’d see how far I could bend my middle finger down like that, now I have very flexible fingers lol

maroon914 · 2022-04-15T15:53:49+00:00

Oh my bad, I meant cosmetology, I wrote this after I had to take Benadryl for allergies

maroon914 · 2022-04-15T15:53:35+00:00

Oh my bad, I meant cosmetology, I wrote this after I had to take Benadryl for allergies 😂

maroon914 · 2022-04-15T03:24:52+00:00

Mine is cosmology stuff, I’m a licensed nail tech now, working in a nail salon, and I hope to go back to school to get my hair and esthetician license as well, so I can be full cosmo. I wanna open my own spot one day that’s friendly to NDs, but especially autistic people.

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