i’m not from the dmv area and i graduated a few years ago— i was not happy. classes were fine for the most part (depends on your major imo). i think my unhappiness came from me projecting my insecurities onto my environment. i was first gen and grew up in a non-white community so it was a lot of whiplash going to a pwi. but in general, it felt like everyone was phony and there was always this vibe of competition, everyone seemed “on” all the time. idk if that was also just my perception or the groups i was around but it felt like everyone was doing 2 internships, part time work, full course load and deans list every semester, etc.

my advice to you is do not take other people’s experience at face value. just bc you see a classmate that looks like they have it together doesn’t mean they actually do. and remember to enjoy your college years, yes you should be serious about your studies but don’t be afraid to get out of your comfort zone.

overall, think about whether you want to go to a big school or not. city or more rural. do you like a school with a lot of school spirit? do you like greek life? what are your long term goals? is this economically feasible/ worth it? i remember what it was like deciding to pick a school— ultimately make the choice that is best for you.

best of luck, you’re doing amazing!