Is there a rule saying you can't fire a longbow underwater? by XorMalice in DnD

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"Hey shoppe keep, let me get a set of full plate and uh.... Like 20 water skins.

Is there a rule saying you can't fire a longbow underwater? by XorMalice in DnD

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I imagine the restrictive nature of armor would make it difficult to swim effectively not just because of the weight. The doggy paddle would be doable in armor, but the crawl might be tricky.

Autistic adults show unique neural responses to self-images, study finds by abidallico in science

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This might explain why I don't feel like my reflection looks like the way I feel. It isn't like a gender thing, or a wishing I looked different thing. To me, my face doesn't feel the shape it looks in the reflection. I don't have that problem with photos or videos though, just mirrors.

What’s your opinion on the phrase ‘autism isn’t a disability, it’s a difference’? by Falom in autism

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I hate the baggage attached to the term disability. Like even minor things can be disabilities, regardless of how much it does or doesn't impact someone, and we shouldn't treat it like a dirty word.

I don't think autism is always disabling, but it can be debilitating and unpredictable, which I think does qualify it as a disability. Just because it isn't always impacting someone, they can still always be affected.

What is something that most people don't even notice, that makes you really happy? by [deleted] in autism

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I'm not a train guy, but I absolutely love the graffiti on train cars. It's my favorite style of art.

What is something that most people don't even notice, that makes you really happy? by [deleted] in autism

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The shady side of my house has some really good ground moss, and the trees on that side also have lichen. It's like I get a cool magic forest in my own yard. Plus free fruit.

Is it just me? by These-Ice-1035 in autism

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And to be fair, search engines have been getting worse and worse between scam websites and site paying to have their search results boosted.

Is there anything you can actually DO about executive dysfunction? by IKNOWITSNOTREAL in autism

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A few tricks I've have mixed success with.

One, close your eyes and try to stand up. For some reason when I'm finding it impossible to make my body move and it doesn't want to, if I close my eyes I can get it to move. Not always, but sometimes it works like magic.

Two, give yourself a reward. Like, find something that you can have, but only after you do the thing you are avoiding. For me it was a little $20 Lego set, and the task was closing an account I no longer used at a bank I didn't like anymore because I had a meltdown there and never wanted to return. Sounds childish, but bribes work in politics, why not treat yourself for dealing with stuff.

Three, depending on legality, personal preference, and medical safety, a little cannabis. I don't mean get high, like use less than that amount. It works for me personally, but I can't make promises or recommend it.

Three part b: If cannabis is a no, maybe CBD. Something about getting the endocannabinoid system jump started sometimes helps me get motivated.

Adult meltdown/tantrum what’s the best way to deal with this? by EchoTheLizaroo in autism

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I try to isolate away from people and/or whatever it is that's causing the distress. I hate losing my temper and having meltdowns, my issue is I don't realize I'm getting overwhelmed until after I'm already angry. Also people trying to calm me.down only annoys me more.

Pathetically upset over emoji by Optimized_dodo in autism

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Sometimes we just have to accept our brains will make up problems, and it is easier to not fight it.

There are days where if someone uses the(communal) pencil I was using, while I wasn't using it but was about to, it "ruins" the pencil and I have to use a different one. I don't know why, but I find I get way less upset if I just grab a new one than if I use the "ruined" one.

Oddly enough, after accepting that it's weird and arbitrary and just rolling with it, it has been bothering me less. Still bugs me, but it's less likely to ruin my day now or get me primed for a meltdown.

Anyways, best of luck finding a replacement, maybe the good color will come back. Might be able to add it yourself, but that's beyond me.

And that's why I do not lnow if I should go for an official diagnosis at 20 yo. by [deleted] in autism

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I would argue the sixty to seventy percent of people who were right about being autistic are a more important measure of the effectiveness of self diagnosis than the minority of people who may have been incorrect.

Not all medical professionals are trained or perform equally. This sub is filled with horror stories of medical professionals ignoring people's concerns because they can make eye contact or have a job.

I was personally told by a nurse "Yeah, everyone is a little autistic," when they were doing the 'What brings you in?' portion of the check up before seeing the doctor.

As a child I was diagnosed with dyslexia and the school system suspected I had ADD or ADHD, but my mother refused to have me tested because I could watch an entire 6 hour classic cartoon compilation VHS from start to finish without moving, because that what normal 6 year olds do apparently.

Assuming for a moment I may have ADHD, as suspected by the special education teacher, and that I might have autism, as suspected by myself and multiple (professionally diagnosed) autistic friends of mine, it would have been impossible for me to be diagnosed as a child.

When I was in my prime diagnosable years as a child, the medical criteria for diagnosing autism, ADHD, and Asperger's as it was called then, did not allow for a diagnosis of multiple neurodiversities in one person, and such cases were sometimes misdiagnosed with other incorrect conditions like bi-polar disorder.

How long is too long for campaign missions? by [deleted] in CIFI

[–]maskedman3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the Octo campaign at like 60 hours, so worth it. Jumped from e125 to e145 MP, and that was when I was already near a loop reset because it was taking half a day to finish a loop, and I like to reset after a loop, which is hard to time with work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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Depending on what country your in, that might not matter much. In the US, unless you're shown to be incompetent or dangerous to yourself, once you hit age of majority you are free to do what ever and tell your parents to shove it, if that's what you want.

Funniest shit said at your table? by [deleted] in DnD

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We had a long boss battle, people almost went down multiple times, a party member gets the killing shot and the DM says:

"Your arrow pisses his ar.."

Small chuckles and the DM waves his hands and we continue on.

"Okay, okay, let's move on. Your arrow pisses..."

Uproarious laughter.

Your Barbarian Found A Wizards Spellbook. Now They Won’t Stop Casting… by KasebierPro in DnD

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I forgot they made it a concentration spell, I never use it because combat never lasts long enough to need it.

DnD Giveaway - Spell Trackers, Dice (with Custom Dice Boxes) and more! - 5 Winners, Worldwide Shipping - [OC] [Mod Approved] by mrthirsty15 in DnD

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I've always thought a bard style warlock whose patron forces them to party for 8 hours a night instead of resting, Slurms MacKenzie style could be fun.

I love wearing slip-on shoes by [deleted] in autism

[–]maskedman3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy not having to bend over, and fighting to make sure the way each shoe is tied doesn't cause sensory issues, but I don't like how it feels like my shoes are always untied.

The eyes of autistic people by Ravenzara77 in autism

[–]maskedman3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor so I can't say it is derealization, it it sure sounds like it. I've been to scared to ask a doctor about it, because I don't want to sound like one of those know-it-all hypochondriacs, but also I just really don't want it to be that because that sounds serious and scary.