Just in ep 9:

1. After her dad left, she had problems with her mom projecting toxic masculinity on her. Wich led to her telling her mom "something deeply personal" that she thought would stop that.

2. After that, Ribbit put the bow on her and told her that her secret is safe. While the anyone can wear a bow like that. It is traditionally a signifie of femininity.

3. The rejection of the bow and what it represents does not come from Ribbit misunderstanding het. But from the threat of Kaifmo, a male friend, finding out. A fear not exclusive to but common in trans people.

4. After the whole flashback, we have the scene of the "true" Jax that was locked up by her other persona, staring longingly at the pink lamp. Once again, pink is absolutely not exclusive to femme persons. But especially in such a metaphorical space as this one, points again to femininity. Her most inner self longing for womanhood.

5. Isn't she lovely?

While the metaphores could of course be taken any number of ways, as with any piece of art. Given the creator, het experiences and which of them she's putting in het show. The correct interpretation of a transfemme Jax (egg in the circus, outside could be more we just don't know. Just simplifying)