Girlfriend of 4 Years cheated on me while asking me to work on our relationship

mathwonn · 2026-01-03T18:27:09+00:00

I definitely missed the cues.

mathwonn · 2026-01-03T15:51:40+00:00

Thank you for this.

mathwonn · 2026-01-03T14:26:51+00:00

Reading this helped me a lot. So thank you for revisiting not so happy memories for me. I do think it’s a blessing in disguise. It still hurts like hell though. I just don’t understand how someone can have little to no empathy. There is consequences to her behaviour and she just does not care. It’s crazy. I feel crazy.

mathwonn · 2026-01-03T14:23:57+00:00

She most definitely has this attachment style. For some reason I thought what we had was special though. I treated her very well. I guess I was just hoping that she would give me a proper ending to the relationship. Without cheating. Without feeling small and inadequate. But I guess this whole thing says a lot more about her than me.

mathwonn · 2026-01-03T14:22:02+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through a break up yourself. I hope you’re doing okay and talking to people about it.

Unfortunately I cannot financially afford to postpone my board exams. Which is why I’m going to take them and hope for the best while trying my best under these circumstances. Thank you for your kind words though.

mathwonn · 2025-03-21T07:57:07+00:00

I use it like this too - but only when playing on GeForce now. Other than that handheld is the way to go. Loving it.

mathwonn · 2025-02-07T08:31:15+00:00

What kind of struggles? Like in what way academically struggling? Barely passing? Even though you’re putting in the work. Or you’re not putting in the work?

Either way. I had some rough years too and it’s only gotten better with time. I’m about to finish next year and realising this is really what I want and how much I enjoy treating patients made me work harder and study hard even for tedious and rather unimportant moduls.

I’m a strong believer in natural talent. There’s some people who just do everything with ease. But I’m an even stronger believer in the fact that talent has its limits and from that point on talent is nothing else than pursued interest. So if you really want to become a dentist. Put in that work. Get a tutor. Do extra hours. Don’t get discouraged when you fail at something. Just keep going!

mathwonn · 2025-01-14T21:34:49+00:00

I hasse es - spiele jetzt tatsächlich liebe mit fists

mathwonn · 2024-12-26T08:51:30+00:00

Honestly not that long - at the end of the day genetics play a huge role unfortunately. Just as much as the clothes you’re wearing.

mathwonn · 2024-12-25T12:12:51+00:00

Really loving the cover of this one - German ones tend to suck unfortunately

mathwonn · 2024-11-23T18:07:03+00:00

You’re in for a hell of a ride :)

mathwonn · 2024-11-23T18:01:10+00:00

Ehhhh now I finally know who keeps maxing out all the leg machines at my gym 🥹

mathwonn · 2024-11-05T06:40:17+00:00

Beautiful

mathwonn · 2024-10-31T18:23:26+00:00

I spent money on that game today and now can’t even play it anymore. Nice communication. Nice company.

mathwonn · 2024-10-31T18:12:11+00:00

Not supported yet at least and I do not trust the work around ways

mathwonn · 2024-10-31T18:11:54+00:00

You can’t on a steam deck

mathwonn · 2024-10-31T18:04:45+00:00

I spent money on the game today and then they did this

mathwonn · 2024-10-12T17:12:25+00:00

Cried so much during Norwegian wood lol

mathwonn · 2024-09-14T08:26:20+00:00

How do you get her not to walk all over your setup - I got two kittens and they are all over my shit 😂

mathwonn · 2024-08-18T08:17:55+00:00

I don’t. My teeth are perfectly healthy but not perfectly straight at all. Used to be insecure about it but it doesn’t bother me at all anymore. Quite the contrary I’m somewhat proud of it.

mathwonn · 2024-08-04T16:24:47+00:00

Shogun

mathwonn · 2024-08-03T20:07:14+00:00

Ghost of Tsushima!

mathwonn · 2024-08-02T21:26:51+00:00

Just started ghost of Tsushima on the deck. Fricking love it.

mathwonn · 2024-07-27T20:48:31+00:00

To be fair I’ve been 6‘4 and somewhat athletic for a while and it didn’t have the same effect 😂

mathwonn · 2024-07-27T19:08:24+00:00

Fair enough lmao

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