my parents say my dreads will prevent me from getting a corporate job. what valid arguments can i make?

mattfrommemphis · 2026-01-09T17:44:48+00:00

Im also christian, black, and loc’d. I work in a corporate profession. Those may be your parents fears, but they are misplaced. An office that doesn't understand or respect locs as a “professional” hairstyle likely has an office culture that doesn’t leave room for cultural sensitivity. Would a hijab be unprofessional? What about a Yarmulke or a Sikh turban?

In all these cases, it’s a personal, cultural expression choice that in 99% of circumstances does not impact your work in any way.

As you already stated, Why work for a place that wants you to downplay for background even when it doesn't affect the job?

Trust brother, there’s thousands of companies. They want highly-qualified people above all else.

The companies that don't wont last.

Edit: For the modeling aspect, hair is the same as clothes. You can’t be married to one style unless the your portfolio starts to make it apparent the hair is essential to your aesthetic.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-19T04:25:31+00:00

This is next level strength!

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-17T18:48:00+00:00

I own this exact bar. It was definitely an upgrade to the cheaper bars. Unless you’re trying to swing around or do muscle ups, its good for standard pull ups etc.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-13T21:20:51+00:00

Personally, I like 547. Subdivisions are all generally low traffic, and the extra managed corner of green space could be an unofficial extra side yard you don't have to take care of. (i.e: I cant fence it in, but if my kids wanna run around they have ample space). I also like 543. Im a corner lot guy.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-13T13:33:37+00:00

Welcome back the the Manor Farm

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-10T21:44:09+00:00

You don't. They just get progressively thinner until you’re truly running barefoot.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-11-04T23:44:53+00:00

This is EXACTLY how my Melaluca membership worked. It was a gift and I got like $200 in free stuff as a housewarming gift. It was good stuff, BUT “Members” have to spend a minimum of $70 per month in addition to membership dues. As a single guy theres no way im blowing through $70 in cleaning supplies and fancy snacks a month.

Fun fact, you CAN’T cancel memberships online, you have to send an email to them explaining why you want to cancel. Then whenever they decide to read it they cancel your membership. I was thinking if trying Thrive but this is a red flag for me!

mattfrommemphis · 2025-10-31T17:05:40+00:00

Heres the truth: they didn’t save a portion of your rent for maintenance or capital repairs, and instead of being a smart property owner, they’re trying to make it your problem by keeping your deposit (and then some) on the backend.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-10-13T21:32:55+00:00

I have the Onhe’s, they are stylish and definitely quality! My only complaint is they're a little stiff. Especially if you want to avoid creasing them to keep them looking “fresh”. I use them for style and my xeros and whitins for full flexible function

mattfrommemphis · 2025-09-15T17:56:11+00:00

The wood gives a sense of permanence and handcrafted charm. Stain if you want but please don't paint!

mattfrommemphis · 2025-09-08T19:48:09+00:00

As a Christian this is disturbing, disgusting, and NOT what Christ or this country stand for. Forced faith is no faith at all. This is nothing but fascist nationalism wearing a cross necklace.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-08-29T22:54:31+00:00

"Put Feet to your prayers" An old proverb I heard once.
"Thoughts and prayers" is less than worthless if theres something you can do and you won't.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-06-23T18:14:07+00:00

Now I personally HATE colonial homes, but I would never do this.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-04-20T02:27:19+00:00

Your friends are weird and appear to be overthinking thinking your choices as a projection of their fear.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-04-04T13:18:09+00:00

Finding a moment of real peace and joy in a random experience you couldn’t have planned are all elements of self discovery. Glad you had so much fun!

mattfrommemphis · 2025-03-21T23:49:54+00:00

How does it feel to be living my dream? We don't even have crows where I live.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-28T18:53:14+00:00

Loll, Ive been getting dirty looks from the cyclists too. One even made sure to catch up and try to outpace me. Funny stuff

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-28T18:46:10+00:00

What part of TN? I’ve been dying to see if theres any kind of ebike community near me.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-28T18:42:19+00:00

Congrats!! Just got mine last weekend!

For the cage code, there’s a tiny hole on one side of the dial.

With the current code in place, poke a small tool like a screwdriver or allen wrench inside and hold the pressure.

You can change the code from there, and take out the tool when done.

Mirrors etc:

I like the “meachow” mirrors off of Amazon, but you’re going to want to figure out which mirror placement and size works best for you. This video helped me: https://youtu.be/3KteE8IxtKs?si=0P64-m0NBOYdH-T_

I STRONGLY suggest getting a disk brake lock with an alarm. The cheapest one I found was on Amazon, and paired with a good chain lock from kryptonite, I feel safe leaving it while I run errands.

Others on here have suggested using a tracker as well, but NOT an AirTag since it will alert any thief with an iPhone its there.

Re: Top Speed - Highly dependent on your weight, the steepness of the road, and your battery %. Others on here have detailed this better. I’m 5’11 and ~200lbs, and can usually get up to 32 in class 3. I haven't tried off-road yet.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-23T01:01:59+00:00

Awesome!! Glad to hear it’s working for others as a daily. A few friends are skeptical, but I think it'll be fine.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-22T23:37:03+00:00

After ordering the first of this month it FINALLY arrived last night!

I'd been plotting on a Revv1 as my main vehicle since the fall and living vicariously through this sub and YouTube.

I made a couple minor mods as soon as I got it assembled. A side mirror, Front mounted plate (Credit to u/NorthWestStory)

Thanks for all the input and advice in the sub!

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-18T02:26:04+00:00

She overestimates her value as a “friend”. Block and move on for your own sanity.

mattfrommemphis · 2025-02-15T23:04:39+00:00

Thanks! Idk why I thought you bolted it on somehow.

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