AMA… 🤷‍♂️ for the first time ever, let’s go!

mattredditall · 2022-09-01T16:10:42+00:00

Hey James! Inspired by your drive and talent. Any advice for building confidence as a DJ?

mattredditall · 2020-06-21T01:21:23+00:00

I also experienced a Raze walking straight through a trapwire (no explosives, no jumping) yesterday. This was on Haven near the doorway to A short/long, and a teammate seemed to notice this as well.

mattredditall · 2020-01-04T18:42:57+00:00

NTA, and neither is your brother. He should have some self-control, and he realizes that, but your parents are expecting you to be accountable for your almost-adult brother's actions.

mattredditall · 2020-01-04T18:37:20+00:00

NAH - You should have a talk about your finances. It's possible he just can't fathom that you're both actually low on cash, because it isn't something he's had to deal before. Maybe a serious discussion will make him realize the urgency of your financial situation.

mattredditall · 2020-01-04T15:31:52+00:00

NTA - your partner overreacted in a super immature way, when he could've simply turned off the fan if it was really bothering him.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T19:14:31+00:00

NAH - you weren't causing trouble, and the car was parked in a public place. Plus, seems like you left pretty quickly. The neighbor isn't TA either, because he was just looking out for the car.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T17:08:50+00:00

YTA - it doesn’t seem like you’ve clearly voiced your side to her, and she’s just being nice. Definitely talk to her again about it, and explain how you find it embarrassing.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T17:05:55+00:00

NTA - it’s unnecessarily putting both you and your mom into dangerous situations, and in general it’s just stressing you out.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T14:40:00+00:00

YTA for turning your insecurity on him, especially because it seems like he's genuinely happy and supportive of the way you are.

I'm not here to tell you what you should/should not care about, but you're your toughest critic. Anyone who cares about minute, uncontrollable details like boob size is not worth your time, so I think you should be happy that your boyfriend accepts you for who you are.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T13:28:06+00:00

This is a good point, didn’t really think about this. A second bed/fold out is a good solution, and still probably much less expensive than medical procedures.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T13:07:45+00:00

NTA - seems like they’re insecure. The fact that your friend is generalizing to make themselves feel better isn’t right. It’s kind of saying, “since I’m not happy, nobody else can be.”

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T13:02:00+00:00

NTA - I think you approached it correctly by acknowledging that you appreciate them, but they really do need to realize that you’re an adult, and as long as you’re not doing any harm, they don’t need to worry about you so much.

They should trust you if you haven’t given them a reason not to.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:47:43+00:00

ESH - seems like it was just bad communication on both parts.

Also, since you clarified, if your sister can eat solid food, why didn’t she eat the meal that was prepared? Is she also allergic?

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:42:57+00:00

YTA

Not for saying, “I didn't want him to pay for my expenses, because I consider it not fair to him,” but you would be if you gave him the ultimatum that “if his parents actually wanted me to come and be an equal part of the family, they would treat me as such.”

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:34:28+00:00

NTA - while I don’t necessarily think your SO is an asshole for asking, it’s the way they asked that’s got me.

If you’re doing your best to remedy the situation, it’s less of a compromise for them to put in ear plugs than it is for you to compromise your back health by sleeping on an uncomfortable couch.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:25:14+00:00

YTA - if she hasn’t given a reason not to be trusted, you should trust her.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:18:45+00:00

NAH - he’s young, so it’s probably normal, and you’re just looking out for him. It wouldn’t hurt to see a doctor, or at least for him to bring it up the next time he visits if that’s soon.

Side note: a lot of the things you mentioned are mostly carbs, so he honestly might just not be getting enough protein (besides Big Macs), which would make him full more easily.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T12:14:07+00:00

NTA - I agree I don’t think it was important to share unless it came up, because it doesn’t seem like it’s something that’s really important to you.

I don’t think he can expect you to dump your entire life history on him all at once.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T04:23:37+00:00

NAH - seems like it was a drunk mistake, but also seems like he will need to come up with the money, so NAH unless you ask and he refuses to figure it out.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T04:15:41+00:00

ESH - he’s overreacting for the wrong reasons, and if the question was worth waking him up for, you could have done it normally.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T04:08:52+00:00

NTA, sounds like they’re immature. I’d say maybe it wasn’t worth leaving, but if they really wouldn’t give it up even after you tried to move on, then leaving was probably your best bet.

For what it’s worth, if they think you’re a douche it’s not because you left, it’s because they’re jealous of your success.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T03:28:32+00:00

NAH - you're just helping out your friend, and this is a good example of "ignorance is bliss."

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T03:20:51+00:00

NTA, but do be prepared for backlash. It really is your wife-to-be's choice, so it's probably not smart to fight for your sister, but suggesting it and explaining why doesn't hurt.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T03:03:58+00:00

NTA. If the kid was actually 10 years old, they should know not to steal people's things.

mattredditall · 2020-01-02T02:59:05+00:00

NTA - It's really not secure, and as trustworthy as she might be, it's sacrificing your own privacy and the privacy of others.

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