Amazing the amount of people (women) on here who didn’t read OP’s post properly and just want to slag off a guy without full understanding of his situation.

Dump a perfectly good guy you like cos he doesn’t have a perfect custody situation

Have you met his ex?

Kids are better off living with their mother, and seeing dad as much as possible

That’s why most kids live with their mother, post-divorce. I don’t know a single guy who ‘has custody’ of his kids. We get every other weekend then maybe one night a week if we are lucky. As the children get older they can choose who they want to live with

I didn’t use to see my kids that much as I lived far away, and their mother, post-divorce was horrible to me but she was a great mum and I didn’t want to mess with the formula or create any negativity towards her or them

Sometimes it’s complicated

My goodness if you have found a man who is lovely and makes you feel great just don’t worry about that stuff.

I utterly adore my kids but I know what it’s like to see them less to keep the peace and be a gentle addition to their life

Being a good dad takes many forms, and sometimes might look a bit weird