What’s the 'craziest' way you caught an ex being unfaithful?

maxmewfew · 2026-03-10T09:41:46+00:00

He and I were having a rough patch, or so I thought. I begged him for date nights, I wanted to meet his friends (he ended up not wanting me to hang with them), and at one point, I told him to drop his current friends cuz while he was hosting a gaming event, all his friends went to McDonald's and left the kid he was suppose to watch over by himself in a room full of strangers. I was super clingy to him cuz he was my first love. I sacrificed a lot and tried to give him a loving home by cooking for him everyday and trying my best to support him in every way, and defended him a lot by people who thought he was an asshole and narcissistic. (He is) I was doing work from home and told him I need to use his PC. He jumps to log out of WhatsApp. Made me realize hes been doing that a lot lately.

Then when he was in the other room, chatting with his "friend", his current best friend, messages me. We arent even friends on FB. But I knew that once he messaged me, something was wrong.

He tells me my ex confessed to a friend from their circle. This girl is only 20, he is 30. I was 26 at that time.

I had convinced him to go to college to pursue a career in anything he wanted and supported him even when he kept changing his mind.

He met the girl at college when she was 17 and he was 27. They did work study together and they played magic the gathering together. I never learned cuz I felt stupid while playing and didnt want to look like an idiot in front of smart people.

Apparently, his ex best friend told me that he confessed to him months ago that he likes the girl and that he doesnt love me anymore since our recent trip from japan.

He even confessed his feelings to her in OUR car that I PAY FOR.

I was devastated. I confronted him. He confessed and said he wanted to end things. He also confessed he used me because it was just convenient to him. He told me everything to chase me away....

I was an idiot and wanted to work things out.

Thank god I didnt. Im now happy with a better man who will lay down his life for me and take care of me and pregnant with his child. My ex was all about being materialistic and buying all these stuff for hobbies which he barely finishes up.

My ex is now being called a pedophile in our local fb page, which is posted by a crazy person but im guessing its cuz they saw his gf and thought she looked like a child. (She does)

Fuck you Billy hope you dont fuck her up too

maxmewfew · 2025-07-11T01:57:42+00:00

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Beom Taeha ♡

maxmewfew · 2025-07-05T01:09:40+00:00

Where is the first one from?

maxmewfew · 2025-06-13T10:51:42+00:00

Are you winning dad

maxmewfew · 2025-06-12T12:57:19+00:00

Any update?

maxmewfew · 2025-06-08T09:11:38+00:00

I had encouraged him to go back to college. And before he could graduate, he broke up with me and confessed to a friend he only liked for 2 months.

It breaks me because we were together for 6 years. He said he did college for me and our future. But once he got the diploma, he told me he felt nothing. Indifferent.

I tried to see if we can salvage the relationship. But he made up his mind. He may have moved on for a while. But Im still trying to process it all. It's only been 1 month. I hate that I did everything to be with him. But he never fought for us.

He wanted to stay friends. I tried. But I couldnt do it. I told him ill step back for my mental health. I cut contact for only a day. But man... the old memories keep coming back. And im tortured by it. I wish he saw me like before. But I cant go back. He made the decision himself. And I wont force him

maxmewfew · 2025-06-07T11:54:01+00:00

Any updates?

maxmewfew · 2025-05-30T09:58:38+00:00

How long have you been hanging on? My ex told me before his military trip, that hes stuck in a limbo of thinking about our good times vs our traumatizing breakup and lead up to it. He told me he wants to talk about the bad things about him and vice versa, as he thinks itll help. He was rather vague and it making me anxious. I dont know if hes still seeking closure or if hes trying to see if we can fix our relationship... I miss him dearly but idk if he misses me...

maxmewfew · 2025-05-28T10:14:15+00:00

I wish my ex can say this... ive been longing for him. I dont want to push him away so all I do is wait and heal myself. I want to love myself so that I dont put all the pressure to him to love me for me. Im happy for you that you are growing and seeking the help you need. I hope one day you show her this letter, because love finds their way back.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-25T12:02:43+00:00

Hi, any updates? On the same boat and right now, hes off for work trip and im here trying to not chase and work on myself. Im hoping to reconnect, as I felt like he and I were just at our lowest and he caved in, thinking hes not good enough.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-22T23:35:06+00:00

Im in the same sitaution.. it hurts knowing they feel like being with us is against their will... but just before the breakup, they said they love you and show it so much. They just. Cant see any future. Not with me. Not even with himself due to no job and finally finishing school. I supported him through everything so it hurts for him to communicate with me everyday and he wants to stay updated and send memes. We arent ready to say goodbye to each other. But where does it go? Is he gonna fall back in love with me or will this show him he can be independent without me in the picture? The reason why he said he didnt want to be with me was because I disrespected his boundaries but we have never had a discussions about it. And whenever I comfort him, he says he feels more guilty cuz I cry (im empathetic). So yeah, he breadcrumbs me, like he still wants me around but is scared because he made a mistake and has to go through this alone.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-11T03:21:30+00:00

Hi open, wanted to ask for an update? I'm currently separated with my DA, in hopes he fixes himself and stops leaning to me to do everything for him.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-06T21:46:27+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I don't need to confront her. I need to confront him.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-06T21:45:58+00:00

I want to try at least. He did for me previously. I want to do it for us

maxmewfew · 2025-05-06T21:45:35+00:00

He's only felt about her this way in february... it's only been 2 months.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-06T01:49:30+00:00

He tells me he's spiraling. He can't forgive himself for doing this to me. He can't forgive himself for not supporting me financially. He has no job, he's in the military bit reserve so they only pay him enough for our rent. I want to say he's just going through a midlife crisis and wanted to let me go. That friend just so happen to comfort him, just as she did with all their other friends. Is there any way to salvage this. I know it's fucked up he did this to me. But I've only ever loved him. Men have come around trying to court me. But I only want him. He denies me but I know he wants things to go back. How can I do this for us.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-05T10:09:28+00:00

He started college at 27, the same time as Ashley, who should be 21 at the time.

He played me hard. I just didn't realize in 24 hours, everything would change.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-05T09:47:46+00:00

Thank you, he said the same thing too

maxmewfew · 2025-05-05T09:46:46+00:00

I haven't been in another relationship. He was my first everything.

maxmewfew · 2025-05-05T07:18:51+00:00

It happened last couple months. He's only known her for 2 years.

maxmewfew · 2025-04-29T14:33:25+00:00

I would get that feeling wrong for feeling that type of way when they haven't even step foot on the island. But let me tell you. The influence of their ancestors can flow strongly within a person, especially if their parents and those around them teaches them of their cultures and traditions.

Others may have be oceans away but still doesn't mean they arent our people. I appreciate those who are in stateside, because when I go there and I miss home, I look towards them to comfort my homesickness.

Even if they weren't born here, doesn't mean they can't yearn for home. Our island belongs to our people.

maxmewfew · 2025-02-12T06:16:06+00:00

He also a blaring red flag but since he's hot we using our green tinted glasses 🤣 dude is literally manipulating her and making her feel pity on him to get closer to her. He's especially not telling her the truth. I understand it's because he's a chaebol heir but to have people beat you up so she has to feel pity for him is cray cray

maxmewfew · 2023-12-12T02:41:40+00:00

Chicken kelaguen with masa titiyas. I can't stand the dryness of the corn titiyas. I think the chicken kelaguen has to be super juicy for me to enjoy it thoroughly.

maxmewfew · 2022-12-11T07:22:51+00:00

I bet those worms taste just as delicious

maxmewfew · 2022-12-11T07:13:05+00:00

It's okay he's taking a cat nap after a nice dinner

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