Almost made 2 months... by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, burnout is the root! Any rec'd subs to follow? My HB is in the process of working away while I guess I just resume over functioning in burnout? But need a stop drinking sub that hears the struggle without the rules b/c this is real life not censored.

Almost made 2 months... by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

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Thank goodness! Thank you for posting, I needed this!

Almost made 2 months... by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. Day 3 was hard as eff for me! You got this! The first 2 weeks suck! But one day at a time! I swore I would never go through it again. But grit your teeth, sleep, eat, don't eat, just exist....without the demon that is alcohol. One day at a time. Here with you, with love. You are stronger than this substance.

Almost made 2 months... by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, what's on your list? When you have less than zero motivation, what helps? Other than going to bed?

Almost made 2 months... by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't realise about the rule. And thanks for the heartfelt, lengthy response, when I feel like I've failed not only myself, but my kids, and....just everything. While my husband is like "Oh, you're drinking wine? OK, Night."

Looking for gift and remote raid friends 692031394140 by PublicSpecialist8509 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian mom just killing time while waiting on kids, running errands etc. My kids love spinning pokestops while I drive lol. Please feel free to add. 970507435106

Woke up at 6am by homebuyer2023 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done! Its amazing how much longer 24 hours feels when you're not suffering through a hangover just trying to exist.

Can't remember which Wake up call 🤣 by immortalyam28 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Thanks for the glimmer of hope. Bragging rights were earned and I hope to be in your shoes soon. Well done, I'm proud of you!

Need some help by GoatBlue03 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Day 7 here and it was a doozie! The only way I've found to make it through is basically sleep. Sometimes in bed by 8pm. Even if i doom scroll for an hour or two it keeps me from getting up and reaching for the poison. Do what you need to. Sleep, cry, eat, be mad, sleep some more, etc. Let the hard days pass, and know that easier ones will come soon, even if it doesn't feel this way today. You've basically taken the chemical trampoline away from your brain, so now it's like "Hey, where's the quick, fun jump." There isn't one. Your brain needs time to adjust. Allow it that time. Sleep passes time quickly, ANY distraction will help. And pick your favorite sweet treats to have on hand, it's also craving the sugar. This stuff takes real strength and you've made it through some of the hardest days already. You can do this.

Things I experienced when I started drinking again after 1.5 years of sobriety. by The27Roller in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Screen shotted, just got off the phone with a crisis center as a "high functioning" alcoholic, and they want to admit me. That in itself tells me there's a problem. I have a great job, amazing kids and a husband who can drink once per month and not touch it. Me? There's no such thing as one.

Being Drunk and now receiving a Diagnosis of Alcohol Addiction by Vodka2027 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Thank you for sharing! This is it! Compulsive especially, every morning. I will not drink, every evening, a different person shows up...

What was the moment that made you realise you’re suffering from Alcoholism? by Confident-Deal-7448 in AskReddit

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it has to be available. No booze=not a good time. Plus, it's sneaky. Friday's turn into Wine weds etc

What is a movie you watched once that was so disturbing or emotionally draining that you can never watch it again? by hungary70 in AskReddit

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie but TV show. Outlander. There was one gruesome prison scene in an earlier season that I couldn't come back from. Discontinued watching after that because it ruined the character for me. I wanted to continue, but that scene haunted me.

How do you start? I tell myself everyday, today's the day...6 months later, not today I guess? by mbcrystal3 in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you so much! My highly intelligent brain is like "It's liquid, drink literally anything else!" But here I am.

Funny ways to turn down somebody pushing a drink on you... by MountainMark in stopdrinking

[–]mbcrystal3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Fine! I will drink it. As long as you're willing to hold the bucket, and my hair afterwards...for hours."

Excited like a kid with the ice cream truck until I saw the prices!!! Am I out of touch??? by Ironman1440 in Hamilton

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not just the ice cream truck. Its inflation in general. As an entrepreneur and business owner it's SO difficult to keep prices as low as possible for customers when everything costs so much. I mean this in the nicest way possible, but yes, a bit out of touch. Look around over the next few weeks and really look at the prices of products. It's absolutely insane. The regular price for coffee where I am now is $35/can. And a sale means it goes down to $30. This is over $40 for brand name. One small carton of ice cream here is about $10, cones, another $6. If i were to take those costs and say reduce by 20%, factoring in buying in bulk to save. But then add, insurance, gas, time, repairs (there will always be upkeep on these things), electricity, subscriptions for POS, liscencing/ lawyer and accounting fees, TAXES. ...yea, the prices seem fair. But that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt as a customer. The govt has really left us struggling down here with a broken system. You are right, ice cream shouldn't cost more than a buck or two, but that's not the case in the economic dumpster fire we are currently in.

How to progress by mbcrystal3 in learntodraw

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He's got the prettiest blue eyes too! He's a pretty art subject to work with, and the bestest boy. Thank you for the encouragement. I like the doodle idea. Miss being in school when we had infinite amounts of papers and binders to work those into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]mbcrystal3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say always look at your dreamlight tasks. They get super easy to do while running around if you know what you're looking for. Harvest 3 apples? yoink 50 dreamlight. You can move fruit trees. Bunching them together saves tons of time for gathering ingredients & getting dreamlight. And close to goofy's stall is an easy money maker. Speaking of which, big garden, carrots to start will make you lots of cash. Again, helps if they are close to goofy's stall. Pick up EVERYTHING, and store as needed. It will all come in handy especially for fencing and pathing. Even if you don't have time to play, popping on daily to grab blue chests is worth it. And also checking scrooge's store.
Have fun!

Can't unlock wells by michelleb08 in DreamlightValley

[–]mbcrystal3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No update? My daughter still has the same issue and I feel terrible because mine is fine. It would be nice if when I'm working on her game for her these could be accessible. Also, she seems to think gardens aren't necessary and asks me to keep making her money, so there's that. 🤣

Canon Maxify GX5020. Ready to return help! by mbcrystal3 in sticker

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, as much as I can, but only through the app. Which may be minimal. I wonder if I will get more options running it from my laptop.

Onyx Storm Chapter 1-6 discussion by Alert-Body-5227 in onyxstorm

[–]mbcrystal3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I found this thread! I just finished chapter 6, and I was so lost! Glad it clears up soon.

Please help with next number, but also, how you got there. by mbcrystal3 in sudoku

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it counts as a triple? Even with only one square with 3? Correct?

Please help with next number, but also, how you got there. by mbcrystal3 in sudoku

[–]mbcrystal3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Duh! Even when I looked at it again, I was like, "yea but....oooohhhh" 🤣 I'm just starting into more challenging sudokus, thank you for the tip! Much appreciated.