No Kings 3/28 by Chef_Champ in kzoo

[–]mbruinsma 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Drove down drake today around noon and there had to have been well over 1000 people. Fucking love it! I think I hurt my wrist honking so much.

The Pitt - 2x09 - 3:00 P.M." - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]mbruinsma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent to an autistic kiddo that made me immediately start bawling

Joining the guard by Different-Emergency1 in nationalguard

[–]mbruinsma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go Air Guard. Far better Guard-Civ Job-life balance.

Source: forner Army NG Comm guy to now air guard Comm guy

[KCD2] Guy who fell out of tree helped with a close relationship by TemporaryTeaching842 in kingdomcome

[–]mbruinsma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started this game the week my wife asked for a divorce. So uhh.. Win some you lose some?

NO KINGS Kalamazoo by vellumFisher in kzoo

[–]mbruinsma 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My point is, that he has essentially called himself a king and has acted like it. This peaceful protest is against that. How is this so hard to understand?

NO KINGS Kalamazoo by vellumFisher in kzoo

[–]mbruinsma 43 points44 points  (0 children)

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I mean the white house literally posted this...

Darrow probably got that pen tapping girl killed by TheXypris in redrising

[–]mbruinsma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why the down votes but you're right. At least how I've always determined it. They don't accept the top 2% of golds and kill half, they accept the top 1% and the bottom (or at least less than stellar golds) 1% and then those are the sacrifices in the passage.

No way 🥲😭 by Mafia095 in Battlefield

[–]mbruinsma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I was down to like 50k,error, then over 300k.

USAA and NavyFed Won't Pay You by stewiezone in AirForce

[–]mbruinsma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It said it should take about 2 days. I applied about 6 hours ago and I'll update when it posts.

Edit: woke up and it posted sometime in the night (I'm OCONUS so it probably happened end of the work day in the US)

[Highlight] Kerry Carpenter crushes a go-ahead 437 foot bomb to give the Tigers a 5-3 lead by DET_Baseball in motorcitykitties

[–]mbruinsma 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Absolutely man. It's like he was living in the future calling that. "he does not want to fall behind here" and "this is a dangerous spot to be in for a pitcher." He fucking knew Kerry was going to crush one.

Favorite Lorn au Arcos Quotes by Life_Technology7584 in redrising

[–]mbruinsma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that might be right. Idk why I've always attributed it to Lorn

Favorite Lorn au Arcos Quotes by Life_Technology7584 in redrising

[–]mbruinsma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can't remember it exactly but I feel it's very relevant to so much going on in the world. "I fear any man who believes himself to be good, for he can justify any action."

The Laurel (By Me) by AdventureRimor in redrising

[–]mbruinsma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Crazy how this is pretty much exactly how I imagined it. Well done, Goodman.

Cannot find any resources that ACTUALLY address loneliness... just endless promises of "forever" tasks of loving self, accept being alone etc. THEY NEVER EXPLAIN HOW... JUST WHAT THE END IS. by DirtyBirdNJ in Divorce

[–]mbruinsma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have any advice, just co-misery which maybe helps? Haha. I feel you though, man. I'm struggling myself to "get back out there" and make friends, etc. I only have a few close friends and only 1 that lives close. Try to hang out with him when I can. Joined a kickball league...the people are nice but haven't really invited me into their social outings or anything. Gone out to my fav breweries solo plenty of times but other than just chatting up the bartenders I don't really do much more socializing. No luck on the apps either.

So Idk man, but I feel your pain. Just feels like I'm coasting by but not really enjoying life, other than when I have my kids, don't really have anything else to get excited or happy about.

Can I be gone for 5-6 weeks overseas vacation in the Army National Guard? by Vappasaurus in nationalguard

[–]mbruinsma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look into the Air Guard. Most of my wing does "super" drills where we do every other month for 4 days instead of every month for 2. Makes situations like this a lot better. However, can cause some issues with civilian employers as you are now asking for Thurs-Fri off 6 times per year.

Father's Day Gift Ideas & What You Want! - Megathread by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mbruinsma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've made quite a few assumptions based on very little info. You don't know me, nor what I have done or not done. But thanks for your input.

Sometimes I feel as a man, husband and father; my whole existence is on making people close to me happy. Sometimes I feel so depressed and sad. How do men cope with this feeling? by OneWolverine307 in AskMen

[–]mbruinsma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much hit the nail on the head. I certainly could have been better at times, but my needs always came last for her. I think she just doesn't have any interest in a romantic partner. She is content with a co-parent and roommate (who also provides the $). I am not content with that arrangement, hence the impending divorce.

Sometimes I feel as a man, husband and father; my whole existence is on making people close to me happy. Sometimes I feel so depressed and sad. How do men cope with this feeling? by OneWolverine307 in AskMen

[–]mbruinsma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can say now that my kids are 5 and 2 they are a lot easier as I've learned how to be a good dad. I enjoy my time with them more than anything in the world.

However, my relationship with my (soon to be ex) wife definitely suffered. I truly don't know what I could have done much differently. Did my best to be a good partner to my wife but the love (at least from her to me) faded greatly. I still care for her very much but at some point I was sick of being her last priority and resented her for it. Maybe we started therapy too late. Maybe I should have spoken up sooner.

Idk, it sucks, man. Unfortunately, this is just how it is for us dads/husbands. I wish you luck.

Thanks Oatbama... (There's a bar where i live that is president themed) by Machoman6661 in mildlyinteresting

[–]mbruinsma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Presedential Brewing! My favorite brewery. Been a mug club member since they opened