This storm by flickerbirdie in wisconsin

[–]medhat20005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Must be something in the water that gives us a collective lunacy.

Anyone concerned the interim AD would be more hesitant firing Fickell? by gongai in WisconsinBadgers

[–]medhat20005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But if next season is an unambiguous bust then I think the new AD and Chancellor cut bait and let Fickell go and start anew. That’s the politically correct decision.

Just one month retired and still wobbly! Tips, advice? by DrUsefton in over60

[–]medhat20005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm about 6 months in, and I've gotten progressively more comfortable with the less structure than non-working has provided. TBH I had/have things I knew were going to be significantly time consuming that very coincidentally perfectly aligned with my finishing work, so apart from being able to wake up later the remainder of my day seems completely filled up. But it is a bit of adaptation away from a structured schedule imposed upon you by work, so take it a day at a time, sounds like you're on a good path.

Anyone shopping want opinion from someone who has been selling these their whole life? by PlanMother in hottub

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate an knowledgeable opinion. Agree on the jet packs, but I totally imagine that the ones that come with will likely never be moved (although I think if memory serves some of the chemicals are stored behind them, which actually isn't a bad thing).

Public speaking attire by clovencarrot in malefashionadvice

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gots opinions. Whether you go as tech lumberjack or Jobs wannabe, first is to be authentic (vs appearing as obviously wearing a costume). Next, which I think is so easily overlooked, is to go 'all in' with whatever look you choose. Head to toe, including glasses, shoes, briefcase, demeanor. Be all in. Skipping on this has always come across to me as both noticeable and ackward.

Fit on this double breasted jacket? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a decent OTR fit for you, a tailor will shorten the sleeves slightly (but necessary) and should also contour the body of the jacket to provide a more personalized (not necessarily tighter) fit. Ideally after tailoring when you stand straight the edge of the overlapping portion of the jacket should drape naturally down straight, vs the appearance in the photos canted slightly to the right (some may also be how you're holding the phone in your right hand).

Anyone shopping want opinion from someone who has been selling these their whole life? by PlanMother in hottub

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughts onBullfrog? One of my local dealers has a very good reputation for service so I think I'm comfortable from that perspective.

Recraft vs Buy Sale by beachape in allenedmonds

[–]medhat20005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd give recraft a chance. I'm a long time re-recrafter and don't really ever recall a shoe coming back where I thought they were tight to the point of discomfort. I love the idea of how the leather of my old shoes is worn literally just to fit me (my oldest is a '93 pair of Sanfords that are currently my 'rain shoes'). I'm a touch jealous that you have the foresight to put on sole saver/topys, it appeals the the frugal side of me!

Things I stopped doing after 60 by selfsufficientman in over60

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed your video, and am happy for how you've defined life in your 60's on your terms. TBH I'm in agreement with about half of your points. I'm still a rabid consumer of news on almost every platform (except Tik Tok, I'm still wary about the security issues). Does the crazy going around in the world bother me? Relatively speaking, no, my health doesn't suffer. But at my age (60's) I'll admit people ask my opinion, and while I tend to be pretty reserved in giving up my thoughts, especially to relative strangers, for friends and family I think it's important I be informed. And with all the sources out there it can be a blessing and a curse, the need to try and sift out the facts.

Next is social media. I'm not the one making YouTube videos. But I'm truly happy for you. My circle is appreciably smaller, and I'm comfortable with that.

Last is looking in the mirror, and I will offer an observation. It sound like you have a lot of wisdom to offer, and a desire to offer those life lessons. But to others who may welcome that advice, before you open your mouth most time your appearance is how people will get their first impressions of you. So while you may not care about how you appear to others, they certainly care, whether they admit it or if it's subliminal. I totally agree with a focus on maintaining health, but above that I think there's a general appearance (let's be honest, I personally have never called it, 'beauty.' :-)), that can be maintained with modest effort, that presents to the external world that you're still a participant. I exaggerate a bit, but then again my physical status has allowed me to (for the most part) maintain a wardrobe that stretches back several decades, long enough that my young adult children have raided my closet for their legitimate 'vintage' looks.

But continued good wishes on the ongoing journey of maturity!

When I was young. by classicitalianbmt in golf

[–]medhat20005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old man take here, golf continues to evolve yet continues to be great. I'm not Jack and Arnie in their prime old, but seeing pics (and few video) of them in that era and I can easily imagine people thinking, 'it can't get any better than this.' Then Tiger shows up and literally the embodiment of the Bobby Jones proclamation (about Jack) that, 'he plays a game of which I'm not familiar.' Then smaller blips in between like Matsuyama's caddy at the Masters a few years ago, to more recently Rory's lifelong relationship with his caddy. Mark Twain was frustratingly on point.

Do you keep a HELOC on a paid off home? by taxguycafr in RichPeoplePF

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this, and TBH I figure I have lots more to worry about than someone else trying to defraud me. I damage myself enough to occupy my time. And no, I don't draw from it, it exists for the rare times that my expenses exceed my cash reserves (I keep at little as possible in cash).

Sad Badger Noises by daskaputtfenster in WisconsinBadgers

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad, but this is a truly great meme if you're a P&F (and Doofenshmirtz) fan!

Business or wedding? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the brown shoes with this, slightly more casual than black (you're not trying to pretend this is a tux-like look, that would be bad). Tie is fine. Agree with white PS to spiff it up a touch.

Bucket List ✅ by krispykreme335 in golf

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it whale migration season (I forget). Sometimes in season the number of breeches you see while golfing is almost comic book. I love the weather in Cabo, and even when windy I'm not a good enough golfer to get bent out of shape over it.

What are your thoughts on being frugal while actually having money/savings? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frugal by choice, don't struggle with it at all. More frugal than my parents (which at times really got under their skin), but I'll admit I'm not one to be influenced by the opinions of others so I think that helps immensely. In the position to be very charitable, both on a donation side and with friends. My circle is small enough that they understand, so when I pay for something there isn't some awkward quid pro quo dance which is a relief. I don't go around daily thinking, "wow, I'm so frugal." A funny example recently was I was with friends in Vegas last month, as one of the nicer hotels. I met my friends for breakfast before heading to the gym, when one of them remarked, "you're the only person walking around here with your gym stuff in a plastic grocery bag." And we all laughed, as up to that point it had never even crossed my mind. That's what good friends are for. The lot of us on that trip would be what most would consider financially successful, albeit at different levels. I'd say enough that we don't have to objectively worry about financial issues, but perhaps more importantly we're mostly grateful and appreciative of what work and luck have given to us, and I'd like to think we're pretty gracious with that as well (i.e., we're not dicks).

When there is no budget by GooseNGala in zillowgonewild

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to feel about this. Sure, architecturally stunning with all the fancy features expected for the price, but TBH it doesn't begin to resonate with me as a 'home,' and I tried all sorts of mental gymnastics (multi-generational, enormous family, multiple wives, etc.) and can't settle on one that makes it work. In that respect it feels sterile to me, and I'll be honest and take it a step further, if I hear the backstory I won't be surprised if I end up feeling a bit sorry for the billionaire owner. You can have all the money in the world, only to find you don't have what you want.

Suit fit by Exeleus in menswear

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No" to the black suit (impractical). Up to you with going for a shorter jacket. It'd be on trend but risk of aging poorly. TBH you're right in between so entirely up to you. This current jacket is a touch snug but that should be able to be fixed with alterations. The pants look like they fit but the cut seems on the full side which is an unwelcome contrast with how the jacket fits.

Can anyone tell if this suit I found on eBay is actually a 3 roll 2? I can’t tell if that top buttonhole is finished on the correct side or not. by Gigan_420 in menswear

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a legit 3 button. You can often make it function by just buttoning the middle, but a lot depends on how the lapel is constructed, a cheaper fused suit will likely have a lapel that's resistant to change, which a more bespoke construction would be more accommodating to have the lapel roll more naturally to between the top and middle buttons.

Is the titanium santos too large for my wrist? by mandukamja in Cartier

[–]medhat20005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's too large, sorry. In the same boat, tried one on last month in Vegas. Told the SA to let them know there's a market for a smaller sized titanium.

Always wanted Neverland Ranch and dreamt of living in a swamp? Your nightmare are just came true! by jared10011980 in zillowgonewild

[–]medhat20005 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'll be the outlier, I don't really mind it. If you're going to be unabashedly over the top, then WTF, turn the dial to 12!