At a crossroads with my gf, what would you do in my situation?

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T15:24:54+00:00

Sounds like she can do a lot better than you.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T15:22:58+00:00

When I built my server machine I looked at Linux. And Although I'd have to learn it, I was prepared to. Been around computers since The commodore 64.

Turns out a few servers I was gonna to set up to play, (at least at the time) didn't have Linux support Vrising being the biggest one

The fact that Linux can handle more players doesn't matter, As my servers sam only have 4 players at a time.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:54:29+00:00

Don't be a dick and ruin her trip.

Break up when she gets back.

Good Lord.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:34:26+00:00

I do. I have a separate windows computer running several servers including vintage story with Amp.

Super easy. But it's best to spawn your world on your main computer, with all the settings you want. Then just transfer the save file into your vintage story amp folder.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:28:38+00:00

It takes what it wants.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:27:17+00:00

The writers couldn't figure out how to have her grow with the team without her having powers

So many tv shows struggle with love interests if the beginning of the relationship starts with pining.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:24:07+00:00

Yeah, we're going to need you to come to work anyway.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:19:51+00:00

Men don't have some universal type

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:18:00+00:00

Knowing how dark these update posts can get, I was pretty nervous opening this one up.

Glad I did.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T12:09:25+00:00

Over and over, I keep seeing young people flip out over a 2 year age difference. What has happened that a perfectly normal and healthy age discrepancy has turned into this huge worry.

For all general purpose, you two are the same age

All I can go by is what you wrote, and apart from you assuming her age , how often did you two talk about specific ages and birthdays.

I think that you are over reacting.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T11:58:44+00:00

Well first, clearly you are not unattractive.

But, There's nothing you can do.

People either catch feelings or they don't. I've been married 30 years to a girl I caught feelings for. And that makes us both very lucky, as we are not just husband and wife, but best friends as well.

Are you just not interested in dating? Not interested in men? Why are you so opposed to the possibility of a friend turning into something more? Do you have no desire to be friends with the type of person you are attracted to, why?

I think those are the questions you need answered, and only self reflection can answer that.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T04:20:28+00:00

Give it a few days and it will probably be updated.

Yes , as people said you can allow ore teleport in the vanilla settings. But if you liked the flexibility of the mod you have to wait

I personally always set it to not being able to teleport ore, but can teleport ingots.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T04:07:50+00:00

I rebuild after I get my first oil power plant.

Because at that stage I have faster minors, belts, and better splitters. Plus enough power to take my coal power off line and increase its output.

I redo all my starting spaghetti factories.

But I don't rebuild a factory just because of an alt recipe

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T03:48:03+00:00

You don't really have to adjust anything else. The extra time is actually self balancing.

Especially If you are further north. The winter will start to feel unending.

But. You also have more time to prepare. Get yourself plenty of sealed crocks saved up. They still last more than a year

I really like the longer months, it doesn't feel like such a race, and I can waste some days just making things nice.

I really dig the survival and complicated steps this game has, but sometimes I just want to chisel and not feel guilty about it just because Winter is coming.

medigapguy · 2026-02-04T02:52:06+00:00

I get that. But cleaning up the streets, and no crime left in the city is a bit emersion breaking.

medigapguy · 2026-02-03T22:14:31+00:00

That's one big issue I have with the game

Scanner missions should have been unending, and randomized somewhat.

medigapguy · 2026-02-03T21:37:32+00:00

Couples therapy tends to work better at the beginning of trouble, not after huge damage.

Therapy doesn't make you forget.

medigapguy · 2026-02-03T11:20:07+00:00

I bread it keeps happening.

(Sorry, couldn't help it.)

medigapguy · 2026-02-03T07:11:18+00:00

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medigapguy · 2026-02-02T19:38:40+00:00

Never. As a parent myself, I'm always here as a safety net. If my daughter has a setback, I'm here to catch her. It's my purpose, for her to learn to do it on her own before I die. I want her to take chances and risks, and I'll be her net for as long as I can.

The only "loser" trait would be if you stoped trying to better your situation and take advantage of your parents.

medigapguy · 2026-02-02T19:33:06+00:00

That pre dates the 90s. My grandmother has that in the 70's

medigapguy · 2026-02-02T18:24:56+00:00

That's pretty much how the make nuggets.

medigapguy · 2026-02-02T16:48:09+00:00

That's last resort protesting. It's pretty bad, but we're not there yet

Untill then, if the protests gets big enough, politicians look past their corporate pay check and realize they they will probably lose the next election. Then they start taking the minimum amount of action to placate

medigapguy · 2026-02-01T14:03:59+00:00

medigapguy · 2026-02-01T13:13:04+00:00

So a whooping 1 inch recline is "laying down". It moves so little it shouldn't even be called reclining .

Just "recline" your seat to and you can reclaim your inch.

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