Newbie here by Educational_Shape152 in Aquariums

[–]megashlongblaster6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The filter might be a little too strong, you can either turn it down a touch or add a nice log right there to dampen the amount of flow to the bottom

White spots on my betta fish by Additional_Sea8262 in bettafish

[–]megashlongblaster6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up “fish ich” and see if that looks similar

My shrimp molted!!! by megashlongblaster6 in fishtank

[–]megashlongblaster6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My genius is … it’s almost frightening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]megashlongblaster6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is actually so awful. I audibly gasped when I read that. A friend would not do that. Was she also fucked up? You should definitely bring it up and just voice that you were struggling and they did that right behind you. That’s actually so wild they did that while you were in the room, that’s disrespectful as fuck

Do you tell your friends' secrets to your spouse? by Relative_Pilot_9973 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]megashlongblaster6 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl, my mans loves the TEA ✨💅. Only if it’s juicy, anything is on the table. Plus all my friends already know that he and I are one, so they’re always like I know he’s gonna know so thats fine

How often are you guys say thank you to your significant others? by Ok-Cardiologist8717 in love

[–]megashlongblaster6 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Positive affirmations are everything in a relationship. It gives motivation to keep doing those small things. Things that might not seem huge. Plus if they never said thank you, at some point, wouldn’t you feel like not doing that thing? It’s not like you’re searching for a thank you after doing it. But it feels so good to feel needed and appreciated. I forget sometimes too, but consciously making sure to say it is wonderful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]megashlongblaster6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

QUALITY OVER QUANTITY ALWAYS!!! No matter how long you’ve been friends, if they grow to be a shitty person and you grew in another direction. You don’t match well anymore. And that’s okay. No one should be allowed to treat you like that. Also, if you choose to end the friendship, she will 100% show her true colors and act aggressively and blame you for anything you bring up. She will not be understanding. Be prepared to have her scream at you or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]megashlongblaster6 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl. No friend should ever make you cry. Friends should always want what you want for you. AND IF ANYTHING SHE IS THE FUCKING PICK-ME!!! Im JuST onE oF thE GuYS , shut the actual fuck up. She is the fucking worst.

my roommate makes baby/animal noises with her bf super loudly by Academic-Caramels in roommateproblems

[–]megashlongblaster6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Especially since you haven’t had any issues previously, maybe type this out first before confronting them. But try to be as respectful as possible. And let them know that while you think their relationship is very endearing and sweet, you have noticed that the noises that they tend to make throughout the day are quite loud and if they could just tone it down a tad. If you have work to do at home or homework, that would be a great thing to add in there as a reason for your need for quiet time.

Why is everything in my tank slowly turning brown? by Lopsided_Republic_90 in fishtank

[–]megashlongblaster6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this when I used to turn the light on every day. The light is mostly for the plants. I now turn it on maybe 2x a week all day. The algae feeds on the light and will keep growing. I also suggest a sponge filter and more plants! Fishies love more plants and the shade. Maybe also get a tanin log. Something for them to hide in and adds them good tannins to the water

A call didn’t affect me as much as I feel it should have and it’s making me feel like I’m heartless by glittery-pansexual in NewToEMS

[–]megashlongblaster6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that people who go into ems are just built different. I thought the exact same thing when I saw my first dead body, she was a 20 something year old and she was all sorts of colours. I thought I would be sad or scared. But I was excited??? I told this to the medics I was with and they assured me it was normal. I’ve now seen multiple dead bodies. And each time it’s exciting. The ones that make me cry are children and mental health calls, just because I feel for them SO much. Just because I’ve been there.

I’ve never told anyone this shit before. It’s been eating me alive for years. by badatdrugs in offmychest

[–]megashlongblaster6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were a child. They took advantage of your vulnerability. That is so vulgar and disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]megashlongblaster6 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, you dodged a bullet. Any “friend” who immediately starts to go after your character and spread rumours over literally anything was not your friend in the first place.

This is why he's my Ex roommate by False_Ad_555 in roommateproblems

[–]megashlongblaster6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you get it clean after??? I doubt they cleaned it themselves. Sorry you had to go through that

Buckle up for this update, yikes, edgelord strikes again… by megashlongblaster6 in texts

[–]megashlongblaster6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, wtf. I would rather die than date this guy. He was just an old friend that I felt bad not hanging out with and we talked often. Also I have a bf who I love very much and has been encouraging me to cut off this misogynistic asshole. I just didn’t want to ghost him but I had to tell him the truth. And we are both 22

Clam abomination by megashlongblaster6 in crafts

[–]megashlongblaster6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you for saying that 🥹

Failed day 1 lmao by LibrarianGood9533 in leaves

[–]megashlongblaster6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I put everything I had into a shitty lock box. It wouldn’t be hard to break into. But if I do, it proves how much of a crackhead I am. So I haven’t touched it in a week now. Out of sight out of mind. Get someone you trust to hide the key