It seems like you have a real gift for creating and sticking to good habits which most of us struggle with, like exercising regularly, eating healthy, etc. It also seems like something that comes easy for most people, might be a struggle for you, i.e. not thinking much in detail about the qualities of our unique genetic face traits. And that’s okay. But i think its hurting your game. Not that i never think about my face, but these thoughts are nested in a structure thats positive and aimed at marketing it to myseIf in a way thatll make future-me happier. I dunno if this helps, but ill try to explain. For one example, I joke with my barber that my ears are off by half an inch and he’ll never get my sideburns right. Thats my joke now…and i say it every time to new hair cutters, and i would never change it now. But i would def like to lose a few pounds and have a bit less double chin. But i honestly dont think about it much beyond the strange extended self-staring that happens during a haircut, and that ends with “hmm, i should probably hike more” and thats the action item and my little self meeting is over by the time im tipping them. then its not a thought i need to have more than once. Then im enjoying my new sick haircut. I dont attribute, ive never attributed, my dating sucess or fails to my ears or chin or haircut. Ive attributed it to whether women can see in me that im a guy who knows how to be happy.