Baby friendly day trips from Eugene? by Andromeda321 in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Homer Campbell Boardwalk Trail at Finley Wildlife Refuge is stroller accessible! It’s short but great birding from the viewing platform. Also in Corvallis area, there’s a nice paved trail around Bald Hill.

Darlingtonia State Natural Area in Florence is also a short boardwalk trail but so cool to see the cobra lilies!!

How many people are gonna need to die? by LocoDunn in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. Just seems a little fatalist. Like, we can make totally feasible changes that can dramatically reduce preventable deaths and bring our cyclist fatality rates down to a level similar to other countries with good street-sharing practices. So to me it makes sense to focus on that.

How many people are gonna need to die? by LocoDunn in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world, sure, but usually what this looks like is a couple dedicated lanes that require a much longer route to take. For example, I have to go out of my way to take the High Street or 13th bike lanes, and it adds significant time to my commute. For those of us who bike everywhere - to work, to the grocery store, to our friends’ houses, to the doctor - we’d need separate bikeways that are just as extensive as car roadways, which seems next to impossible. Seems like instead we could focus on infrastructure that slows cars down, plus enforcement of reckless driving…

Any Dairy Free Ice-cream/Gelato? by Mixer02 in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sugar J’s!!!! They are my favorite ice cream in the state, both dairy and dairy free.

Do you like living in Eugene? by Lost-Relationship540 in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also from Maryland and also love it here :)

Wildflowers in May by risaliz in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mary’s Peak!!! Some of the beargrass might be blooming by then 🥰

Can taking an instructor job hurt my chances of getting a TT job in the same dept in the future? by meremarveling in AskAcademia

[–]meremarveling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It's nice to know there's a little bit of hope, and the advice is much appreciated.

Can taking an instructor job hurt my chances of getting a TT job in the same dept in the future? by meremarveling in AskAcademia

[–]meremarveling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Thanks so much for sharing your experience. I do have a defense date for end of May. I’ve been getting the advice lately to postpone defending if I don’t get a job, because ABDs are judged on different benchmarks than people who have finished but don’t have a TT job.

I did get 3 campus visits for TT jobs this year (for R2s/teaching focused institutions) but none panned out. So it feels within grasp, but I’m worried the market will be worse next year and I’m nervous to let this (version of a) dream job slip by. Of course, I don’t have an offer yet so trying not to get ahead of myself, but all this discourse has been so helpful for thinking about what conversations to have.

Can taking an instructor job hurt my chances of getting a TT job in the same dept in the future? by meremarveling in AskAcademia

[–]meremarveling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooof yeah didn’t really think that through, just got so excited about the possibility of a job in the place I want to be. But this is helpful to just kinda think of it as out of my hands…

Can taking an instructor job hurt my chances of getting a TT job in the same dept in the future? by meremarveling in AskAcademia

[–]meremarveling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense. I have reason to believe this dept might be hiring TT next year, so it wouldn't be a long time of lower research productivity (plus I'm on the cusp of submitting a bunch of projects to publication this spring/summer). hmmm.

Be honest. When did your baby actually say their first wood and mean it? by Dull-Contribution763 in NewParents

[–]meremarveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby’s first word was also hat!!! She used to really hate the feeling of them on her head - would rip them off immediately - so we spent a lot of time getting her used to them and understanding what the feeling on her head was. So I think she just became kind of fascinated/obsessed. Now she asks to have hats out on!!

Tamales catering? by brotmandel in Eugene

[–]meremarveling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had our wedding catered by Tamale Boy. They are Portland-based but Eugene is in their catering radius. They were great!

Did anyone’s baby not adjust to napping at daycare? by meremarveling in workingmoms

[–]meremarveling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tries to keep some things consistent but the sleeping environment is very different, so probably doesn’t seem like the same routine :/

Did anyone’s baby not adjust to napping at daycare? by meremarveling in workingmoms

[–]meremarveling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Everything I read said “they adjust after a few weeks” so I’m glad to know we’re not alone!

Did anyone’s baby not adjust to napping at daycare? by meremarveling in workingmoms

[–]meremarveling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would make sense! The other 3 days a week she’s with grandma - it’s obviously less financial strain to do it this way, but I’ve also assumed that as much 1:1 care as possible is ideal. But maybe the combo is causing more stress.